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Terrence and Yolanda moved from Calgary to a bungalow outside Halifax with their wills in a folder in the moving truck. Same estate, same wills, same executor. In Alberta the probate fee would have been $525. In Nova Scotia it's closer to $16,000.

Nothing about the family had changed. The documents were current. What changed was the address.

Probate isn't federal. Thirteen provinces and territories, thirteen sets of rules. Some cap the fee at a few hundred dollars no matter how large the estate gets. Others charge a percentage that climbs with every dollar.

In this episode:

• How the capped and percentage systems work, and where each province sits
• Why Quebec runs on a different process, with a liquidator instead of an executor
• What happens when someone owns property in two provinces, and why that can mean two applications
• Why the court fee usually isn't the biggest bill the estate faces

Before anyone builds you an investment portfolio, they find out what you're willing to put up with, what you could actually survive, and whether both of those match what you say you want. Nobody skips it. Then the conversation gets to your estate and it comes down to two questions about a will and a power of attorney.

This episode takes that framework and points it at estates instead.

The problem shows up right away. A risk tolerance assessment only works because the person answering the questions is the person who has to live through the answer. Estate planning pulls that apart. You answer. Your executor, your spouse and your kids get the consequences, and they inherit a position you picked for them without ever being asked.

This week, I take you through the three things worth measuring, including estate capacity, which isn't the same as mental capacity and gets confused with it constantly.

Most people who agree to be an executor picture a few months of paperwork. What they actually get is closer to a part-time job that can run a year or two, with long stretches where the only thing to do is wait.

In this episode, I walk through what a realistic executor timeline looks like in Canada: getting through probate, filing the final tax return, and the CRA clearance certificate that has to arrive before an estate can legally close.

I'll cover the milestones you should expect, the waiting periods that are easy to miss, and the most common reasons estates end up taking far longer than anyone was told to expect going in.

If you've been named executor, or you're trying to decide whether to accept the role, this episode will give you a much more accurate picture of what's ahead.

Everyone knows the list of estate planning steps by now. Will, power of attorney, personal directive, beneficiary review, telling your family where things are. CTV covered it recently, and it struck a nerve, because most of us recognize ourselves somewhere in that list.

Today I'm going through the practical side: what each step actually takes and where people get stuck trying to start.

I cover the will, the powers of attorney, the tax bill most people don't see coming, and the conversation with your family. But the one I spend the most time on is the step most people assume is complicated when it's genuinely the fastest one on the list, and it's usually the most out of date.

If this makes you feel like you're behind, this episode gives you the one step you can actually finish today.

Most families think keeping the vacation property in the family is just a matter of writing it into the will. It isn't.

When the parents pass, the CRA treats the cottage or cabin as sold at fair market value the moment before death, and the resulting capital gains tax bill can run well into six figures, due before anyone inherits anything.

In this episode, I walk through what that deemed disposition actually means for a family vacation property, the fallacies that push families into costly decisions (including one about a 2024 tax change that was cancelled and never took effect), and the planning tools that genuinely work.

I also get into something that doesn't get discussed: it's usually the parents who are attached to the property, not the kids. That gap between what parents hope for and what the next generation actually wants or can afford is where a lot of these plans fall apart, and it's worth talking about honestly before it's written into a will.

If your family has a vacation property you're hoping to pass down, this one's for you.

Your digital life doesn't disappear when you die. It gets stuck.

Your executor can't just log into your accounts, even with a valid will. In this episode, we look at what actually happens to cryptocurrency, email, cloud storage, and social media when someone dies in Canada, and why the gap between what people assume and what actually happens catches so many families off guard.

The full article covers why crypto access depends entirely on how it was held, how newer platform tools like Google's Inactive Account Manager or Facebook's Legacy Contact can unintentionally override instructions in a will, and how this plays out differently across provinces, including a recent Alberta court decision pushing back on tech companies that refuse to cooperate with executors.

