Elsplend Realities

Elsplend Realities

By Elo Oghenevwede Splendour

Elsplend Reality Show with [ELO Oghenevwede Splendour(Elsplend)] is where real stories meet real lessons — the unfiltered kind.
Join Elsplend every week as she laughs, reflects, and talks about faith, emotions, and the wild process of growing up without a manual. From awkward conversations to emotional intelligence, from overthinking to finding peace — this podcast is about learning, healing, and being honest about the messiness in between.
No perfection, no pressure — just honest talk, warm vibes, and a sprinkle of laughter every episode.
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Trusting Your Inner Voice: Intuition, Emotional Alignment & Personal Transformation

Elsplend Realities May 28, 2026
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Menopause, Identity, and Renewal: Reclaiming Yourself in Midlife

Menopause, Identity, and Renewal: Reclaiming Yourself in Midlife

Menopause is often talked about in terms of symptoms—but what happens when the changes begin to affect how a woman sees herself?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Alison Bladh joins us for a deeper conversation about menopause, confidence, nutrition, healthy aging, and the emotional experience of navigating midlife. We explore why women can feel disconnected from themselves during this transition, how nutrition and lifestyle can support well-being, and why menopause can be viewed not simply as something to endure, but as an opportunity for renewal.

This is a conversation about listening to your body, embracing change, rebuilding confidence, and discovering that becoming a different version of yourself doesn't mean you've lost who you are.

Aug 22, 202622:21
Tiny Brave Steps: Finding Courage When Life Doesn’t Go to Plan

Tiny Brave Steps: Finding Courage When Life Doesn’t Go to Plan

What if courage isn’t about making a huge leap, but taking one small step when life feels uncertain?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Bernice McDonald, Life Strategist for hard things and creator of the Tiny Brave Steps method, explores how we can navigate fear, loss, change, and self-doubt without needing to have everything figured out. From understanding the nervous system to practicing self-compassion and learning to let go, Bernice offers a powerful reminder that courage can be quiet, gentle, and deeply transformative.

This is a conversation about finding your next step when the path ahead feels unclear—and discovering that sometimes, one tiny brave step is enough.

Aug 18, 202634:42
Listening to the Body: A Deeper Conversation About Healing and Well-Being

Listening to the Body: A Deeper Conversation About Healing and Well-Being

What if our approach to well-being began not with quick fixes, but with curiosity about the whole person?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Andrew Scheim explores the connection between the body, mind, emotions, environment, and the many factors that can influence our sense of well-being. We discuss nervous system regulation, holistic approaches to health, emerging wellness technologies, resilience, and the importance of becoming more aware of what our bodies may be communicating.

This is a thoughtful conversation about staying curious, asking better questions, and taking a more intentional approach to understanding our own well-being.

Aug 18, 202622:40
United Against the Pressure: Building a Marriage That Stays Strong

United Against the Pressure: Building a Marriage That Stays Strong

Marriage isn't only shaped by what happens between two people—it can also be shaped by the expectations, cultural differences, family dynamics, and outside pressures surrounding them.

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Pesa Shayo explores what it means to build a United Front in marriage. Drawing from his own cross-cultural relationship and work with couples, Pesa shares practical and faith-centered insights on communication, boundaries, empathy, and shifting from “you versus me” to “us versus the challenge.”

This is a conversation about protecting connection, navigating differences, and intentionally building a marriage that grows stronger when life gets complicated.



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Aug 18, 202622:02
Choosing Intimacy: How to Build Relationships That Truly Connect

Choosing Intimacy: How to Build Relationships That Truly Connect

What if lasting intimacy isn't something we simply find in a relationship—but something we consciously choose and create?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores what it takes to build relationships rooted in emotional safety, trust, authenticity, and genuine connection. We unpack why couples can love each other deeply yet still become emotionally distant, how ambition and daily responsibilities can affect intimacy, and the small intentional choices that can help relationships continue to grow through every season of life.

This is a conversation about connection—not just staying together, but learning how to truly see, hear, and experience one another.

Aug 18, 202621:54
The Power of Being Seen: Why Meaningful Conversations Matter

The Power of Being Seen: Why Meaningful Conversations Matter

What if the conversations that change us aren't the ones that give us the most information, but the ones that make us feel truly seen?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Richard Wilmore shares what more than a decade of interviewing, podcasting, and storytelling has taught him about people, authenticity, identity, and meaningful connection. We explore the art of asking better questions, creating spaces where people can be themselves, and why every person's story has value.

