SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay

SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay

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SuperPsyched is an award-winning podcast dedicated to improving your life with tools gained from interviewing world-class experts inside and outside the field of psychology. SuperPsyched will help get you more of what you want as well as gentle warnings to help you avoid things you don’t. See you there!

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#166 When Your Career Becomes Your Whole Identity | Janna Koretz, Psy.D.

SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam DorsayJun 27, 2023
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#319 Understanding Narcissism | Reid Meloy, PhD, ABPP

#319 Understanding Narcissism | Reid Meloy, PhD, ABPP

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews forensic psychologist Dr. Reid Meloy about myths and realities of narcissism. Meloy describes narcissism as a spectrum like blood pressure, emphasizing healthy narcissism as self-care and resilience, while pathological narcissism involves self-absorption that damages relationships and can become destructive; he also discusses malignant narcissism as intense self-focus paired with paranoia, citing Jim Jones as an example. In relationships, narcissists “live in a world of one,” using partners as mirrors for adulation and lacking reciprocal affection, often prompting partners’ realization they are replaceable. Meloy outlines long-term avenues for change—corrective emotional experiences, intensive psychotherapy, and psychoanalysis—and notes depression and loneliness in midlife can be an entry point for treatment, contrasting egosyntonic vs. egodystonic states. He warns about psychopathy’s dangers, its link to pathological narcissism, lack of treatment, and risks when psychopaths gain power.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Narcissism on a Spectrum

02:48 Healthy vs Pathological Narcissism

05:15 Malignant Narcissism and Cults

08:36 Everyday Relationship Patterns

12:51 Treatment Paths That Help

15:16 Love as Antidote

18:52 Loneliness Depression and Risk

26:18 Partner Trap Trying to Change Them

28:16 Egosyntonic vs Egodystonic

30:32 Psychopathy Warning Signs

33:10 Final Thanks and Subscribe

Helpful Links:

Dr. Reid Meloy

Dr. Reid Meloy Books

Dr. Reid Meloy LinkedIn

Dr. Reid Meloy Facebook

Jun 09, 202633:47
#318 The Lies that Trap Us | Alan Godwin, PhD

#318 The Lies that Trap Us | Alan Godwin, PhD

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews psychologist, professor, and author Dr. Alan Godwin about his book Ties That Bind: Unraveling Stories That Keep Us in the Dark, focusing on how individuals and societies accept untrue “stories” that merely sound true. Godwin shares growing up in segregated Jackson, Mississippi, where his idyllic childhood coexisted with racial terror across town, illustrating collective normalization of dysfunction. He discusses confirmation bias, motivated reasoning, and how adults construct self-justifying narratives, contrasting Jonathan Rauch’s “reality-based community” (evidence, epistemic humility, tolerance for ambiguity) with a “story-based fortress” that discards disconfirming facts and becomes both protection and prison. Using clinical examples like “Katie” and modern cases of relatives drawn into conspiratorial information silos, he emphasizes attachment and identity as drivers of collective deception, argues people are often drawn out by relationships more than information, and concludes that humility is the key skill for better truth-seeking.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:52 Meet Alan Godwin

02:42 Growing Up in Jackson

05:43 Stories and Lying

07:46 Bias and Normalization

10:08 Truth Hurts Then Frees

12:37 Reality Based Community

14:46 Story Based Fortress

18:02 Escaping the Fortress

20:14 Katie and Personal Healing

22:00 Harry Potter Blindness

22:50 Accents and Linguistics

23:27 From Self Doubt to Uncle Irving

24:42 Collective Deception Online

26:48 Environment Reveals the Real You

28:57 Information Silos and Gaslighting

30:58 Attachment and Identity Needs

33:57 Sports Fandom as Microcosm

36:14 Crowd Seduction and Nazi Rallies

38:32 Truth Needs Trusted Relationships

40:32 AI Can’t Replace Human Connection

41:41 Humility as the Ultimate Skill

44:35 Closing Thanks and Farewell

Helpful Links:

Dr. Alan Godwin

Dr. Alan Godwin LinkedIn

Ties That Blind: Unraveling Stories That Keep Us in the Dark Book

Jun 02, 202645:44
#317 Howard Schubiner, MD | A Cure for Pain

#317 Howard Schubiner, MD | A Cure for Pain

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces an episode of SuperPsyched featuring physician Dr. Howard Schubiner discussing his updated book, Unlearn Your Pain, and evidence-based approaches to chronic pain that avoid medication or surgery. Schubiner recounts his path from academic medicine to learning from Dr. John Sarno and explains how pain can persist without tissue damage due to neuroplastic neural circuits shaped by stress, emotion, and life experiences, with pain sometimes worsening via nocebo effects from medical messaging and MRI interpretations. He describes criteria suggesting non-structural pain and research indicating most chronic back/neck pain cases may be neuroplastic despite abnormal imaging. Schubiner outlines treatment steps: accurate diagnosis, education about brain-based pain, pain reprocessing therapy to reduce fear and build safety signals, and emotional awareness and expression therapy to address underlying emotions and trauma, citing clinical stories and randomized controlled trial support.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Chronic Pain Problem

