
The Art Of Becoming Series Hosted By Stefanie Garcia
By Stefanie Garcia
Each episode equips you with:
Inspiring stories and practical tools to navigate your transformation.
Unfiltered conversations about the realities of personal growth.
Actionable steps to bridge the gap between your dreams and reality.
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Why You've Been Told You're "Too Much" (And How It's Killing Your Creativity)
Have you ever been told you're "too much"?
Too loud. Too creative. Too emotional. Too different.
What if those very things are actually your greatest gift?
In this episode of The Art of Becoming Series, I sit down with actor, producer, and community builder Tony Reimonenq III for a conversation about creativity, authenticity, identity, and what happens when we stop shrinking ourselves to fit into the expectations of others.
We talk about why creativity isn't just for artists, how we all create the lives we're living, and why reclaiming who you really are is one of the most creative things you can do. We also dive into the fear of being "too much," finding the courage to express yourself, creating community, following your ideas before you feel ready, and why our humanity matters now more than ever in a world that's changing so quickly.
Whether you've been feeling disconnected from your creativity, questioning your purpose, or simply trying to figure out how to show up more authentically, I hope this conversation reminds you that you were never meant to fit into someone else's box.
Tony Reimonenq III is a multidisciplinary artist, producer, and community builder based in Louisville, Kentucky. Through his nonprofit, TONYTOPIA, he creates experiences that center creativity, accessibility, and authentic connection. He is passionate about creating environments where artists and audiences feel seen, celebrated, and energized.
Learn more about TONYTOPIA: https://tonytopia.com
Follow TONYTOPIA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/t0nytopia
Follow Tony on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonythethird
If this episode resonated with you, I'd love for you to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs the reminder that they were never "too much." Sometimes the parts of ourselves we've been taught to hide are the very things the world needs most.
About Tony

How Rejection Became The Foundation For Her Success
In this episode of The Art of Becoming, I sit down with entrepreneur and community builder Kelci Borges to talk about rejection, reinvention, and what it really takes to trust yourself when other people don't understand your vision.
Kelci is the founder and CEO of SheRose, a community dedicated to supporting women in business, and the creator of the Breakfast Club, a growing network that helps women connect, learn, and build successful businesses together.
During our conversation, Kelci shares the story of a major turning point in her life and business. While preparing to rebrand her company and step into a bigger vision, she faced public criticism from people she once considered friends. Instead of letting that experience stop her, she used it as fuel to build something even greater.
We talk about the fear of rejection, the challenge of outgrowing old identities, what happens when your worst fears actually come true, and how personal struggles often become the foundation for the work we're here to do.
If you've ever worried about being judged, misunderstood, left behind, or criticized for following your own path, this conversation is a reminder that sometimes the very thing that feels like it's breaking you is actually helping shape who you're becoming.
Connect with Kelci Borges:
Website: https://wearesherose.com
Instagram: @wearesherose
Listen in for an honest conversation about resilience, purpose, belonging, and what can happen when you keep moving forward even after rejection.

The Art Of Recommitting - Ep 31
Have you ever felt the initial burst of motivation for a goal, only to find yourself derailed by life's inevitable curveballs? This episode explores the often-overlooked art of recommitting. We delve into the reasons why we get sidetracked, from the impact of dysregulation on our nervous system to the simple fact that life happens.
This isn't just about setting goals; it's about navigating the messy journey of achieving them. We discuss the importance of self-compassion, the power of reconnecting with your "why," and how to distinguish between a temporary detour and a need for course correction.
Learn how to re-engage with your intentions, reaffirm your choices, and cultivate the resilience needed to keep moving forward, even when things don't go as planned. Chapters
Chapter
00:00 The Importance of Recommitting to Goals
00:20 The Role of Dysregulation in Goal Setting
01:22 Navigating Life's Curveballs
07:13 The Power of Recommitting Over Time
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Instagram: @theartofbecomingseries

The Art Of Self Mastery - Ep 30
Are you a victim of circumstance, or the master of your response? On this episode of The Art of Becoming Series, we deep dive into transforming your reactions into a powerful, proactive responses.
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Instagram: @theartofbecomingseries