This is a conversation about communication beyond performance—and the quiet power of making someone feel heard, valued, and understood.

Aug 18, 202615:59
The Stories We Tell: How Storytelling Shapes Who We Become

The Stories We Tell: How Storytelling Shapes Who We Become

What if the stories we read, create, and tell ourselves are quietly shaping the people we become? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Russell Anders takes us through his lifelong journey as a storyteller—from a childhood curiosity about “what happened next” to becoming an author and student of the craft.

We explore creativity, persistence, rejection, the pursuit of growth, and the responsibility storytellers carry when their words influence how people see themselves and the world. Russell's journey offers a powerful reminder that storytelling isn't just about entertainment—it's about curiosity, connection, perspective, and the courage to keep writing the next chapter.

Aug 18, 202631:14
When Love Becomes Caregiving: Finding Strength in Life’s Hardest Seasons

When Love Becomes Caregiving: Finding Strength in Life’s Hardest Seasons

What happens when the person you love becomes the person you must advocate for, care for, and fight alongside? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Tiffany Auvil shares her deeply personal journey from healthcare professional to caregiver after her husband was diagnosed with cancer.

We explore the realities of caregiving, self-advocacy, emotional resilience, grief, uncertainty, and the importance of asking for support. Tiffany's story reminds us that strength isn't about carrying everything alone—it's about learning how to show up with love, honesty, and compassion when life doesn't go according to plan.



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Aug 18, 202625:56
Remembering to Resist: Courage, Freedom, and the Stories That Shape Us

Remembering to Resist: Courage, Freedom, and the Stories That Shape Us

What happens when one family's story becomes a reminder for generations? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Dr. Robert J. Wolf shares the remarkable story of his father, Ervin Wolf, whose journey through Nazi occupation and Communist Hungary reveals the extraordinary resilience of the human spirit.

We explore the meaning of freedom, the power of remembering, acts of courage and kindness in dark times, and the responsibility we have to preserve stories of the past. This conversation reminds us that history isn't simply something we study—it is something that shapes how we understand humanity and how we choose to live today.

Aug 18, 202622:15
Every Life Has a Story: The Power of Being Seen, Heard and Understood

Every Life Has a Story: The Power of Being Seen, Heard and Understood

What if the most powerful stories aren't always told by famous people—but by ordinary people who have survived extraordinary moments? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Kelsey Billingsley, award-winning podcast host and creator of Unspoken Lives, shares why every person has a story worth telling.

We explore the power of vulnerability, intentional listening, resilience, grief, hope, and human connection—and how creating space for someone's story can remind them that they are not alone. Kelsey's journey is a powerful reminder that beneath every life is a story waiting to be heard.

Aug 17, 202622:53
When Safety, Leadership and Accountability Collide

When Safety, Leadership and Accountability Collide

What happens when workplace safety becomes more than a policy or legal requirement—and becomes a question of whether people make it home safely?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, maritime attorney George Vourvoulias takes us behind the scenes of one of America's most demanding industries, exploring the realities of maritime work, workplace accidents, the Jones Act, employer accountability, and safety culture. Together, we look beyond the legal cases to the human stories behind them—and why strong leadership and accountability can make all the difference.

Aug 17, 202621:39
When Faith Has Questions: Finding Understanding Through Curiosity

When Faith Has Questions: Finding Understanding Through Curiosity

What happens when faith doesn't come with easy answers? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Cassian Bellino shares her journey from struggling to understand Scripture to creating Biblically Speaking, a platform that encourages thoughtful questions, deeper learning, and meaningful conversations about faith. Together, we explore how curiosity, humility, and honest inquiry can deepen our understanding and transform the way we approach our spiritual journey.

Aug 15, 202625:59
Writing with Purpose: Turning Your Story Into Meaningful Impact

Writing with Purpose: Turning Your Story Into Meaningful Impact

What makes a book truly worth writing? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Ally Machate shares her experience in publishing and her insights on helping authors create books with clarity, purpose, and lasting value. We explore the emotional journey of writing, overcoming self-doubt, choosing the right publishing path, and transforming ideas and life experiences into meaningful work that can impact others.