01:13 Meet Howard Schubiner

02:33 Sarno Origin Story

04:37 Sarno Theory Explained

06:53 How Pain Is Learned

11:21 Compassion and Root Causes

12:34 Pain as Social Justice

15:43 Placebo Nocebo Power

19:17 MRI Words and Nocebo

21:09 Adam Sciatica Story

22:27 When Surgery Helps

23:10 Fibromyalgia Is Real

23:17 Neuroplastic Pain Evidence

23:56 MRI Study Contradiction

26:35 Is It All In Head

27:30 Brain Creates Pain

29:12 Back Pain Recovery Story

31:50 Sensitivity And Temperament

34:02 Peacemaker Pain Pattern

35:33 Endometriosis And Boundaries

39:40 Treatment Steps Overview

42:25 Emotional Expression Therapy

45:05 Movement And Farewell

Helpful Links:

Unlearn Your Pain Website

Unlearn Your Pain Book

Episode 84 - Unlearning Your Pain | Howard Schubinder, MD

The Science Behind The Symptoms Podcast

May 26, 202647:14
#316 The Magic Ingredient: Psychological Safety | Minette Norman

#316 The Magic Ingredient: Psychological Safety | Minette Norman

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews leadership consultant Minette Norman about psychological safety and her co-authored book, The Psychological Safety Playbook for Changemakers. Norman defines psychological safety as the belief that in a group you can ask questions, make mistakes, and voice differing views without embarrassment, exclusion, or repercussions, and contrasts it with environments where people agree publicly but dissent privately. They discuss high-stakes consequences of low psychological safety (healthcare errors, the Challenger disaster), organizational costs (reduced innovation and performance, increased burnout and disengagement, reputation management and groupthink), and links to inclusion and hearing from introverts and neurodivergent thinkers. Norman shares practical leadership actions such as redesigning meetings, inviting dissent, asking “What am I missing?”, admitting mistakes, using blameless learning after failures, and sustaining safety through mutual respect; she highlights “the power of the pause” to respond thoughtfully when triggered.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:27 Why Safety Matters

03:15 Defining Psychological Safety

05:00 Real World Stakes

06:47 How the Book Happened

11:37 What It Is Not

15:19 The Hidden Costs

21:35 Reputation and Inner Circles

23:34 Building It Day by Day

30:57 Inclusive Meetings for All

36:51 Top Practices to Try

39:30 The Power of the Pause

43:07 Final Takeaways

Helpful Links:

Minette Norman

Minette Norman LinkedIn

Minette Norman Instagram

The Psychological Safety Playbook for Changemakers Book

May 19, 202644:00
#315 Solo Short: A Few Good Shows | Adam Dorsay, PsyD

#315 Solo Short: A Few Good Shows | Adam Dorsay, PsyD

Dr. Adam Dorsay’s Psychologically Rich TV Picks: Bill Lawrence, Ray Donovan, and Jury DutyDr. Adam Dorsay, Silicon Valley psychologist and host of the SuperPsyched podcast, shares recent TV recommendations he finds psychologically rich. He highlights Bill Lawrence as a hero behind comfort shows like Scrubs and Ted Lasso, praises Lawrence’s new series Rooster with Steve Carell, and recommends the darker, mysterious comedy Bad Monkey starring Vince Vaughn on Apple TV. He discusses Scrubs returning with recreated sets in British Columbia and renewed cast dynamics, noting its modern medical themes and its reputation for medical accuracy. He also enjoys Shrinking for its relationships despite questionable psychotherapy realism. Moving darker, he recommends Ray Donovan for its pitch-perfect portrayal of family dysfunction and standout performances by Liev Schreiber and Jon Voight, comparing its quality to The Sopranos. He closes with Jury Duty, a Truman Show-like semi-reality comedy, and invites listener feedback and subscriptions.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:27 TV Geek Picks00:51 Bill Lawrence Highlights01:33 Bad Monkey Spotlight02:13 Scrubs Returns03:35 Why Shrinking Works04:34 Going Dark Ray Donovan07:03 Wild Comedy Jury Duty08:18 Wrap Up and Subscribe

