FATHERS of the FUTURE

In Episode One of Fathers of the Future: The College Years, Luke Kayyem talks about staying present, active, and engaged when your children no longer live under your roof. This isn’t about becoming a helicopter parent or overwhelming them with advice. It’s about learning how each child receives connection, being thoughtful about when and how you communicate, and giving them one clear message instead of seventeen at once. Whether it’s a prayer before soccer practice, a conversation about sports, or simply saying, “I’m thinking about you, and I love you,” Luke challenges fathers to communicate with intention, empathy, and consistency. The distance may change how you father, but it doesn’t have to diminish your influence.

Luke Kayyem is a Men’s Peak-Performance Life Coach, keynote speaker, and founder of the Fathers of the Future movement. The Fathers of the Future Podcast focuses on fatherhood, marriage, faith, leadership, discipline, health, and becoming the man you were created to be. Learn more or schedule a call with Luke (https://lukekayyem.com/#schedule)⁠.

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The College Years: Origin Story

What happens when the mission of fatherhood stays the same, but your children no longer live under your roof? In this first episode of The College Years, Luke Kayyem opens up about moving his son and daughter to opposite sides of the country and facing a new, unfamiliar season as a father. Luke shares why parenting college-aged children requires a shift from simply being present, active, and engaged to building intentional rhythms of connection, consistency, and communication. Whether your children are in college, still at home, or you are just beginning your fatherhood journey, this short series will challenge you to keep showing up, investing, and leading with love, no matter the distance.

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Welcome back! In this raw and unfiltered episode, Luke sits down with lifelong brother and guest Alex Herrera to uncover the real story behind the man he is today. From sneaking out at 14 for his first rock concert, to running the streets of Houston and Laredo, to surviving addiction, prison, and betrayal, Alex opens up about the chaos, the pain, and the grit that shaped him. This isn’t a highlight reel, it’s the hard truth about rebellion, consequences, and the moments that forged a fighter’s frame for life.

But this story isn’t just about the past, it’s about the powerful pivot into faith, fatherhood, entrepreneurship, and legacy. Luke and Alex explore how the scars of yesterday can become the foundation of who you are meant to be today. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or unsure of how to create lasting change, this conversation will challenge you to stop running, face yourself, and step boldly into your next chapter. Don’t just listen, show up, don't quit... Like Alex, it's time to take action.

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This week on the FATHERS of the FUTURE Podcast, Luke sits down with professional skydiver and former British Special Forces veteran Jules Ratcliff, who has completed over 2,100 jumps and served in combat tours in Iraq and Afghanistan. Jules shares his near-death experience for the very first time when a parachute malfunction in June 2024 ripped his leg off mid-air at 4,500 feet. Drawing on his military training, he applied a tourniquet on himself while free-falling, a decision that ultimately saved his life. After being placed in a medically induced coma for six weeks and enduring multiple surgeries, Jules takes us inside his fight to recover and the mindset shifts that carried him forward.

In this powerful conversation, Jules opens up about memory loss, the raw emotions of rehab, and the two guiding principles that helped him push through: every day is a step forward, and self-pity has no place in survival. His unwavering faith and gratitude thanking God for allowing his son to still have a father shine through his story of resilience. As Jules continues his long journey of recovery and major surgeries, we invite listeners to support his story and apply the same mindset in their own lives.

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In this inspiring episode of the Fathers of the Future Podcast, host Luke Kayyem sits down with his coaching client and friend, Jesse Mufasa Goldsmith, to discuss Jesse’s remarkable transformation. Previously known as "Big Cat," a nickname tied to his 385-pound frame and party-heavy lifestyle, Jesse shares how he shed 135 pounds, embraced sobriety, and completed the Boston Marathon. The journey began 18 months ago after a serendipitous meeting with Luke on a golf course, followed by a pivotal moment of hitting rock bottom. Jesse’s story highlights his shift from a self-destructive identity to one of resilience and purpose, embodied in his new persona, "Mufasa," inspired by his commitment to being a strong, protective father to his daughter, Sophie.

Jesse recounts key milestones, including adopting intermittent fasting, quitting alcohol, and training for two half-marathons and the Boston Marathon, all while overcoming a relapse and battling physical and mental challenges. With Luke’s guidance, Jesse rebuilt his confidence, rekindled his competitive drive as a commercial real estate broker, and inspired his family and colleagues. The episode culminates in Jesse’s emotional Boston Marathon finish, a testament to his dedication and the support of his community, leaving listeners with a powerful message about transformation, legacy, and inspiring others.