We also talk through what actually helps before any of this becomes urgent: keeping a current account inventory, storing passwords somewhere other than the will itself, and making sure your platform settings actually match your real wishes.

She'd been paying her mother's bills for eighteen months when the bank froze the account and asked for legal documentation she didn't have.

This week's episode talks about the gap that catches so many families off guard: doing the real work of managing a parent's finances without any legal authority behind it. Account numbers, debit cards, being known by name at the bank... none of it counts once an institution needs proof instead of trust.

If you're already the one handling bills, appointments, or bank calls for a parent, this episode is about having the conversation now, while things are calm, instead of scrambling for it during a crisis.

A new IG Wealth Management study found that 84 percent of Canadians say estate planning is a priority. But only 41 percent have a plan.

In this episode I talk about what's actually getting in the way, because it isn't a lack of awareness. People know they should do this. The real blockers are subtler: not knowing where to start, not having sorted out what they want before they try to formalize it, and the very human tendency to avoid thinking about death or incapacity.

I also talk about what a real first step looks like, and why it isn't a lawyer's appointment.

Most people who agree to be an executor do it because someone they love asked them to. What nobody tells them is that the moment they say yes, they're held to a specific legal standard, with real consequences if they fall short.

In this episode, I'm talking about the executor standard: what it actually is, what it covers, and what a real 2026 BC Supreme Court case shows happens when it isn't met.

We get into what "reasonably skilled person acting in afiduciary capacity" means in plain language, the five areas courts look at when evaluating executor conduct, and why not knowing about the standard doesn't protect you from it.

If you've been named as an executor, or someone has askedyou to take on the role and you're not sure what you'd be agreeing to, this one's for you.

Having a will and having a ready estate are two different things, and most executors find that out in the first week after a death.

In this episode I talk about what that week actually looks like from inside an executor's role, where solutions exist, and what genuinely prepared looks like in practice.

If you have people who depend on you, or if you'll ever step into an executor role yourself, this one is worth your time. Find the tools mentioned at agapimarketing.com/planning-toolkit/

A friend said three things to me recently that I’ve heard more times than I can count. “I’ll be dead, so it won’t be my problem.” “I know my kids, they won’t fight.” “If my spouse wants to deal with it after I'm gone, that’s up to her.”

He has a will. He has five kids. He feels like he’s handled it. But his will passes everything to his spouse with no direction about personal property and no conversation on record about who gets what.

In this episode, I go through all three of those statements, because each one sounds like a reasonable position and each one is actually a planning gap dressed up as indifference.

The research is striking. More than half of estate disputes involve items worth less than ten percent of the total estate. Not the money. The stuff. And families that look just fine while a parent is alive can find themselves in conflict they never saw coming once that person is gone.

This one is for anyone who has said these things, or loves someone who has.

What happens to an inheritance when the beneficiary is going through a divorce? It's a question that comes up more and more in estate administration, and the answers aren't always intuitive.

In this episode, I'm walking through how inherited assets can lose their protected status, why the timing of executor distributions matters, and what parents can do when designing an estate plan that reflects how families actually operate under stress.

My estate planning and executor resources, are at agapimarketing.com/planning-toolkit/

Blended family estate planning is one of the most misunderstood areas I see in estate work, and the cost of getting it wrong doesn't show up until after someone has died.

In this episode, I'm talking through why the "leave everything to my spouse" approach so often backfires, how executors end up in the middle of conflict they didn't create, and what families in second marriages or common-law relationships actually need to be thinking about.

If you've been putting off revisiting your estate plan after a major life change, this one's for you.

A GOBankingRates article came out this week asking what the Golden Girls' retirement would look like in today's American economy. I loved it so much I ran the same exercise through a Canadian lens. CPP, OAS, TFSAs, provincial health coverage, and Victoria real estate instead of Miami.