Aug 15, 202624:07
Healing from Within: Redefining Health, Self-Worth, & Self-Care

Healing from Within: Redefining Health, Self-Worth, & Self-Care

What if lasting health isn't about changing your body, but changing the way you care for yourself? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Pam Sherman shares her powerful journey through adversity, resilience, fitness, and personal transformation. We explore the connection between self-worth and wellness, how to build healthier habits without shame, and why true transformation begins from the inside out.

Aug 15, 202620:06
The Wisdom of Slowing Down: Finding Meaning in Nature, Work, & Everyday Life

The Wisdom of Slowing Down: Finding Meaning in Nature, Work, & Everyday Life

What if some of life's deepest wisdom isn't found in achieving more, but in learning to notice more? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Matt Thomas shares how poetry, nature, engineering, conservation, and meaningful work have shaped his understanding of presence, creativity, resilience, and intentional living. Together, we explore how slowing down and paying attention can help us reconnect with ourselves, the natural world, and the beauty hidden in ordinary moments.

Aug 15, 202624:22
Building Love Intentionally: The Inner Work Behind a Stronger Marriage

Building Love Intentionally: The Inner Work Behind a Stronger Marriage

A strong marriage isn't built on love alone—it grows through self-awareness, communication, humility, friendship, and the willingness to keep choosing each other. In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Kameran Alareqi shares powerful insights from her personal journey and years of helping couples rebuild connection and create healthier marriages.

We explore reconciliation, emotional safety, relationship patterns, vulnerability, and the importance of becoming the kind of person who can help love grow.

Aug 15, 202622:55
From Childhood Imagination to purpose: The Stories That Shape Us

From Childhood Imagination to purpose: The Stories That Shape Us

What begins as childhood imagination can sometimes become a lifelong purpose. In this episode of Elsplend Realities, George Sirois shares his journey from creating stories as a child to becoming an author, audiobook narrator, podcast host, and advocate for fellow creatives.

We explore the power of storytelling, overcoming self-doubt, staying committed to creativity, and how the stories we create can connect, inspire, and leave a meaningful impact on others.

Aug 15, 202624:12
A Life Worth Remembering: Resilience, Family, and the Stories We Carry

A Life Worth Remembering: Resilience, Family, and the Stories We Carry

Some legacies are built through achievements. Others are built through survival, resilience, faith, and the stories passed from one generation to the next.

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Martin Bodek shares the extraordinary story of his grandfather, a Holocaust survivor whose journey through war, displacement, rebuilding, and immigration became the inspiration for Zaidy's War. We explore family history, resilience, memory, and why preserving the stories of those who came before us matters so deeply.

A powerful reminder that sometimes the greatest legacy isn't what we leave behind—but the lives and stories we make sure are never forgotten.

Aug 15, 202626:11
Beyond the Numbers: What Really Creates Lasting Business Value

Beyond the Numbers: What Really Creates Lasting Business Value

What truly makes a business valuable? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Dave Bookbinder shares insights from decades of valuing businesses and reveals why financial performance is only part of the equation. We explore human capital, leadership, culture, trust, and the often-overlooked factors that create lasting enterprise value.

A thoughtful conversation about looking beyond the numbers to understand what truly makes a business—and the people behind it—valuable.

Aug 15, 202618:03
The Stories We Carry: Memory, Resilience, and Becoming Who We Are

The Stories We Carry: Memory, Resilience, and Becoming Who We Are

What if revisiting the past could help us understand ourselves more clearly in the present? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Laura Van Wormer takes us back to the world of adolescence, friendship, identity, and belonging through her serialized fiction podcast The Class of '74.

We explore how memory shapes us, how difficult experiences can transform our perspective, and why the stories of our younger selves still have something to teach us today.

Aug 15, 202627:50
The Stories We Inherit: Identity, Belonging, and the Power of the Past

The Stories We Inherit: Identity, Belonging, and the Power of the Past

What happens when we look into the past and discover more than just history—we discover ourselves? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Mark Jamilkowski shares how family history, research, and storytelling have shaped his understanding of identity, resilience, belonging, and the human experience.

A thoughtful conversation about the stories we inherit, the questions we carry, and how understanding where we come from can help us move forward with greater clarity and compassion.