• Guest: Jesse Mufasa Goldsmith, commercial real estate broker at Newmark, former college tennis player, and father to Sophie.

• Key Themes:

  • Identity Shift: From "Big Cat," a persona tied to excess and self-destruction, to "Mufasa," symbolizing strength and protection for his daughter.

  • Transformation Journey: Losing 135 pounds naturally, quitting alcohol, and completing the Boston Marathon.

  • Rock Bottom Moment: A wake-up call during a daddy-daughter trip in Salt Lake City, leading to sobriety and commitment to change.

  • Coaching Impact: Luke Kayyem’s non-judgmental approach helped Jesse rebuild his life through small, consistent changes.

  • Boston Marathon: Ran for the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, raising $17,000, and finished in 5:27:55, just two minutes before the sweep.

• Highlights:

  • Meeting Luke on a golf course in Flagstaff, facilitated by mutual friend Riyadh Naza.

  • Overcoming a relapse during a golf trip, recommitting to sobriety and training.

  • Emotional family reunion in Boston, with Jesse’s parents, wife, and daughter supporting him.

  • Upcoming documentary, Road to Boston, focusing on mental health awareness, set for release around July 4, 2025, on YouTube.

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In this heartfelt episode of The Fathers Of The Future Podcast, host Luke Kayyem welcomes Chris Clements, a friend, brother, and father, whose son Preston has been a client of Luke’s for the past year. Chris is the co-host of Light Beer, Dark Money, a podcast exploring faith, freedom, and free enterprise, now thriving on the Star Worldwide Networks. The episode delves into Chris’s journey as a legacy business owner, taking over Golden Eagle Distributors, a major Anheuser-Busch wholesaler, after his father’s sudden passing from lung cancer in 1995. At just 25, Chris was thrust into a leadership role amidst personal grief, family dynamics, and a toxic company environment, forcing him to grow up quickly while navigating challenges in the beer industry and his own identity.

Chris shares how his faith became a cornerstone after hitting a spiritual rock bottom, particularly after a wake-up call from his wife about his drinking and its impact on his son. This led to a transformative period of sobriety, prayer, and realigning his identity with his faith, ultimately influencing his decision to sell the business in 2015. The conversation explores themes of legacy, fatherhood, and balancing professional success with personal growth. Chris reflects on lessons from his father’s mentorship under August Busch III and the importance of truth, excellence, and time with family. Luke and Chris discuss the rarity of successful men prioritizing faith without hitting rock bottom, emphasizing Chris’s unique journey of integrating faith, freedom, and family into his life’s work.

Matt Ryan's story, shared on the Fathers of the Future podcast, is a testament to the power of resilience and personal growth through life's challenges. As the first client of the host's coaching program, Matt's journey began with a seemingly perfect family life, captured in a video showcasing peak performance coaching. However, his world shifted dramatically with a divorce that blindsided him, forcing him to confront unaddressed patterns from his upbringing. Despite the emotional turmoil of leaving his home and navigating a prolonged divorce, Matt's commitment to his two sons, Cole and Breck, remained unwavering. His story inspires us to face adversity head-on, learning from setbacks and rebuilding with intention. By prioritizing presence, play, and connection with his boys, Matt transformed pain into purpose, proving that even in the face of unexpected challenges, we can rise stronger.

The podcast also highlights Matt's spiritual awakening, a pivotal shift that anchored his reinvention. Initially distant from faith, Matt found divine guidance through serendipitous moments, like discovering a coin inscribed with "With God, all things are possible" on the day of his grandmother’s funeral. This sparked a journey back to faith, which became the foundation for his life’s priorities—God and relationships over material success. Transitioning from a high-stress career in commercial real estate to a dynamic role in a small cybersecurity firm, Matt embraced a new professional identity that allowed authenticity and growth. His message to future generations is clear: a life well-lived is built on faith and meaningful connections, not just achievements. Matt’s evolution from heartbreak to hope inspires every listener to get back up, learn from life’s trials, and lead with love and purpose as fathers, partners, and men.

