No Protocol For This

No Protocol For This

By No Protocol For This

No Protocol for This is part real talk, part life coaching, and part survival guide for people juggling demanding careers, relationships, and family life. Hosted by a nurse practitioner and a firefighter, we unpack relationships, careers, parenting, and personal growth.
We don’t pretend to have all the answers, but we do focus on mindset, self-awareness, and practical tools to help you navigate life when there’s no clear rulebook. Honest, unfiltered, and grounded in real experience—because growth doesn’t come with a protocol, just coffee and dark humor.
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EP 14: Beers with Tony

No Protocol For ThisMay 13, 2026
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EP 14: Beers with Tony

EP 14: Beers with Tony

Buckle up, because this episode hits the throttle on racing secrets, family traditions, and how to turn passion into a surprisingly cheap hobby. We sit down with Aly's dad, Tony, to talk all things racing. This dad hass been around racing longer than most of us have been on a smartphone, tuned engines on a shoe-string budget, and discovered he’s a conceptual thinker—meaning he takes things apart just to see how they work. Spoiler alert: that knack turns out to be his secret weapon, not to mention how he outsmarts a room full of grown men racing with less-than-stellar equipment.

May 13, 202647:47
EP 13: Annnd We're Back

EP 13: Annnd We're Back

Our last couple of weeks? Whole rollercoaster—unexpected road trips, family emergencies, new pet, and trying to squeeze in a podcast in between. Basically, life said, “Hold my beer,” and we just went with it. But here’s the kicker: even in chaos, we found the silver lining (and a new bearded dragon). Turns out, life is less about following a plan and more about improvising.

Apr 30, 202648:47
EP 12: We're Human Too

EP 12: We're Human Too

If your brain’s running at half-speed and your stress levels are hitting new records, this episode’s for you. We open up about the stress of wedding planning, battling school district drama, and the wild conspiracy theories about robots taking over classrooms—yes, that robot from a sci-fi nightmare. Spoiler alert: we're not fans of AI replacing emotional connections, especially when it comes to our kids’ education or, you know, avoiding a total apocalypse.

Apr 16, 202649:16
EP 11: Unopinionated Wedding Planning

EP 11: Unopinionated Wedding Planning

Most couples obsess over the perfect cake or the flashy décor. But what if the true magic lies in doing the wedding your way. In this episode, we’re diving into the real behind-the-scenes—budget stress, random disagreements, unexpected wins, and everything no one warns you about. If you’re planning a wedding (or just nosy), this one’s for you.


Apr 02, 202650:51
EP 10: Unprofessional Podcasting

EP 10: Unprofessional Podcasting

In this episode, we get real about the challenges of starting a podcast—from technical difficulties to finding our flow behind the mic. We also mix things up with a round of random, off-the-cuff questions that keep things light, unpredictable, and very us.


Mar 25, 202653:58
EP 9: Never Stop Dating

EP 9: Never Stop Dating

Discover why always dating your partner is key to a thriving relationship, as we share personal anecdotes and insights on maintaining connection amidst life's chaos. Whether it's a simple lunch or a full day of activities, we emphasize the value of creating memories over material possessions.

Mar 18, 202601:01:48
EP 8: Curiosity Killed The Cat

EP 8: Curiosity Killed The Cat

In this episode, Nate and Aly dig into the wild things they’ve always wanted to learn, from flying helicopters to becoming dermatology professors ,and why these ambitions matter. You'll discover how curiosity fuels growth, why late bloomers can switch gears at any age, and how childhood lessons like cash management could’ve saved us from adulting disasters. They chat about life skills that school totally skipped, like saying no without guilt, handling the chaos of sports mishaps, and what powerful lessons you wish you learned earlier (hello, adulting 101).

Mar 11, 202647:06
EP 7: Not So Serious

EP 7: Not So Serious

No real plan for this one. We trade random questions, drop some fun facts, and talk about the surprisingly effective ways to get noticed at a pub. It’s relaxed, a little chaotic, and exactly the kind of conversation that happens when the mics aren't on.

Mar 05, 202643:58
EP 6: Slap in the Face

EP 6: Slap in the Face

Most of us are just trying to keep it together while life throws curveballs faster than a fastball at the plate. In this episode, Nate opens up about a life-changing car crash that knocked him flat and shattered his plans—literally. But here's the kicker: instead of spiraling into despair, he reveals how finding your passion, setting new goals, and learning to listen to your body can turn tragedy into a comeback story.

Feb 26, 202648:02
EP 5: Morning Rituals & The Making of an NP

EP 5: Morning Rituals & The Making of an NP

This episode starts with a detox drink and somehow ends with nursing school trauma, single mom strength, and the audacity to believe in yourself anyway.

We’re talking morning rituals — what we drink, why we do it, and whether it’s actually detoxing anything besides our attitude. Then Aly shares the real story behind becoming an NP as a single mom: the tears, the time management hacks, the sacrifices no one sees, and the “I can’t quit” moments.

Feb 18, 202648:60
EP 4: Bonus Parenting 101

EP 4: Bonus Parenting 101

Bonus parenting is beautiful… and complicated.

In this episode, Nate and Aly break down the highs, the hard conversations, and the “are we doing this right?” moments of being a bonus parent. They talk boundaries, communication, emotional curveballs, and what happens when kids (and adults) are all learning at the same time.

It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s proof that parenting doesn’t come with a manual — especially when you’re building something new.

Feb 12, 202642:48
EP 3: Rapid Fire

EP 3: Rapid Fire

Ever wonder what it’s like when two wildly normal people try to make sense of medical shows, sports predictions, and their own chaos... all in one lighthearted Friday night? Buckle up, because this episode is your rapid-fire escape from life's clutter, pet peeves, and hilarious miscommunications.

Feb 07, 202648:28
EP 2: Overwhelmed & Independent

EP 2: Overwhelmed & Independent

If you’re strong, capable, independent… and absolutely drowning—welcome. This episode is about overwhelm, burnout, and the mental gymnastics it takes to ask for help when you’re used to being the helper. We talk control issues, why “I’ve got it” is often a lie, and how letting people show up for you might actually save your sanity.

Feb 06, 202637:13
EP 1: Growing Our Relationship

EP 1: Growing Our Relationship

In our very first episode, we’re starting at the beginning. We talk about how our relationship actually came to be—the timing, the chaos, the baggage, and the moments that almost kept us from choosing each other. From missed signals to hard conversations, blended lives, and learning how to grow with omeone instead of around them, this episode sets the tone for everything to come.

Feb 06, 202636:16
Intro: Who Even Are We?

Intro: Who Even Are We?

This may not be packed with punches, or a full episdoe, but it is a chance to learn more about Nate and Aly- the hosts of No Protocol For This

Feb 05, 202613:29