Aug 15, 202626:10
The Moments That Shape Us: Parenting, Emotional Awareness, & Small Changes

The Moments That Shape Us: Parenting, Emotional Awareness, & Small Changes

What if the moments that shape our children most aren't the big milestones, but the small everyday interactions we often overlook?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Mary Willcox Smith explores the emotional realities of parenting, the pressure parents place on themselves, and how small intentional shifts can create meaningful change. Through her MicroStep Method®️, Mary shares practical ways parents can respond with greater awareness, build resilience in their children, and move beyond the pursuit of perfect parenting.

A thoughtful conversation about parenting, connection, emotional awareness, and the small moments that can shape a child's inner world for years to come.

Aug 15, 202624:14
Beneath the Surface: Identity, Authenticity, & the Journey Back to Yourself

Beneath the Surface: Identity, Authenticity, & the Journey Back to Yourself

What happens when the person we've become no longer feels like the person we truly are? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Leah C. Gardiner shares her powerful perspective on identity, authenticity, creativity, and personal transformation, drawing from her work as an award-winning theatre and film director, writer, actor, and founder of QSLHealing.

We explore the stories we carry, the patterns that shape us, the difference between insight and lasting transformation, and what it takes to reconnect with ourselves beneath expectations and performance.

A thoughtful conversation about self-discovery, belonging, inner trust, and the courage to become more fully who you are.

Aug 12, 202627:21
Beyond Home: Travel, Reinvention, & Discovering Who We Become

Beyond Home: Travel, Reinvention, & Discovering Who We Become

What happens when leaving home becomes a journey of discovering yourself? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Paula Barnes shares her experience of living across cultures, raising a family abroad, navigating empty-nest life, and continuing to embrace new adventures.

We explore identity, belonging, reinvention, cultural connection, and the courage to step outside familiar spaces—especially during seasons of life when we may feel ready to rediscover ourselves.

A conversation about travel as more than movement—a pathway to self-discovery, renewed confidence, and the freedom to become who you're meant to be.

Aug 12, 202618:37
The Power of “And”: Redefining Success, Embracing Change, & Becoming More

The Power of “And”: Redefining Success, Embracing Change, & Becoming More

What if you didn't have to choose between success and fulfillment, ambition and balance, or security and transformation? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Sarena Diamond shares her journey from decades in the corporate world to entrepreneurship, exploring how embracing “The Power of And” can change the way we approach leadership, uncertainty, and personal growth.

We talk about navigating change, trusting yourself through uncertainty, resilience, curiosity, and the courage to ask “What if?” instead of accepting the limitations we've placed on our lives.

A powerful conversation about redefining success, embracing possibility, and discovering that sometimes the greatest transformation begins when we stop thinking in either-or and start believing in both.

Aug 12, 202619:33
The Skills of Connection: Emotional Maturity, Self-Awareness, & Healthy Relationships

The Skills of Connection: Emotional Maturity, Self-Awareness, & Healthy Relationships

What if healthy relationships aren't something we simply find—but something we learn to build?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Louis Brantmeyer shares his journey from social anxiety and self-doubt to becoming a relationship coach, speaker, and advocate for deeper human connection. We explore emotional awareness, communication, vulnerability, personal responsibility, and the inner work required to create healthier, more intentional relationships.

This conversation is a reminder that meaningful connection begins with understanding ourselves—and that becoming a better partner, friend, or human being is a lifelong process of growth.

A thoughtful conversation about love, emotional maturity, self-awareness, and the courage to show up more authentically in our relationships.

Aug 12, 202626:07
The Art of Connection: Learning to Love, Communicate, & Be Truly Seen

The Art of Connection: Learning to Love, Communicate, & Be Truly Seen

What does it really take to build meaningful relationships? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Paul Aaron Travis explores the deeper realities of love, intimacy, communication, vulnerability, and self-awareness.

As the founder of School For Love and School For Lovers, Paul shares practical insights into why connection doesn't simply happen—it is something we learn, practice, and nurture. This conversation invites us to look beyond chemistry and performance and discover how understanding ourselves can transform the way we connect with others.

Aug 12, 202625:30
When Success Isn’t Enough: Redefining Fulfillment, Authenticity & Self-Trust

When Success Isn’t Enough: Redefining Fulfillment, Authenticity & Self-Trust

What happens when you achieve the things you once believed would make you happy, only to realize something still feels missing? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Sophie Ash explores burnout, people-pleasing, self-trust, authenticity, and the courage to redefine success on your own terms.