The numbers are illustrative, but the conversation is real. The biggest retirement advantage Canada has over the US isn't any single pension program. It's the healthcare bill that simply doesn't exist here.

I'm not a retirement planner, but estate planning is my world, and the two are more connected than most people realize. Everything you build has to go somewhere. That part of the plan deserves just as much attention.

If you're in your 20s or 30s and you haven't sorted out yourestate planning yet, you're not alone. Most people in this age group have it on the list somewhere between "call the dentist" and "learn to make sourdough." It doesn't feel urgent. It feels like something for later.

This week's episode is about what later actually looks like when it arrives unexpectedly. We talk through what happens when a young adult loses capacity or dies without a will or incapacity documents in place and why the people who love them most can end up completely powerless despite the best intentions.

We also cover why singles and childfree adults are more exposed than they realize, why common-law relationships carry legal assumptions that aren't true in most provinces, and why the incapacity documents are the ones most young people have never thought about at all.

If you've been waiting until life feels more settled to deal with this, this episode is your sign that settled enough is right now.

Executor compensation is one of the most misunderstood topics in Canadian estate administration. Most family executors don't know they're entitled to it. Most beneficiaries don't know it comes out of the estate. And almost nobody has the conversation before it's too late to have it without conflict.

This episode covers how compensation is calculated across provinces, the tax implications that tend to catch people off guard, why this is such a common source of estate disputes, and what those planning their estates and executors alike should be doing differently. If you've been named executor, or if you're the one naming them, this one's worth your time.

This episode looks at one of the most avoidable crises inestate planning: losing the window to put your planning documents in place before cognitive decline takes it away.

In Canada, signing a Power of Attorney or personal care directive requires legal capacity. Once that capacity is gone, the documents can't be signed, and families are left navigating a court process that's expensive, slow, and emotionally exhausting. This episode walks through why the early stages of cognitive decline are often missed and why the financial abuse risk during that window is real.

If this has been on your to-do list, consider this yournudge.

What would it feel like to settle your own estate while you're still very much alive? A friend of mine found out firsthand when she made the decision to move abroad.

Suddenly she was sorting through decades of her life, deciding what to sell, what to give away, and what to let go of entirely.

It sounds practical. And it is. But it's also something else entirely. Because when you're forced to hold every object you own and decide whether it comes with you into the next chapter, you find out pretty quickly what you actually value versus what you've just been carrying around out of habit or guilt or inertia.

In this episode I'm sharing her story and what it reveals about all of us. Whether you're facing a big move, a retirement, a life change of any kind, or just a moment where you're askingyourself what really matters, I think you'll see yourself in it.

Most people don’t put off estate planning because they don’t care. More often, they put it off because they believe there is still lots of time and hope things will work out if something does happen.

In this episode, I talk about why hope is not a strategy when it comes to estate planning. A will is important, but it doesn’t help during incapacity. If someone is still alive but unable to manage finances or communicate medical wishes, the family may need very different documents inplace.

I cover the role of enduring powers of attorney and medical directives, the burden that can fall on families when no one has clear authority, and why planning is about more than paperwork. It’s about clarity, protection, and making life easier for the people who may one day need to step in.

Can you really “disinherit” the CRA?

Well, not exactly. But you can take steps to reduce unnecessary tax, avoid preventable mistakes, and make sure your planning is working the way you think it is. In this episode, I talk about tax at death in Canada, common issues with beneficiary designations, why organization matters more than people realize, and how better coordination can help preserve more of an estate for the people it was meant to support.

If your planning hasn’t been reviewed in a while, this is a conversation worth having.

We often think estate planning is shaped by the biggest decisions, but that's not always what creates the biggest consequences later.

In many cases, it is the smaller details, those that seem easy to leave for another day, that end up changing everything for the people left behind.

In this episode, I talk about the butterfly effect and why it's such a powerful way to think about estate planning. A small omission, a delayed conversation, or a decision made without enough thought can have a much larger impact later than most people expect. The opposite is true as well. A small, thoughtful action today can make things much easier for an executor and for a family down the road.