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In this installment, you will discover the challenges that a man has faced head on, despite the obstacles. Jesus Frayre has always persevered, from enduring the grief of losing loved ones to overcoming his own personal struggles. His life exemplifies the resilience bestowed upon us by our Maker. To become a husband, father, and successful entrepreneur, one must hold an unwavering drive to succeed. And if you need any example of what this looks like, look no further than Jesus. In other words, he is the perfect example of reversing the curse that could've been on his life, forever changing his family's history. 

Jesus Frayre is a seasoned expert in his field who offers his knowledge and skills to both new and experienced content creators. He helps them navigate the complex world of video optimization, building an audience, and earning money through their content. With years of experience in online video creation, he has worked with a diverse range of clients and specializes in various niches and genres. His extensive range of abilities includes employing YouTube analytics, implementing effective video SEO techniques, developing innovative content strategies, engaging with audiences, and generating revenue. Driven by a strong passion for creating immersive and profitable content, he blends education, entertainment, and inspiration to captivate viewers and leave them wanting more. His goal is to empower business owners and entrepreneurs to achieve their ambitious goals and unlock their limitless potential in the vast world of YouTube. In a nutshell, he's good at what he does. 

He is a fighter and relishes in the challenges life may through at him. As he protects all that he's responsible for, one thing is true... He doesn't make excuses; rather he gets to work, he fights for what he believes in. 

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Michael Johnson, creator of Shockwave Defense, has helped over 100,000 men worldwide get physically fit, overcome limiting beliefs, and take charge of their lives. A criminologist and self-defense specialist, Michael is also a skilled helicopter pilot. In his 30 years of experience, he's noticed one common obstacle: men struggling to embrace their masculinity and overcome limiting beliefs.

At the young age of 2, he began his journey as a martial artist and has since become highly skilled in several disciplines. He used his extensive knowledge to create Shockwave Defense (shockwavedefense.com), where he combined martial arts, behavioral psychology, criminology, and life philosophy, creating a unique approach called "Bellicusology." Additionally, Johnson served as an honorary commander for the 512th Rescue Squadron at Kirtland AFB while also working as a helicopter pilot.

Johnson's contributions to the field of combatives have been substantial. As a main instructor for deadly force instructor at the Florida Department of Corrections, he has influenced 19,000 officers. His practical abilities, honed through 55 full-contact fights, align with his dedication to teaching practical techniques and adaptable strategies for dangerous situations. With four decades of experience in martial arts and 30 years as a defense instructor, Johnson's unique training methods are designed to efficiently teach solutions for handling threats.

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A Stoic wants to live well— and living well means dying well, too. A Stoic lives well through having a good character, and death is the final test of it. - Seneca

This very well could be the most meaningful podcast I've ever recorded. My conversation with Billy Aiton, a former client from CrossFit Scottsdale, was more than just a reminder that life is fragile. He shows us, shows me that every second counts.

This is coming from a man who's been given 60 days to live as of the recording of this episode. And as much as I don't want to see a friend leave this life to soon, the reality is he's facing his mortality.

But if you listen closely, you'll hear the will to live in every sentence he speaks. When he talks about his kids and how proud he is of them, you can't help but want to be like him. 

To those who know Billy, I pray this episode encapsulates the man you love. I hope it inspires you to hear your dad, husband, brother, and friend speak and be so thankful for you. He loves you.

In my line of work, I get the privilege of meeting so many people who inspire and motivate the world. Billy may very well be at the top of the list. 

Billy Aiton, I love you and am grateful I got this distinct opportunity to sit down with a friend and have a conversation far beyond us both. Let's keep Fighting, my brother! 

We Love you, Billy…

The LaLanne last name is not just famous in the fitness world, but everywhere else too if you were around in 1951 to the 80s. We've probably all heard about Jack LaLanne, the health and exercise expert a.k.a the Godfather of fitness. The one member of his family that followed in his footsteps was his nephew, Chris LaLanne. 

Chris was always into sports, but chose a different route with his competitive nature. He found success in bodybuilding and helping those he cares about get strong. He got a degree in Kinesiology from San Diego State and became a mastermind in fitness. Then, in 2006, he discovered CrossFit and never looked back. 

One of the main things Chris teaches is how to be fit between the ears. He systematically walks his clients through changing their life by how they think. Once that's in motion, physical peace follows. A key ingredient to his program is fasting and letting the body heal. This IS a major part of the definition of being "physically fit." 

Chris LaLanne's got an awesome presentation and can help you live your best life. He's been at it for 30 years and knows all the tricks on how to lead yourself. In this episode, let Chris' story help you start taking charge of your life. "Let's get you a custom plan to crush it mentally!"