The Art of Audacity Featuring Noel Elie - Ep 29
"The Art of Audacity" explores the power of authentic self-expression and the journey to break free from societal constraints. This episode features Noel Elie, an actress and embodiment teacher, who shares her transformative journey from conforming to expectations to embracing her true, uninhibited self. Noelle discusses the challenges of navigating fear and judgment, the importance of community in fostering vulnerability, and the liberation that comes from leaning into the "cringe" and embracing all aspects of oneself, including the shadow self.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Noel Ellie
04:35 Transformation Through Grief and Healing
08:32 Embracing Authenticity and Shadow Work
13:22 The Power of Community and Vulnerability
17:41 Breaking Societal Rules and Finding Freedom
22:10 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Expression
36:57 The Power of Authentic Connections
40:25 Embracing Change and Resilience
42:34 The Journey of Self-Discovery
45:30 Aligning Work with Authenticity
49:48 Navigating Vulnerability and Fear
54:59 The Importance of Community and Support
01:00:00 Breaking Free from Societal Conditioning
01:03:54 Finding Freedom in Authentic Expression
Connect with Stefanie Garcia:
Instagram: @theartofbecomingseries
Connect with Noel Elie:Website: https://www.noelellie.com Instagram: @noel_elie

The Art Of Personal Power - Ep 28
This podcast episode dives deep into what it really means to stand in your power - moving beyond empty slogans.
The episode tackles the root causes of our disconnect from our own power and why we are encouraged to shrink ourselves.
...and why contributing to the world in a meaningful way is not only possible but essential.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the Art of Becoming
00:52 Exploring Personal Power
04:28 Understanding Fear and Familiarity with Power
09:19 Social Conditioning and Its Impact
14:46 The Power of Role Models
19:01 Contributing to the Ongoing Conversation of Life
21:46 Why Your Contribution Matters

The Art Of RESETTING New Years Resolutions - Ep 27
How are your New Year's Resolutions going? 🙋♀️ This is the time of year when many of us are tempted to quit or lose momentum while navigating the inevitable bumps in the road that come with starting back to regular life after the holiday break. Learn how to stay motivated, overcome challenges, and cultivate a mindset of resilience to achieve your goals, even when faced with the temptation to quit.

The Art Of Embracing Change and Navigating The Expectations Of Others | Featuring Autumn Reeser - Ep 26
In this conversation, Stefanie Garcia and actress Autumn Reeser (from Hallmark's A Country Wedding, The OC and Entourage explore the complexities of navigating life transitions, the fear of change, and the importance of embracing multiple passions. They discuss how dissatisfaction can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and the role of the nervous system in managing fear and resistance. They about the significance of self-discovery and the need to break free from old patterns to fully embrace one's true calling. They share insights on confronting fears, setting boundaries, and managing expectations from others while navigating transformation and personal growth. Chapters (00:00) Navigating Life Transitions (10:14) The Fear of Change (15:35) Embracing Multiple Callings (22:52) The Journey of Self-Discovery (27:36) The Role of Dissatisfaction (32:52) Resistance and Surrender (38:42) Understanding the Nervous System (43:48) Breaking Free from Old Patterns (44:39) Embracing Discomfort and Authentic Expression (48:08) Confronting Fears and Setting Boundaries (52:53) Managing Expectations and Self-Expression (57:19) Navigating Transformation and Personal Growth (01:02:09) Exploring Passions Without Pressure (01:07:20) Overcoming Self-Doubt and Embracing Creativity (01:11:31) Liberation Through Following Your Calling (01:13:42) Finding Balance and Nourishing Your Soul Connect with Stefanie Garcia: Instagram: @theartofbecomingseries Connect with Autumn Reeser: Website: https://www.autumnreeser.com Instagram: @autumn_reeser