This is a reflective conversation about legacy planning, practical preparation, and why the details matter more than people often realize.

When an inheritance involves minors or vulnerable beneficiaries, structure matters.

In this week's episode and article, I explain how trusts for minors work, why staged payouts are often preferable to lump-sum distributions, and how dependent protection planning can preserve stability for beneficiaries receiving disability support.

We also explore trustee duties and executor exposure. Many people agree to act without realizing the long-term administrative and fiduciary responsibilities involved.

If your estate plan includes minor children or adult dependents, this discussion will help you understand what thoughtful planning actually looks like.

When someone writes a will, they usually assume the plan is complete.

But many assets never pass through the will at all.

Registered accounts and insurance policies often have beneficiary designations attached to them, and those forms can override what the will appears to say. When the paperwork is not aligned, the result can be confusion, unequal outcomes, and difficult explanations for the executor.

In this episode, I talk about the flip side of beneficiary designations and why this issue shows up more often than people expect during estate administration. The documents are usually valid. The intentions were good. The problem is simply that the forms and the will were never reviewed together.

If you have not looked at your beneficiary designations in a while, it may be worth confirming that everything still fits with the rest of your plan.

A dementia diagnosis often leads families to assume incapacity comes automatically.

But that isn’t how the law works.

In this week's episode, I talk about the difference betweendementia and legal capacity, explain why capacity is decision-specific, and how early estate planning can preserve independence and reduce future conflict.

This conversation is for anyone supporting a parent or spouse and trying to understand what steps matter and when.

More and more executors are turning to AI tools to help them manage estate work. They are not trying to replace lawyers or accountants. They are usually trying to cope with information overload.

This week, I talk about how AI is actually being used in estate administration, where it can genuinely help, and where it can create new risks.

If you are acting as an executor and considering AI as part of your toolkit, this conversation will help you see both the benefits and the limits.

Pets are often overlooked in estate planning, not because people don’t care, but because they assume things will sort themselves out.

When they don’t, the responsibility lands with the executor. Decisions about care, veterinary costs, and temporary arrangements often have to be made quickly, sometimes without clear guidance or authority.

In this episode, I walk through what happens when pets are part of an estate, why beneficiary questions can be reasonable, and why clearer planning protects everyone involved.

If you’re a pet owner or an executor, this conversation is worth listening to.

Probate is often talked about as if it’s something to fear or avoid at all costs. But what does it actually mean and what really happens when an estate goes through probate?

This week, I break down probate in plain language. We talk about when probate is required, when it isn’t, how it connects (and doesn’t connect) to taxes, and why so many executors are caught off guard by what the role actually involves.

This isn’t a technical or legal walkthrough. It’s a practical conversation about authority, timing, cash flow, and the real-life decisions executors end up facing once the paperwork begins.

If you’ve been named executor, are thinking about who you might name, or just want a clearer understanding of what happens after death, this episode will help put the pieces together.

Family relationships are not always simple. And when they break down, estate planning can become far more complex.

In this week's episode, I discuss how estranged or strained family dynamics affect executor roles, power of attorney decisions, and estate administration outcomes. Many people plan based on obligation or hope, rather than the reality of their relationships. That gap often creates stress, conflict, and delays when plans are actually needed.

This conversation focuses on preparation, clarity, and why honest planning matters when families are complicated.

Many newcomers to Canada assume inheritance will be handled automatically, the way it often is in other parts of the world. That assumption can lead to serious problems.

This week, I talk about why wills in Canada oftencatch immigrants off guard, how inheritance laws differ across legal systems, and what can happen when someone dies without a will here. We also touch on why familiarity with another country’s system does not always translate to Canada, even for those from common-law countries.

This episode is especially relevant for immigrants, newcomers, and families with international roots who want to understand how Canadian estate planning really works.