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Business owner, father of 3, breath work instructor, wellness coach, MMA fighter are just a few of the titles you can give to Jesse Moreng. But what makes him special is his ability to put all of those together, the experience, knowledge, and passion into helping you. He wants you to be the best you can be and has a platform to help you get there.

He's a passionate advocate for natural health methods. The struggles of his loved ones and community inspired him to help them find their inner strength and improve their well-being. This journey of helping others led him to starting one of Phoenix's premiere wellness centers, Optimyze. 

As stated above, Jesse has a sports background in wrestling, boxing, and mixed martial arts. He still practices martial arts, yoga, and breathwork and has been doing yoga since 2001. In 2017, he became a certified Wim Hof Method instructor, which combines breathing techniques, cold exposure, and mindset training for improved health and resilience. Jesse enjoys sharing his knowledge of breathing practices (breathwerx.com). He's a certified Wim Hof and Buteyko Method instructor, a health coach, and a Functional Patterns Human Foundation instructor. 

He wants you better, whole. It's the whole reason he does what he does. As you listen to his story, begin to listen to your heart on what YOUR next move is in becoming the best version of yourself. And if you need some help, he's here. 

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Jake Parent is the founder of Breath.Energy, yes there's no dot com. He wants you to know you don't have to hold onto the weight of pain you've been holding. He wants you whole. Why? Let's back up for a second...

In his mid 40s and from a distance, he looked reasonably successful. But inside, he felt like he was driving around with the parking brake on. This describes most people listening to this episode now. He felt like he was underperforming at life, knowing it shouldn't be this hard. Something had to change, and something did change, he found his breath. This sent him down a journey to healing himself. If you ask him he'll tell you he's still healing, but that's the joy of the journey. 

After being on this path for years, something else happened… Jake had a vision of sixty people doing breath work together, and Breath.Energy was born. Breath.Energy was open for 3-4 months, and every week more and more people were coming. Fast forward some years and they're still walking humanity through the deep work of healing through breath. Jake says, "During breathwork we have encouraged our community to express the deepest most unseen parts of who they are. To say this work has been rewarding is an understatement. I am eternally grateful for the space we hold which allows people to feel, release, and find the joy in their lives. Through breathwork I have found my motto of life. Love is ALWAYS the answer." 

Jake wants everyone to experience the freedom so many have felt through this work. He wants YOU to experience what it's like to walk letting go of the weights that have held you back. It starts with a breath. 

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Adam Snodgrass of Makaha, Kailua Kona, is a self-proclaimed fishing fool who loves his family and romping around in the sand with his dogs! When you listen in between his words, you'll feel the rich history of Hawaii just by the description of a fish. Even more, you can hear the pain in his voice when talking about what has happened since the August fires. Allow yourself to get caught in the joy he has about the people he serves. But you must allow your heart to be pulled on for the people of Hawaii and specifically the people of Maui... just like Adam. 

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Let's get to it; Tripp Mehew has been on the frontlines of the Maui fire tragedy since it started. As a resident of Hawaii, he holds nothing back regarding the truth about what is going on at the ground level. Isn't he "that" conspiracy theorist? NO, he's literally walking, serving, and helping the people of Maui, as well as exposing what is REALLY going on. He's not regurgitating what someone is saying on the internet or the news, no, he's there WITH the people of Maui.

He attended Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University, a father, is a former Marine, and a passionate truth seeker. He will dig until he finds it. Today, when you have 1,000 voices and are not sure who to trust Tripp speaks of what he's experienced. He speaks of what he knows, and from a place of logic. Why? Because he cares about the people he's currently serving and wants to get them the help they need.

Tripp says, "Freedom is the ultimate feeling of personal empowerment. It leads to a rich and meaningful life that you are solely responsible for. Self-responsibility and mindful choices can elevate you to living your greatest purpose. We love life! And that is WHY we fight so hard against the tyranny and evil that is trying to destroy it."

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Shortly after starting his yoga journey, Bryan began a consistent meditation practice. He challenged himself to meditate every single day for 90 days, but it's what happened at the end of the 90 days that he found his purpose. He realized the power of the subconscious mind on the outward life we live. Now he helps people reprogram their subconscious minds with love, gratitude and abundance for the outcome they are wanting. 