The Art Of Late Blooming | A Conversation With Kristi Salerno - Ep 25
In this episode, we delve deep into a conversation with Kristi Salerno as she shares her journey self-discovery and artistic rebirth. After years of putting her musical dreams on hold, Kristi shares her inspiring story of overcoming self-doubt, embracing vulnerability, and reclaiming her passion for music. We explore the challenges of following one's heart, the importance of overcoming self-doubt, and the power of embracing vulnerability. Kristi shares valuable insights on how to navigate life's transitions, the significance of emotional healing, and the transformative nature of art. Join us as we discuss the art of late blooming, the courage to reinvent oneself, and the joy of living a life aligned with your true passions. Listen To The Podcast On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2fruMkT... Listen On Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage 02:56 The Journey of Trusting Yourself 05:50 Reclaiming the Dream: A Return to Music 08:45 The Pain of Not Pursuing Your Passion 12:04 Facing Grief and Embracing Change 14:47 The Threshold of Courage 18:06 The Cost of Not Following Your Dreams 21:11 Healing Through Art and Expression 24:02 The Thread of Healing in Creativity 33:19 Embracing Change and New Beginnings 40:00 The Journey of Song Creation 49:09 Claiming Your Voice and Authenticity 53:05 Releasing Music to the World 01:02:09 The Art of Becoming and Self-Compassion Sound Bites "Trust yourself on your journey." "The dream closest to your heart teaches you the most." "Pain of not doing is worse than judgment." "Nothing's wasted in your journey." "Take one step at a time." "You can trust yourself to know when." Connect with Stefanie Garcia: Instagram: @stefanielgarcia Connect with Kristi Salerno: Website: https://www.kristisalerno.com Instagram: @kristi.salerno_ Substack: https://www.@kristisalerno Listen To Kristi's Music On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/21dcX... Listen To Kristi's Music On Apple Music: / kristi-salerno

The Art Of Growing Her Dreams Into Reality - Episode 24
It takes a moment, one decision, to turn the seed of an idea into reality.
For Emily McDarment, that seed of an idea turned into The Jade Feather, a plant shop she opened back in 2020.
Here she sits down with me to tell me how the journey of being a business owner has shaped and grown her.
We talk about the trick she used to move past her fear of starting her business, how she’s balancing running a business and maintaining her day job, as well as, how she’ deals with the insecurity of putting herself out there on social media.
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Author: Stefanie Garcia
Link to blog post: https://theartofbecoming.me/blog/growing-her-dreams-into-reality
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Ep 23 - Overcoming The Past
Many of us have made decisions that we don’t love. That bring up feelings of shame, guilt and embarrassment. Or, we have had experiences that make us shy away from taking action now. We’re using those past experiences to hold ourselves back. So I created this episode to help you overcome the past and move forward from an empowered place.
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Author: Stefanie Garcia
Link to blog post: https://theartofbecoming.me/blog/how-to-change-your-life
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EP 22 - The Art Of Going Left Verses Right
If you want to make positive changes in your life it starts with small decisions. Small decisions in the direction you want to go. But many of us underestimate how challenging it can be to keep making the decision to go in the direction we want verses the direction we've been use to going in. This episode of the The Art Of Becoming Series talks about why that is and some tips for making that adjustment.
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Author: Stefanie Garcia
Link to blog post: https://theartofbecoming.me/blog/how-to-change-your-life
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EP 21 - Doing Things Her Way
Have you ever went for something you really wanted and then had to deal with other peoples opinions about how you should do things and who you should be? Has it ever tempted you to change direction OR WORSE derailed you from your goals all together. If so, this episode is for you. In this episode, I talk to Sallie Evan's from Sallie's Small Batch Ice Creams about what it took to stay true to herself through all of the pressures to conform and how doing so lead to her ultimate success.
For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

EP 20 - The Art Of Moving From The Old To The New
Whether its the end of the year or you want to make a change in your life, moving from one way of doing things to another way of doing things requires a shift. It's that shifting that can sometimes be a little tricky. So if you are struggling to create new things in your life, or you can't quite seem to break free from the things you don't really want in order to get the new, this episode is for you.
For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