Through her journey as an entrepreneur, speaker, and author of Be The Person, Sophie shares an honest perspective on stepping away from external expectations and reconnecting with what genuinely matters. This conversation invites us to look beyond achievement and ask a deeper question: Are we building a successful life—or a life that actually feels like ours?

Aug 12, 202628:26
From Surviving to Thriving: The Journey Back to Yourself

From Surviving to Thriving: The Journey Back to Yourself

What happens when surviving is no longer enough? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Danielle Bernock shares a deeply personal and empowering perspective on trauma, self-love, healing, and the journey from simply functioning to genuinely thriving.

Through her lived experience and work as a trauma-informed self-love coach, Danielle explores how hidden pain can shape the way we see ourselves, trust ourselves, and connect with others. This conversation is an invitation to replace self-judgment with compassion and begin the journey of coming home to yourself.

Aug 12, 202624:37
Finding Your Voice: Turning Purpose, Resilience & Faith Into Impact

Finding Your Voice: Turning Purpose, Resilience & Faith Into Impact

What if the message you’re carrying is exactly what someone else needs to hear? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Teresa Blaes shares her journey through entrepreneurship, ministry, faith, resilience, and personal growth—and what it means to find the courage to use your voice with purpose.

As a blind entrepreneur and co-founder of Kadosh Media Productions, Teresa offers powerful insights on overcoming fear, healing, building confidence, and helping others bring their God-given messages to life. This conversation is a reminder that your limitations don't have to define your calling—and that sometimes, finding your voice begins with believing it’s worth sharing.

Aug 12, 202617:27
When Freedom Is on the Line: Understanding the Reality of Criminal Justice

When Freedom Is on the Line: Understanding the Reality of Criminal Justice

What really happens when you find yourself facing the criminal justice system? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, veteran criminal defense attorney Saul Bienenfeld pulls back the curtain on police encounters, arrests, plea bargaining, high-stakes criminal cases, and the misconceptions people often have about their rights.

With more than 35 years of courtroom experience as both a prosecutor and defense attorney, Saul shares candid insights into what happens when accusations become reality—and why staying informed, calm, and prepared can make all the difference.

Aug 12, 202624:59
What if History Had Taken a Different Path?

What if History Had Taken a Different Path?

What can alternative history teach us about the world we live in today? In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Jeff Kildow takes us into the fascinating world of World War II aviation, combining his experience as an Air Force veteran and aerospace engineer with his passion for historical storytelling. We explore the power of “what if” questions, how technology and human decisions shape history, and why revisiting the past through imagination can help us see it with fresh perspective.



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Aug 12, 202618:38
From Invisible to Iconic: The Courage to Be Seen

From Invisible to Iconic: The Courage to Be Seen


Why do so many accomplished women remain the best-kept secret in their industry?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, personal branding strategist Shauna Smith explores the inner and outer journey from being highly capable but overlooked to becoming a trusted, visible authority. Drawing from her own experience of building other people's brands before claiming her own voice, Shauna shares why visibility is more than a marketing strategy—it's a mindset shift rooted in confidence, clarity, and self-worth.

Together, we discuss overcoming the fear of being seen, building an authentic personal brand, pricing with confidence, leveraging AI without losing your voice, and stepping into leadership with intention. Whether you're an entrepreneur, executive, or creative professional, this conversation offers thoughtful insights on owning your expertise, communicating your value, and creating a presence that reflects who you truly are.

Jul 31, 202622:26
The Psychology of Trust: Becoming the Obvious Choice

The Psychology of Trust: Becoming the Obvious Choice


Why do some brands and experts naturally earn trust while others struggle to be noticed?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, marketing strategist and buyer psychology expert Dr. Jackie Noelke explores the deeper principles behind visibility, trust, and effective communication. Rather than chasing trends or producing endless content, Jackie explains how clear messaging, intentional positioning, and understanding human decision-making can help businesses become the obvious choice in a crowded marketplace.

Together, we discuss the psychology behind buying decisions, the power of consistent messaging, building authority through long-form conversations, and why authentic clarity outperforms constant promotion. Whether you're an entrepreneur, consultant, creator, or business leader, this conversation offers practical insights into communicating your value with confidence and building trust that lasts.

Jul 31, 202620:15
Making Wellness Sustainable: Simple Habits That Last

Making Wellness Sustainable: Simple Habits That Last


Why do so many healthy habits fail—not because we lack motivation, but because they don't fit the way we actually live?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Ole Hovde, founder of Switchback Foods, shares how a personal desire for better health led him to create a simple, practical solution for busy lives. His journey reveals that lasting wellness isn't built on perfection or extreme discipline, but on making healthy choices easy enough to repeat consistently.