In this space is he loves to make the yoga and spiritual community laugh. He noticed people were very competitive and took their practice so seriously. "It's just f*ckin yoga" he thought. People need to relax and have fun on their yoga and meditation journeys. This perspective inspired him to create a space for the community where they could laugh while they practiced. He helps people just like you find their truth, gain confidence, and release f*cks… all with a smile. He'll do the same for you. 

His background: He is a Neuro Linguistic Programmer (NLP), E-RYT 200 Hour Yoga Instructor, and YACEP-Yoga Alliance Continuing Education Provider. His Relax with Yogi Bryan Meditation podcast has been a massive success with over 3 million listens to date. You can find him all of his online content here below...

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Life has a way of giving you circumstances out of your control. It's what you do with it that leads you to your destiny. This is the story of Pastor Fidel Pesina Jr. Many look at him and see a successful man who was making 6 figures a year as a contract electrician. Many don't see the sacrifice he's made to do what he feels most called to, being a husband and Father. He later gave up his career to pastor a church, but He was fatherless, and found himself making decisions that led him down a dangerous path. After some "close calls" he found himself surrendering to God. As you listen to his story, see yourself in it. See yourself surrendering to a higher power and see if it doesn't lead you to your calling. God has a way of reaching you. It doesn't take long to see that Fidel is, like you and me, a human. The difference maker for this scrappy pastor is that he will fight for what he believes in. He will fight for his family and his kids, and he will fight to walk out what he believes God has called him to... people. 

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The first ever "2 Mics 1 Movement" episode is here. Luke sits down with his business partner, friend, and fellow soldier in this fight, Jeff Strange. He says this about Jeff , "Nothing in this world has ever been handed to you." But isn't that the way we want it? Isn't this the kind of leader we need, leaders who fight, scrap, and drive towards winning. Jeff is an example of what we, as men, desire. A Fathers Of The Future Crucible Alum, and a leader in this brotherhood, Jeff trains and leads men to walk free from their past and live their calling. He's what this movement needs and what men are searching for, healing. When you're around Jeff, you know you matter; he pulls this out of you. He wants YOU to live YOUR calling. He knows that he's merely a guide and you're the hero of YOUR story. As Luke and Jeff have a necessary conversation, realize that this is for you. What do you want? And what are you willing to do to get it? 2 Mics 1 Movement is about YOU finding those answers and moving forward. CLEAR!

Dru Meskin is a full blown redemption story. Being in a broken home, he found himself on a path of compulsive or regular substance abuse. Being angry at life also added to his pull to sedate with the addiction. This led him to being sent away to a juvenile detention center with everyone thinking it would fix him. It didn't, it made his drug and alcohol habits worse. 

But the story doesn't end here. He found himself going through rehab, graduating from college, and fighting for his sobriety while simultaneously starting his own business. In fact, Dru is none other than Luke's stylist. As the owner and operator of First Mane AZ Dru has established himself as a top barber in Arizona. 

What's the moral of the story? You'll have to listen and find out... but Dru's proof that hard work and surrender can lead to the life you are searching for. It will be hard, but this is what men do... and Dru's one of them. 

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What do you get when you mix a pharmacist, a top Sports Card investor, and a Fathers Of The Crucible alum? You get the one and only Tyler Short. Even though, he's good at his day job, today, we aren't talking medicine. We're talking about how to build a SIX FIGURE income with his side hustle, sports cards. As a content creator on Youtube, his channel helps his followers know the ins and outs of what cards you're buying and selling. While he helps others, he does invest himself and does very well. It's why he's one of the top sellers on Ebay. Tyler would be considered a purist. In other words, he isn't doing this simply to make money; he genuinely loves trading cards and loves being around others who do the same. With all that in mind, he's learned to leverage his passion into making money, and lots of it. Learn from Tyler, even if you don't trade or invest in sports cards. All of us have passions that can be turned into wealth. 

When you meet Tyler, you're happy for him. As a man of faith, an athlete, and committed to those around him, you're happy for all the success he has. 

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The A-10 is the first Air Force plane specially designed for close air support of ground forces. You don't sign up to fly an A 10 because you like to fly. They're meant to be a support during combat when soldiers are under fire. It's why A 10 pilots are a gritty community, and rightfully so. It's probably why Eric Whitey White signed up to fly this very plane. In other words, this isn't a man who is passive. You don't go into the Airforce and fly these kinds of planes and not have a heart to serve and a willingness to go into the fight. For him, when you commit you go, regardless of the danger.