EP 19 - The Art Of Playing Bigger
Are you playing too small? Are you letting your fears of being more keep you in the same environment you have always been in around the same people you have always been around? In this episode of The Art Of Becoming Series, we explore what you're missing when you do this and how to let the stretch fuel you.
For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 18 - The Art of Dealing With Hard Things
Do you find yourself consistently saying something like “This is hard” or “That is hard”? For example, do you say things like business is hard or life is hard or marriage is hard?
Then this is the episode for you.
Share with a friend that could find these tips helpful.
For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 17 - The Art Of Dealing With Life's Curveballs
At the time of this recording, the Roe vs Wade decision came out and, whereas it did have an impact in some way on this episode, the topic I cover here can help you anytime life throws you a curveball.
Share with a friend that could find these tips helpful.
For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 16 - The Art Of Restarting
Have you ever had something you fully intended to follow through on but for whatever reason you got derailed?
Have you ever tried to pick it back up only to find it harder to restart on it than it was to start it in the first place?
In this episode of The Art Of Becoming Series, we‘ll talk about why that is.
Also in this episode, I talk about:
* Why you never seem to get the same results you had before and how to change that
* The #1 place we get stuck that is preventing us from having success again
...and how to change the way we see restarting to finally make progress.
Click to watch or listen to the podcast version at https://anchor.fm/stefanie-garcia.
Also, share with a friend that could find these tips helpful too. For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 15 - The Art Of Commitment
How do we stay committed to our goals? The things we say we want to do.
How do we get to the finish line instead of detouring off?
In this episode of The Art Of Becoming Series, I discuss just that.
In this episode, I talk about:
* Where I believe we're going wrong when it comes to committing to our goals
* The #1 place we get stuck that is preventing us from fully committing
...and how to change the way we see commitment to finally make progress.
Click to watch or listen to the podcast version at https://anchor.fm/stefanie-garcia.
Also, share with a friend that could find these tips helpful too. For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 14 - The Art Of Change
Why are we so afraid of change?
I don't know about you but I love a good change of scenery. I love changing things up in my house. But changing things up in my life or career - that's another story altogether.
Change can feel scary, I know, so that's why I want to talk about it in this episode of The Art Of Becoming Series.
In this episode we talk about:
* The #1 reason why we're so afraid of change
* Why we're choosing to be scared
...and what we need to do in order to move forward
Click to watch or listen to the podcast version at https://anchor.fm/stefanie-garcia.
Also share with a friend that could find these tips helpful, too. For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 13 - The Art Of Follow Through
Do you struggle with following through on things? Well then, listen up! If you have a hard time accomplishing the things you put on your schedule. If you say you want to do something but you don't. If, when it comes time to do it you say "I don't feel like it" or you feel the need to put it off - then this episode is for you.
Click to watch or listen to the podcast version at https://anchor.fm/stefanie-garcia.
Also share with a friend that could find these tips helpful, too. For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 12 - The Art Of Failure
There's a lot of advice out there about how to deal with failure, but in this episode of The Art Of Becoming Series, I want to offer you a different way to look at it.
Failure is often talked about from a place of how to handle it but very few actually talk about how to can succeed THROUGH it.
...and that's what I want to cover today.
In this episode I talk about:
* The #1 reason we avoid failure
* How running away from failure is screwing your chances at success
* Plus I give you a really quick reframe that just might make failure your new best friend
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For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 11- The Art Of Letting Go Of Comparison and Competition
Do you feel like you are constantly comparing yourself to what other people are doing or feeling like you have to compete in order to get noticed in your field? This episode is for you.
In this episode, I talk about:
- Why we can't help but compare ourselves to others
- How comparison damages our productivity
- What we can do to let go of competition and comparison once and for all
For more episodes from The Art Of Becoming Series, please my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do, and Own It Out In The World.
P.S. If you’re more of a podcast person, you can listen to that here https://anchor.fm/stefanie-garcia

Ep 10 - The Art Of How
Have you ever had a goal that you just couldn't figure out how to make happen? Or, are you wanting to make sure you're doing the right thing first before getting started? I've gotten stuck in trying to figure out the how for a really long time and I've found myself going nowhere. But, recently, I've found a new way to look at it and I'm sharing that new way in today's episode.
Visit my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 09- The Art Of Knowing What's Stopping You
Have you ever wanted to create something in your life but despite how excited you may be about it or how much you want it, you just can't seem to make it happen?
Or, have you ever wanted to do something big but then can't seem to escape the thought of "I can't do that"?
If so, this episode is for you.
In this episode of The Art Of Becoming Series, I'm gonna tell you the one big reason why this is happening to you. I'm gonna also tell you what's really in your way and what you can do about it so you can finally get moving towards manifesting the things you want into your life.
Click to listen.
P.S. If you’re more of a podcast person, you can listen to the audio version here https://anchor.fm/stefanie-garcia
Visit my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 08- The Art Of Where To Begin
Spring is here and I am feeling SO excited to get out there and get started on some of these new project ideas I have in mind.
You know what I mean?
Thankfully, I just learned that there’s a huge difference between getting started and beginning. That information was so helpful to me that it inspired me to create this video about it.
I share it with all of you and I hope it’s helpful to you as well.
Let me know what you think.
Visit my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
There you can download my free guide Own That Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do and Own It Out In The World.