Together, we explore the power of small habits, the importance of simplicity in nutrition, cutting through health misinformation, and why sustainable wellbeing begins with designing routines that work in the real world. Whether you're trying to improve your diet, build healthier habits, or simply make wellness feel more achievable, this conversation offers practical insights for creating lasting change—one small choice at a time.

Jul 31, 202621:07
The Stories That Shape Us: Writing With Purpose, Morality, and Meaning

The Stories That Shape Us: Writing With Purpose, Morality, and Meaning


What makes a story stay with us long after we've finished reading it? Is it the plot—or the deeper truths it reveals about human nature?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, award-winning novelist Gerald Everett Jones explores the art of storytelling and the moral questions that give great fiction its lasting impact. Drawing from a career spanning fifteen books, Gerald shares how he crafts compelling characters, balances humor with serious themes, and uses fiction to examine justice, ethics, and the complexities of the human experience.

Together, we discuss the creative process, developing an authentic writing voice, the power of curiosity, and why stories remain one of the most meaningful ways to understand ourselves and others. Whether you're a writer, an avid reader, or simply fascinated by the narratives that shape our lives, this conversation offers thoughtful insights into the enduring power of storytelling.

Jul 31, 202630:22
Holding on Through Uncertainty: Finding Strength in Life’s Hardest Moments

Holding on Through Uncertainty: Finding Strength in Life’s Hardest Moments


What do you hold onto when life changes in an instant?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, long-term cancer survivor, author, and patient advocate Rick Hill reflects on a journey that began with a life-altering diagnosis and evolved into decades of learning about resilience, healing, and hope. Rather than focusing solely on physical recovery, Rick shares how mindset, personal beliefs, and intentional choices can shape the way we navigate life's greatest challenges.

Together, we explore the emotional realities of serious illness, the importance of making informed decisions, balancing hope with uncertainty, and finding meaning in difficult seasons. Whether you're facing your own health journey or supporting someone you love, this conversation offers a thoughtful reminder that while we can't always control our circumstances, we can choose how we respond—with courage, purpose, and hope.

Jul 31, 202627:34
Faith, Healing, and Rediscovering Your God-Given Purpose

Faith, Healing, and Rediscovering Your God-Given Purpose


What happens when life leaves you feeling spiritually weary, disconnected, or uncertain about who you are?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Prophetess Lashonda Hartidge shares a heartfelt conversation about faith, healing, and the journey of rediscovering our identity in Christ. As the founder of Sapphire Sista, she offers wisdom on overcoming spiritual exhaustion, embracing God's restoration, and finding the courage to walk confidently in our Kingdom purpose.

Together, we explore the power of transparency, the role of community in spiritual growth, and how faith can bring hope in life's most difficult seasons. Whether you're navigating pain, searching for clarity, or longing to deepen your relationship with God, this conversation is an encouraging reminder that healing, freedom, and purpose are always within reach through His grace.

Jul 31, 202627:00
From Overwhelm to Clarity: Training Your Mind to Respond, Not React

From Overwhelm to Clarity: Training Your Mind to Respond, Not React


Why do we react the way we do under stress? And what if greater clarity isn't something we wait for—but something we can intentionally develop?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, clinical psychologist Dr. Gregory T. Obert explores how stress, burnout, and emotional overload shape our thoughts, behaviors, and decision-making. Drawing from over 15 years of clinical experience, he shares practical, evidence-based strategies for regulating the nervous system, overcoming overthinking, managing emotional reactivity, and improving focus in everyday life.

Together, we discuss the hidden impact of chronic stress, the importance of reclaiming our attention, and simple techniques that help us respond with greater intention rather than reacting on autopilot. Whether you're feeling mentally scattered, emotionally drained, or simply looking to build greater resilience, this conversation offers practical tools to help you cultivate calm, clarity, and lasting emotional wellbeing.

Jul 31, 202627:27
Building Wealth With Intention: From Income to Lasting Legacy

Building Wealth With Intention: From Income to Lasting Legacy


Making money is one thing. Building lasting wealth is another.