He was mentored and fathered by his grandfather, who was also a pilot in the airforce. He started taking Eric flying when he was only 8 years old. So to say Eric wanted to fly was an understatement. It was in his blood. Similarly, the mentality it takes to be a pilot is exactly how he approaches everything, even Yoga. 

When posed the question "what's it like having a child on the way at age 50?" his simple response... "THERE IS NO CAN'T, THERE'S JUST DO!"

A part owner of Sunfare, the OG of meal prep, John Stewart revolutionized the Custom Meal Prep Industry. In 1997, he and his partner did this off of a piece of carbon paper his receptionist threw in his office's trashcan. It wasn't any ordinary trash in a waste container. Rather, it was the domino that set in motion his life's mission, helping people achieve greatness. On instinct he contacted the number, not knowing they were a powerful Hollywood Executive at the time, and off to the races they went. Yes, some of Sunfare's clients are Hollywood executives, actors, or professional athletes, but that's not the driving force of what they do. It's the everyday mom or dad, the person who's busy and needs help getting their meals ready, that drives their passion to do what they do. It's the person who is trying to reach their health targets. It's you and it's me. From the beginning, John has said, "if Sunfare can put great meals in your refrigerator that you want to eat, then you will eat those meals…and get the results you're looking for."

John's vision and entrepreneurial spirit are essential, and continue to help the company thrive. And some will tell you he's a natural leader who embraces the challenge of business ownership, but it's those around him that say "he makes us laugh." It could be the main ingredient to why Sunfare has been so successful.

As a father of 2, John relishes in the role of father and husband. At every chance he gives his wife credit for their life and promotes her businesses. As a man in his 50's you'll hear the youthfulness in his voice as his kids keep him young. On the other hand, you'll hear the wisdom of a man who's built a life worth living as he delights in building up his family. 

Malcolm Guya, a son, a friend, a savage athlete, big smile, trustworthy, humble, and a leader. If you ask the men around him, this is what they will say. As a child he moved here from Kenya to the US. With no dad in the picture, he was raised by his grandmother for the first few years of his life. But it was his mother who, even though she wasn’t present in those beginning years, had the most influence on his life as he follows after God.   

As a college football player, Malcolm learned quickly what it takes to be a man off and on the field. Through his coaches, pastors, and his relationship with God, he learned to channel his anger onto the field and live free from resentment. He also knows what it's like to not allow circumstances to dictate his destiny. After having several breakthrough moments on a weekend retreat for men Malcolm found himself no longer angry, and free from any grudges he carried from childhood.

Malcolm, who recently got married to his wife Talia, will break the generational curse of fatherlessness in his family. With a strong connection to his church family, a belief in who God has made him, he fights hard to help those who grew up like him. Although he's not a father yet, he is setting the pace for what men should be as they head towards fatherhood, present. Malcolm is one of a kind. If you're ever graced with the opportunity to be around him, you'll walk away a better person. That's just who he is... a Father Of The Future.

“YOU DID A TREMENDOUS JOB, thank you because you raised a warrior, a child of God” - Malcolm Guya, speaking of his mother

When coaching meets faith, you get a formula that will cause you to win. From training his own sons to the NFL and others to the Olympics, Marcus Wheaton has a way of pulling greatness out of everyone he coaches. As the owner of Wheaton Solutions, the success of his athletes is a bi-product of his dedication to the individual. It's no surprise he's the number one speed coach in Arizona. Even more, when you listen to this episode, he may be the #1 father in Arizona. 

To quote him: "Fatherhood is not a noun but an adjective." You have to earn it if you want to be called a real father. As his kids grew up playing sports, Marcus can count on 1 hand at how many games or events he's missed. Even if his job was on the line, he was making sure if one of his kids looked up in the stands he'd be there. He doesn't wear this as a badge of honor; rather, this is how an elite father lives his normal life. It IS how fatherhood should be played out by every dad. This is who you get when being coached by him. And when you're a part of the Wheaton Solution family. 

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As we enter another chapter of this epic journey called life, let me be one of the first and only REAL MUTHAFUCKERS alive to welcome you to the reality of the NEW YEAR, it ain't new and neither are you, your old, and so are your stories, skills and habits and they just got a little bit older.