Ep 07 - The Art Of Answering ‘Who Am I To Do This?’
Have you ever had the Desire to create something new?
What about make a change or speak up?
How about create a business, write a blog or record a You Tube video?
Have you ever thought to yourself- Who am I to do this? Who would listen? Who am I to say it?
If so, today's episode of The Art Of Becoming is for you.
In this episode, I give you a way to flip that thought on its head so that instead of holding back you can show us what you've got.
Get my guide Own The Sh*t - 3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do and Own It Out In The World...https://bit.ly/3bGHWpu

Ep 06- The Art Of Being Too Much
Has someone told you that you're too much?
Do you stop yourself because you're worried about what other people will think?
Are you afraid to rock the boat?
In this episode, I talk about how to get past that with the 1 question to ask yourself when these thoughts come up.
Feel free to visit my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
You can also follow me on Instagram @stefanielgarcia

Ep 05 - The Art Of Leaning In
Today it's all about leaning in.
At the time of this recording, we're just entering into 2021 and many of us are feeling some trepidation about this new year. It's that trepidation that led me to want to share what I do in this episode.
Now, what I'm talking about here doesn't just apply to entering into a new year. It actually applies to any new venture we undertake or any time we find ourselves walking into the Unknown in some way.
Show Notes
Feel free to visit my website at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
You can also follow me on Instagram @stefanielgarcia

Ep 04 - The Art Of Possibility
Today's episode is about moving past the limits that we have in our minds around what we believe is possible.
Hudson Phillips from episode 2 is back to give his tips.
We created this during a time when the World quite literally was limited because we were all in lockdown.
Now, even though we have moved on since that time, all the info we share here still applies.
This episode is for anyone who thinks they can't do something or are feeling tempted to quit because they feel things are tough.
You can learn more about Hudson at http://www.scriptblast.com
...and, as always, you can visit my website at htpp://www.theartofbecoming.me.
While there you can pick up my guide Own That Sh*t "3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do and Own It Out In The World"
You can also follow me on Instagram @stefanielgarcia

Ep 03 - The Art Of Better Decision Making
Today's episode is all about we can make better decisions in our lives.
Better decisions that are for US more than others.
Are you afraid of what people will think? Well, then this episode is for you.
In this episode, I interview Kristi Slager Salerno, aka the Embodied Creative.
Her work is LIFE CHANGING and I am not exaggerating. I literally am not the same person I was before taking one of her classes and my Life continues to improve.
She gives a lot of great tips you are not gonna wanna miss.
SHOW NOTES
You can learn more about Kristi's work and where to follow her at http://kristislagersalerno.com
You can get the guide I talk about in this show "3 Ways To Own Who You Are, Own What You Do and Own It Out In The World" at my site http://www.theartofbecoming.me
Come follow me on Instagram at @stefanielgarcia

Ep 02 - The Art Of Purpose
In today's episode, we talk all about Purpose.
What is it? How do you find it? Do you need it to begin?
I talk to Hudson Phillips from Script Blast (http://www.scriptblast.com). He's a filmmaker based in Atlanta, Georgia, and here we talk all about what led him to find his Purpose and where it took him once he found it.
If you are struggling to find your Purpose, this episode is for you.
You can learn more about The Art Of Becoming Series and what I do at http://www.theartofbecoming.me
...and let's hang out on Instagram. You can find me at @stefanielgarcia

Ep 01 - The Art Of Starting
We all have a dream.
We are all aspiring for more.
However, for many of us, those dreams and aspirations can feel SO big that we might feel overwhelmed just by the sheer thought of where to start.
That is what this episode is all about.
I felt it was the PERFECT topic to talk about with this being the first episode of this series.
Yes, I was nervous...and, yes, it showed. But it's alright, I survived, and because I had the courage to begin you all now have this episode and this podcast to possibly help you on your Journey.
If I can do it. So can you.
In this episode, I interview the ever amazing Tawn Williams from http://www.bloomhealingarts.co and she gives a lot of amazing tips about starting as well.
To learn more about this series and who I am please visit: http://www.theartofbecoming.me
You can also follow along with me on Instagram at: @stefanielgarcia