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, financial expert and longtime H&R Block franchisee Christopher Wilson shares practical insights on moving beyond earning a paycheck to creating long-term financial security and a meaningful legacy. Drawing on more than two decades of experience, Chris explains why wealth isn't just about income—it's about intentional decisions, disciplined planning, and understanding how today's choices shape tomorrow's opportunities.

Together, we explore the habits that separate wealth builders from earners, the importance of financial literacy, retirement planning, community-based investing, and the mindset shifts that help individuals and families create lasting financial stability. Whether you're just beginning your financial journey or looking to strengthen the legacy you'll leave behind, this conversation offers thoughtful guidance for building wealth with purpose.

Jul 31, 202624:30
Leading Through Complexity: Systems Thinking for Lasting Impact

Leading Through Complexity: Systems Thinking for Lasting Impact


What if the biggest leadership breakthroughs don't come from working harder—but from seeing the bigger picture?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, strategic advisor and systems-thinking expert Dr. Esther Zeledon shares how leaders can navigate complexity with greater clarity, recognize pivotal decision points, and create meaningful, lasting change. Drawing on her experience working with governments, nonprofits, and global organizations, she explains why sustainable impact begins with understanding the connections between people, systems, and purpose.

Together, we explore systems thinking, leadership under pressure, building trust across diverse stakeholders, and balancing short-term demands with long-term vision. Whether you lead a business, a team, or a community, this conversation offers practical insights on making thoughtful decisions that create impact far beyond the present moment.

Jul 31, 202622:06
The Power of Boundaries: Building a Life of True Wealth

The Power of Boundaries: Building a Life of True Wealth


What does it really mean to live a healthy life? Is it simply the absence of illness, or is it something much deeper?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, licensed clinical social worker, author, and podcast host Glen Alex explores the idea of "Wellth"—a life enriched not only by physical health, but also by emotional resilience, meaningful relationships, healthy boundaries, and inner peace.

Together, we discuss why boundaries are essential for wellbeing, how stress and life transitions shape us, and why learning to listen to ourselves is one of the most important skills we can develop. Glen shares practical insights on navigating anxiety, grief, change, and the everyday choices that help us live with greater awareness, confidence, and wholeness.

If you've ever struggled to balance caring for others with caring for yourself, this conversation offers a thoughtful reminder that true wellbeing begins from the inside out.

Jul 31, 202625:35
Returning to Your True Self: Finding Clarity Beyond Fear and Judgement

Returning to Your True Self: Finding Clarity Beyond Fear and Judgement


What if the peace you're searching for isn't something you need to find—but something you need to uncover beneath the noise?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Kay Cordell Whitaker, elder, teacher, and lineage keeper of the ancient Ka Ta See tradition, shares timeless wisdom on releasing fear, quieting self-judgment, and reconnecting with our authentic selves. Drawing from more than four decades of teaching and her latest book, The 7 No-Nos, Kay explores how greater presence, awareness, and inner freedom begin by letting go of the mental patterns that keep us disconnected.

Together, we reflect on what it means to live from our true "Song," cultivate inner peace in a busy world, and embrace a life guided by clarity rather than fear.

This is a conversation about self-awareness, authenticity, and the quiet transformation that begins when we learn to listen to ourselves with compassion.

Jul 23, 202641:06
The Stories We Live: Adversity, Reinvention, and the Power of Documentary Filmmaking

The Stories We Live: Adversity, Reinvention, and the Power of Documentary Filmmaking


Every life tells a story—but some journeys challenge us to see the world in entirely new ways.

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, documentary filmmaker Jeremy Norrie reflects on a life that has spanned concert promotion, combat sports journalism, the emerging cannabis industry, and ultimately, filmmaking. Through those experiences, he discovered a passion for telling honest stories that explore adversity, recovery, resilience, and the complexity of the human experience.

Together, we discuss the art of documentary storytelling, the lessons hidden in unconventional life paths, and why curiosity, empathy, and an open mind are essential to understanding the people and stories around us.

This is a conversation about reinvention, perspective, and finding purpose by turning life's experiences into stories that inspire understanding and meaningful reflection.

Jul 23, 202626:38
The Story That Changed Everything: Creativity, Imagination, and the Courage to Begin

The Story That Changed Everything: Creativity, Imagination, and the Courage to Begin


Some of the most meaningful creations begin in the most unexpected moments.