Unless you are willing and welcome CHANGE, break the cycle, shift the pattern, set new and challenging GOALS, be willing to fail forward, pushing your personal edge of complacency and comfort, building resilience in your approach to adapt and overcome you will remain the same.

"How you do one thing, is how you do everything"
Unless you live life by your own design, uncompromisingly, intentionally, declaring with absolute certainty, belief and trust that this can and will BE the greatest and most compelling, unforgettable year of your life.

"Where your ATTENTION goes, ENERGY flows"
Unless you hold yourself accountable, asking others for help, guidance, coaching and teaching along the way. Staying true to yourself, willing to be open, vulnerable, honest and authentic, never trading or losing your integrity or values to appease anyone.

There is no doubt, you will be tested, challenged, beaten down and broken but you must commit to yourself that, I WILL never ever give in or give up!

"If there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm."

There is GREATNESS in you, I see it and believe it, it's alive and living, it's growing and expanding, it's right here, right now, simply use this day and small wrinkle in time to affirm and confirm, establishing the VISION you have of your future self.
Constantly asking… What am I made of? And how can I continue to test myself daily.

DEVELOP and DECLARE, a 2023 MISSION STATEMENT, curate and craft your MANIFEST DESTINY, write your own powerfully provoking and poetic self-proclaimed VISION statement for that UNFUCKINGRECOGNIZABLE version of the man you MUST become.

Jeff Strange worked as a head of sales at Bad Birdie Golf Apparel, a company featured on The Shark Tank. Jeff was able to use his gift of sales, even more his gift of loving people help the company reach its highest grossing year in 2021. And yet with all the success he’s walked away from it all, walked away from a stable career. Why? Because he believes fully in impact over income. Jeff helps us understand what a grind looks like but also what living free has given him. He helps us understand what living your purpose is supposed to be and it’s serving others.

His philosophy when it comes to being successful, since he was 16, is SERVICE. If you want to make the most out of anything you must serve others. You’ll see this in everything Jeff is a part of, whether you’re hiking up a mountain, running 50 miles, need help setting up chairs, or just need a bro hug Jeff is right there ready to serve. Furthermore he's someone men can follow as he leads a group every Wednesday morning at 5A.M. at his church in an intentional time physical suffering to build mental toughness. And if you ask him why he’s the way he is he’ll tell you without blinking, God. As a father to 2 amazing children and husband he knows his purpose. He knows that if he’s truly making an impact it will be serving his family first and letting that heart spill over into every other area of his life.

• Why walk away from stability since it’s safe?
• He talks about the grind of building a business
• What true success looks like which doesn’t always mean position or title
• Golf, the sport that led him to his calling, service
• How does leading himself impact his wife and kids?
• How has helping men rise to be the men they want to be become his purpose
• He helps us understand what it really means to have impact over income

Jeff embodies the FOTF mantra which says:

1. Show Up
2. Don’t Quit
3. Do The Work
4. Lead With Love
5. Trust The Process

In this episode Luke talks to senior executive pastor Brad Larson. In his local church Brad contends for the hearts of the men who are apart of their Fight Clubs, Wed Workouts, Men's Nights, and Boot Camps under the umbrella of Every Man A Leader. Church isn't a game to him, in fact it's a fight he's been graced to fight, a grace to lead in. He has a deep compassion for men who simply need help but don't know what to do. He walks towards storms a man may be facing. Not because he can fix it but because he knows we can't face it alone. Even more he knows there is only one who can calm the storm within the storm, Jesus.

He has been on a 30 year journey of what it means to become the man God wants him to be. Being a father of 4 and a husband, he knows the price you must pay when you aren't leading yourself and living a surrendered life to God. He also knows the joy of redemption and living in God's Plan A. For Brad following Jesus is the only path to go on to become the man you know you can be.

For to long the "industry" of high performance, self help, and wellness has crushed faith communities, but not here. Brad helps us understand that even through a workout you can see the beauty of God and His creation. Being a high performer isn't a new concept, it's as old as the scriptures. So why not follow the Master of life? After all Jesus is the one who can show us how to live it to the fullest.

• If you’re not growing you’re not progressing
• Why do real men let go of their faith and turn back to their pain?
• How can we get clear on what it means to walk with Jesus?
• Definitions lead us to destinations, if the definition is wrong it will lead you to the wrong place
• 307 questions where asked by Jesus, why does this matter?
• How to reach the heart of men, we have to do something different
• Why there's gravity to what's happening with the men of his faith community

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It’s season 4, which means we are still here, still grinding… as they say, don’t call it a comeback we’ve been here for years! The first trilogy of the season, and or the next 3 episodes Luke talks to 3 men of faith, 3 men who are a part of a faith community, and 3 men who aren’t shy about what they believe yet at the same time realize we are all on a journey.