Charitable giving has the power to carry your values forwardlong after you are gone. In this episode, I talk about why people choose to include charitable gifts in their estate plan, how it can support the causes that mattered most to them, and why these decisions can offer comfort and clarity to families. But did you know that it can also be a thoughtful way to plan ahead and use the tax rules to your advantage? These gifts can be structured in a way that helps reduce taxes owed by the estate and preserve more of what you have built. When done thoughtfully, charitable giving becomes part of a bigger plan rather than a last-minute decision.

Estate planning becomes significantly more complex when abusiness is part of the estate. This episode accompanies my new article and video, both of which explain what Canadian business owners need to understand long before they leave shares to beneficiaries or expect an executor to navigate the company after death.

A business introduces legal and tax issues that do not arisein a typical estate plan. Shareholder agreements may override your will. Corporate documents can require your estate to sell shares back. The deemed disposition rules can trigger substantial tax. Without proper post mortem planning, families may face liquidity problems or even double tax.

This week's episode is designed to help business owners understand the issues so they can work effectively with their legal and tax professionals.

As we step into 2026, it’s time to rethink the idea of New Year’s resolutions.

In this New Year’s message, Nancy Boisvert invites you to consider a different approach: a New Year’s Revolution rooted in clarity, intention, and peace of mind. Instead of goals that fade within weeks, this episode focuses on making thoughtful decisions that truly support the life you want to live and the people you care about.

Nancy reflects on why estate planning conversations are so often postponed, why clarity matters more than motivation, and how creating a solid foundation with a will, power of attorney, and medical directive can be an empowering step forward.

This is a simple holiday message to say thank you.

The holidays are often a time for reflection, connection, and thinking about the people we care about most. In this short episode, I share a message of gratitude along with a gentle reminder that planning is an act of care, not something to be feared or avoided.

There's also a light-hearted message from a familiar holiday guest, encouraging thoughtful conversations and written plans that can bring clarity and peace of mind to the people we love.

Wishing you warmth, rest, and meaningful moments this holiday season.

Dwight D. Eisenhower’s quote, “Plans are worthless, butplanning is everything,” captures the heart of today’s episode.

Estate planning is not a one time task. Even the best drafted documents can become outdated long before they become invalid. When that happens, families face unnecessary stress, executors are left without clear direction, and important decisions become much harder.

In this episode, we explore why your estate plan should evolve as your life evolves, the risks of leaving documents untouched, and the simple steps that help keep your wishes clear and easy to follow.

If your estate plan hasn’t been reviewed in a while, this conversation is for you.

Many people who complete their estate plan never actually talk about it. Unfortunately, silence can cause confusion and conflict for the families left behind.

In this episode, we discuss how open conversations about your estate plan can bring clarity, protect relationships, and prevent misunderstandings. In our article, you’ll read real examples of families who turned potential disputes into opportunities for trust and connection.

Estate planning is not just about dividing assets. It’s about sharing intentions, values, and love.

You’ve named your executor, but have you prepared them?

In this episode, I discuss what every testator and executor should understand about the practical side of estate administration. We’ll look at key responsibilities, common emotional hurdles, and why clarity before death can make all the difference afterward.

The article that accompanies this episode includes more detail and real-life examples that show how preparation can prevent family conflict and confusion.

Preparing your will does not have to be stressful or complicated. In this week's episode, we introduce you to "9 essential steps to help you prepare your will" with clarity and confidence so your wishes are honoured and your loved ones are protected.

In the full article on the website, you will learn how to choose the right executor, what to include, how to manage sentimental items like grandma’s vase, and why honest conversations now can prevent conflict later.

In this episode, I talk about why so many people avoid discussing death, money, and legacy , and how secrecy often creates confusion and conflict.

See how honest, compassionate conversations can bring clarity, peace of mind, and lasting understanding for your family.