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, fantasy author Danielle Orsino shares how a story told to comfort a patient during her time as a nurse grew into The Legacies of Light & Dark—an immersive fantasy series and a thriving creative community.

Together, we explore the power of imagination, the connection between creativity and identity, the realities of the publishing world, and why following a quiet spark of inspiration can lead to extraordinary places.

This is a conversation about storytelling, self-expression, and discovering that sometimes the smallest moments become the beginning of our greatest adventures.



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Jul 23, 202624:52
Rewriting Your Money Story: From Financial Stress to Purposeful Living

Rewriting Your Money Story: From Financial Stress to Purposeful Living


What if the biggest obstacle to financial freedom isn't just a lack of money—but the story we've come to believe about it?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, financial coach, bestselling author, and Give A Heck podcast host Dwight Heck shares his remarkable journey from raising five children as a struggling single father to helping families and entrepreneurs build lasting financial confidence.

Together, we explore the emotional side of money, the mindset shifts that break the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle, and how financial literacy can become a pathway to greater freedom, purpose, and peace of mind.

This is a conversation about resilience, intentional living, and discovering that it's never too late to rewrite your money story—and your future.



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Jul 23, 202627:01
When Pain Becomes Purpose: Finding Strength Through Life’s Hardest Seasons

When Pain Becomes Purpose: Finding Strength Through Life’s Hardest Seasons


What happens when life changes in an instant—and everything you thought you knew about yourself is suddenly rewritten?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, we sit down with Fierce Manson to explore a journey marked by profound loss, extraordinary resilience, and unwavering faith. From surviving a life-threatening brain aneurysm and rebuilding after homelessness to navigating grief and supporting caregivers, Fierce shares how life's deepest challenges became the foundation for a life of purpose.

Together, we explore what it means to keep moving forward through uncertainty, how suffering can reshape our perspective, and why healing often begins with choosing hope one day at a time.

This is a conversation about resilience, compassion, and discovering that even our most painful chapters can become a source of light for others.

Jul 23, 202624:44
Coming Home to Yourself Through Embodiment

Coming Home to Yourself Through Embodiment


What happens when we spend so much time living in our minds that we lose touch with our bodies?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, embodiment mentor Patty Alfonso explores how reconnecting with the body's wisdom can transform the way we experience ourselves, our emotions, and our relationships. Through a thoughtful conversation on self-awareness, nervous system regulation, and self-trust, Patty shares why true personal growth isn't just about changing our thoughts—it's about learning to listen more deeply to ourselves.

Together, we discuss what it means to move from constant thinking to embodied living, how stress quietly disconnects us from who we are, and the gentle practices that help us reconnect with a deeper sense of presence and authenticity. This episode is an invitation to slow down, tune in, and rediscover the wisdom that's been within you all along.

Jul 23, 202626:13
When Strength Means Letting Go

When Strength Means Letting Go


What happens when the mindset that once fueled your success begins to work against you?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Nancy Deyo shares her deeply personal journey from leading in Silicon Valley to navigating years of chronic pain, misdiagnosis, and the difficult process of rebuilding her life. Through her story, she reflects on identity, resilience, and the courage to let go of old definitions of strength in order to embrace a more sustainable way of living.

Together, we explore what it means to adapt when life changes unexpectedly, how to navigate uncertainty with honesty, and why true resilience isn't always about pushing harder—it can also be about listening, accepting, and growing in a new direction. This conversation offers hope and perspective for anyone facing chronic illness, burnout, or a season that requires them to redefine what it means to move forward.



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Jul 23, 202623:20
When Your Nervous System Is Asking You to Slow Down

When Your Nervous System Is Asking You to Slow Down


What if the stress you carry isn't a personal failure—but your body's way of asking for safety?

In this episode of Elsplend Realities, Hailey Coleman, The Psychic Nervous System Coach, shares her journey from living in constant survival mode to helping others find calm, clarity, and emotional balance. Drawing from her own experiences with trauma, anxiety, and healing, she explains how nervous system regulation can transform the way we think, feel, and respond to life's challenges.

Together, we explore why the body must often feel safe before the mind can find peace, how chronic stress affects decision-making and self-trust, and the gentle practices that help us reconnect with ourselves. This conversation is a compassionate reminder that healing isn't about pushing harder—it's about learning to listen, slow down, and create the conditions where lasting change can begin.



https://calendly.com/hc-psychic-lifecoach/empoweredliving

Jul 23, 202625:10