In Exp #76 Luke has a conversation with Wes Edwards, Executive Pastor at a local church in Scottsdale AZ. As an adult he’s served in his faith communities for over 25 years and has had to face his own times of doubt. The irony though, doubt led him to be more in tune with what he believes about God, who Jesus is, and why he’s still at it after all these years. Luke specifically asks Wes what he’d say to a skeptic or someone who has deconstructed their faith. Tune in to find out.

As a proud father to 3 adopted boys from Haiti Wes helps us understand that it takes grit to remain sane in todays racially divided communities. Adoption isn’t for the faint at heart nor is having a mixed family, but with determination, calling, and an anchor to our faith we can step into hard things and find the joy of fighting for the hearts of our kids. There are so many children who need more than a good home, they need fathers, fathers who will rise up and say yes, I’ll be their dad, I’ll call them my own.

• How can you regain your faith if you’ve walked away from it?
• How would you invite someone into your community when it’s faith based?
• You don’t have to lay your intellect down to believe in God
• Adoption
• Bi-racial families in todays society
• Best advice to potentially adoptive parents
• Write your family motto
• The Edwards Motto, We’re kind, we’re encouraging, and we talk to lonely people

On this week’s Fathers of the Future Experience, I sit down with fitness expert and life coach, Pete Vanderveen.  Growing up, Pete's parents were farmers, and that taught him the value of hard work.  Now, Pete works hard to change people's lives. As the owner of a faith-based fitness company, Eat The Frog Fitness, Pete is ready to redefine and reengineer the fitness world. He wants to help people get intentional about their health and find empowerment.  Continuing his passion for improving people’s lives, Pete is celebrating a year in the business of life coaching with his company, Triumph Performance Academy.  Through this endeavor, he hopes to help men to not only be their best in their professional life, but more importantly as husbands and fathers.

During this podcast experience, we’ll touch on things like…

• Raising a family in the executive grind world.
• Growing a business through the pandemic.
• The differences between religion and faith.
• How to be empowered through fitness.
• Making intentional steps towards faith.
• How working at Exxon taught Pete that there was more to life than work.
• The challenges of working in Hawaii.
• Using your ego as a tool for good.

On this week's Fathers of the Future Experience, its Veterans Day, and I’m sitting down with my good friend and active duty career reservist Marine, Rich Abril. 

As a faithful married man and father of three girls, Rich knows exactly what it means to balance sensitivity and emotional intelligence as well as masculinity and violent energy.

Before joining the military, Rich says he was living a toxic life and atmosphere with no direction or values.  September 11th, 2001 compelled him to enlist, and he says the military has helped him to develop and master his own core values.

During this podcast experience, we’ll touch on things like…

• Balancing sensitivity and emotional intelligence.
• How to process and respond vs react.
• Not knowing how to handle pushback from children.
• How a military background shapes habits and mentality.
• 9/11’s impact on Rich and how it compelled him to enlist.
• The difference between motivational and transformational.
• The importance of developing core values.
• What boot camp is like.
• How the military breaks you down to build you back up.
• Keeping morale up in a command environment.
• Having a why behind what you’re doing.
• Teach your children to look for red flags and increase their own awareness.
• Misconceptions about listing in the military.

On today’s episode of Father’s Of The Future Luke has a good friend and former client of 12 years joining him.  His friend Tom is a little further along in the fatherhood game with both of his children grown and out of the house, but that hasn’t stopped him from staying very busy.  Tom runs his own construction business and has built over 1200 homes.  He’s very tuned into the market and says his advice right now is don’t buy.  Houses are at their highest price right now and Tom is certain prices will fall.  If you can be patient you’ll be glad you were.  If you have money burning a hole in your pocket, Tom says to spend it meaningfully.  He reminds us that memories are more powerful than possessions. During this episode of Father’s Of The Future we touch on things like:

• Being a positive role model
• The Covid pandemic
• Running your own company
• The housing market
• Minimalism and down-sizing
• Decision fatigue
• Memories over possessions
• Being a single father and empty-nester
• The banking industry and digital currency