Being named executor is an honour, but it can also be one of the toughest roles you’ll ever take on. In this episode we explore the emotional side of being an executor.

Learn how executor duties often collide with family emotions, and learn practical ways to manage communication, reduce tension, and stay organized while honouring your loved one’s wishes. If you’ve been named executor or expect to be, this conversation will help you approach the role with confidence, compassion, and clarity.

Estate planning nightmares aren’t fiction — they happen every day. Certified Executor Advisor Nancy Boisvert shares real-life stories of what can go wrong when planning is incomplete or outdated. Learn how small mistakes can create big challenges, and how a well-prepared plan can bring comfort, clarity, and peace of mind to the people you care about most.

When Dr. Jane Goodall recorded her final reflections, meant to be heard only after her death, she created something far more powerful than a documentary. She created a legacy message.

In this week's episode, we talk about the idea of “Heirlooms of the Heart” and how to leave a message that carries your voice, values, and love long after you are gone. A legacy message is not about money or possessions; it is about meaning. It can be a letter, a video, or a simple recording that becomes a living connection between you and those you care about most.

Nancy Boisvert, Certified Executor Advisor and founder of NEXsteps, shares how to create your own legacy message, what to include, and how to ensure it endures for generations.

Your greatest legacy is not what you owned. It is what you shared.

Estate planning isn’t just about death. It’s about livingwell today, protecting yourself if something happens tomorrow, and preparing your loved ones for the future.

In this episode, "Estate Planning: By Design or By Disaster?", I explore the difference between planning ahead with intention and leaving things unprepared. Real-life stories illustrate how design leads to peace of mind, while disaster brings conflict and stress.

Grief is never easy, but estate planning can make a world of difference in how families experience it. In this episode, we explore the idea of “good " grief; grief that, while still painful, isn’t weighed down by confusion, missing documents, or family disputes.

You’ll hear how outdated or incomplete plans can create what "heavy" grief, when legal conflicts and unanswered questions make mourning harder. We’ll also talk about the steps you can take to help your loved ones avoid that burden, from keeping your will current to supporting the executor you choose.

Estate planning isn’t only about money. It’s about giving your family clarity and peace of mind when they need it most. That’s the gift of "good " grief.

What can Netflix’s "My Life with the Walter Boys" teach us about estate planning? A lot more than you might think.

In this episode, we unpack the Walter Boys estate planning storyline: from outdated wills to missing insurance, guardianship struggles, and the importance of communication. These fictional gaps create drama on screen, but in real life, they can cause real hardship for families left behind.

You’ll learn:

• Why financial security for children isn’t automatic
• How often wills should be updated (and why)
• The hidden burden of guardianship without support
• Why trusts and beneficiary designations matter
• The conversations every family should be having now

Pop culture may dramatize these issues, but the lessons are clear: estate planning protects your loved ones and prevents chaos.

Executor duties aren’t just paperwork—they’re personal, stressful, and often overwhelming. In this episode, I explain what a Certified Executor Advisor (CEA) is, what the training covers, and how this designation helps families through estate settlement.

Hear real-life examples of how CEAs provide clarity, reduce delays, and give executors the confidence to move forward.

Whether you’re planning your estate or carrying out a loved one’s wishes, this episode will show you how a CEA can help.

What’s the real difference between a will and an estate plan?

Too often, people think they’re the same thing, until their families are left dealing with delays, disputes, and unexpected costs. In this episode, I break down why a will is only a “die and distribute” tool, and why true estate planning is about much more: protecting loved ones, reducing conflict, and preserving your legacy.

You’ve been named executor—now what?

Executor duties aren’t just paperwork—they’re deeply personal. In this episode, I share a compassionate executor survival guide to help you manage the emotional, legal, and logistical weight of settling someone else’s estate. From grief and burnout to real-life examples and expert tips, you’ll learn how to protect your peace of mind while fulfilling one of life’s most important roles.