May 12, 202609:06
#314 ADHD & Productivity - Ari Tuckman, PhD

#314 ADHD & Productivity - Ari Tuckman, PhD

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews psychologist and ADHD expert Dr. Ari Tuckman about ADHD and productivity, focusing on the gap between knowing and doing and the consequences of untreated ADHD, including broad health and life risks. Tuckman distinguishes ordinary forgetfulness from ADHD as an exacerbation of universal problems, urges taking ADHD seriously without taking it personally, and explains why impatience and shame can build from repeated “missing the mark” moments. They discuss practical strategies for reliability and punctuality, emphasizing intention, realistic planning, saying no, and “feeling the future.” Tuckman contrasts evidence-based treatments (especially stimulant medication, plus therapy, sleep, exercise, mindfulness) with largely unsupported alternatives (supplements, brain training, dietary fixes, chiropractic claims). He outlines differential diagnosis considerations (sleep issues, anxiety, depression, trauma, bipolar, autism) and recommends thorough interviews over costly testing batteries, offering tools like analog clocks to externalize time.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Why ADHD Matters

01:12 Meet Dr Ari Tuckman

02:50 Forgetfulness vs ADHD

03:58 Why Ari Chose ADHD

05:34 Adult ADHD Then and Now

07:40 Impatience and Self Criticism

10:18 Actually Being On Time

12:40 Planning Paradox Tips

16:47 Feeling the Future

19:12 Treatments vs Alternatives

21:14 Costs of Untreated ADHD

22:23 Medication Without Shame

23:59 Glasses Denial Story

24:56 Diet and Microbiome Reality

26:39 Supplements and Other Myths

28:50 Ruling Out Lookalikes

32:51 Getting a Proper Diagnosis

34:54 Practical Time Tools

36:54 Living Well With ADHD

39:16 Intentions Versus Impact

42:12 Closing Thanks and Subscribe


Helpful Links:
Dr. Ari Tuckman

The ADHD Productivity Manual Book

May 05, 202643:22
#313 Why We Talk Funny: The Real Story Behind Our Accents | Valerie Fridland, PhD

#313 Why We Talk Funny: The Real Story Behind Our Accents | Valerie Fridland, PhD

Dr. Adam Dorsay hosts SuperPsyched and interviews University of Nevada, Reno linguistics professor and author Dr. Valerie Fridland about her book "Why We Talk Funny: The Real Story Behind Our Accents" and how accents shape identity. Fridland explains the title stems from how people label unfamiliar speech as “funny,” drawing on her upbringing in the South with French-speaking parents and the stigma and pride tied to Southern speech. She describes how children first learn language rhythms and sounds from parents (even in utero), then around ages four to five shift toward peer influence through “vernacular reorganization,” often retaining small traces of family speech. Fridland outlines how American regional dialects developed from settlement patterns and later cultural inputs, and discusses how comedians and politicians use marked accents to invoke stereotypes and solidarity. She also notes psycholinguistic research on cognitive fluency affecting judgments of trustworthiness, plus links between personality and speech features like fillers, and how familiarity drives perceptions of linguistic beauty.


00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Why Accents Fascinate Us

01:21 Meet Valerie Fridland

02:40 Growing Up With Accents

06:23 Parents vs Peers

10:50 How Kids Shift Accents

14:50 Origins of US Dialects

17:09 Colonies and Cultural Roots

23:11 Melting Pot and Language Loss

25:03 Why Accents Sound Funny

29:50 Solidarity and Authenticity

33:15 Accent Bias and Fluency

38:10 Closing Thanks and Subscribe


Helpful Links:


Valerie Fridland, PhD

Why We Talk Funny: The Real Story Behind Our Accents Book

Apr 28, 202639:27
#312 What Makes Attraction Magic Happen | Paul Eastwick, PhD

#312 What Makes Attraction Magic Happen | Paul Eastwick, PhD

Dr. Adam Dorsay hosts UC Davis psychology professor Dr. Paul Eastwick to discuss his book "Bonded by Evolution: The New Science of Love and Connection" and what research shows about attraction and relationship longevity. Eastwick contrasts stated mate preferences with what predicts attraction and satisfaction in real interactions, highlighting the importance of feeling supported and subjectively finding a partner sexy, even long-term. They discuss how vulnerability, listening, and reciprocal disclosure can spark early intimacy, and how an evaluative “shopping” mindset can undermine dating. Eastwick argues humans are a pair-bonding, often serially bonding species, citing motivated biases that favor current partners and genetic evidence suggesting low historical nonpaternity rates (~1%). They cover mixed-gender friendships as predictors of later relationship formation, relationship “construction” around shared elements, research on consensual non-monogamy (including jealousy/compersion differences), similarities across same- and mixed-gender couples with contextual challenges, and the value of grace during breakups.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 Why Attraction Matters02:20 Traits That Predict Love03:56 Support and Desire05:28 Keeping Sex Alive07:57 Vulnerability Is Attractive10:00 Dating Without Judgment13:59 Monogamy Myths17:09 Biases That Protect Bonds19:47 Jealousy and Infidelity21:48 Humans as Pair Bonders24:45 Infidelity Context25:19 Mixed Gender Friends29:16 Relationship Growth Tips33:31 Jealousy And Polyamory38:29 Same Sex Relationship Data40:12 Dating Apps To Groups43:47 Graceful Breakups Skill47:30 Final Thanks And Wrap

Helpful Links:

Paul Eastwick, PhD

Bonded by Evolution Book

Apr 21, 202648:42
#311 The Nazi & The Psychiatrist | Jack El-Hai

#311 The Nazi & The Psychiatrist | Jack El-Hai

Apr 14, 202652:31
#310 Solo-300 Episodes and Counting | Adam Dorsay, PsyD

#310 Solo-300 Episodes and Counting | Adam Dorsay, PsyD

Dr. Adam Dorsay, Silicon Valley psychologist and host of the SuperPsyched podcast, reflects on reaching episode 300 and how the show began during COVID when he suddenly had extra time. He explains that “SuperPsyched” is about being deeply connected to one’s psyche, not toxic positivity, and shares that he books guests largely by simply asking, citing the Franklin Effect. He highlights the show’s wide-ranging catalog—from athletes, musicians, and Nobel laureate Robert Lefkowitz to a Holocaust survivor, an undertaker, a cat psychologist, and Daryl Davis—along with milestone episodes featuring his father (episode 150) and mother (episode 300). Key takeaways include intimacy as “vulnerability well met” (Dr. James Cordova), the importance of psychological safety (Dr. Amy Edmondson), and evidence-backed self-compassion (Chris Germer), plus research suggesting luck increases with the number of people you meet.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:29 Episode 300 milestone

00:38 Starting during COVID

01:32 Meaning of SuperPsyched

02:53 Asking for guests

03:26 Franklin Effect explained

04:36 Favorite guests and range

06:59 Standout episodes and heroes

10:32 Top downloads and animal minds

11:12 Three key gleanings

14:18 Miracle question themes

15:17 Active luck through people

16:00 Thanks and subscribe

Apr 07, 202616:51
#309 ADHD And Emotions | Tamara Rosier, PhD

#309 ADHD And Emotions | Tamara Rosier, PhD

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews ADHD coach and author Dr. Tamara Rosier about ADHD, emotions, and daily strategies for healthier functioning. They discuss how people with ADHD are criticized far more than peers, may feel “broken,” and often have impulse-control challenges, heightened emotional intensity, high sensitivity, and sensory issues tied to a sensitive nervous system, making environmental fit and nervous-system regulation important. Rosier argues ADHD isn’t inherently a “gift,” but benefits can emerge when energy and emotions are managed, including choosing where attention goes and treating feelings as informants rather than facts. They emphasize sleep as foundational, covering difficulties with sleep onset, maintenance, and desire, the importance of deep sleep for the brain’s glymphatic “cleaning” system, and how time blindness and “rabbit holes” interfere with routines. Rosier closes with a wish that people understand human interconnectedness and accept themselves without constant proving.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:26 ADHD and Emotional Bruises

01:11 Meet Dr Tamara Rosier

02:48 Why ADHD People Click

04:21 Not a Gift Managing Energy

05:45 High Sensitivity and Nervous System

08:12 Sensory Overload and Regulation

08:41 Behavioral Basics Beyond Meds

09:50 Sleep Struggles with ADHD

11:47 Glymphatic System Brain Cleaning

12:19 Beliefs About Sleep Drive

14:50 Reframing Sleep with Clients

15:01 Sleep as Necessary Evil

15:26 Bedtime Sabotage Habits

16:19 Time Blind Rabbit Holes

17:55 Why Sleep Runs Everything

18:33 ADHD Emotional Engine

20:34 Feelings Aren't Facts

24:04 Curious Not Furious

24:41 Default Mode Network Explained

26:16 One Skill for Humanity

27:31 Connection Story and Farewell

Helpful Links:

Tamara Rosier, PhD

Tamara Rosier, PhD LinkedIn

Tamara Rosier, PhD Books

Mar 31, 202629:29
#308 A 6x Memory Champion Shares His Secrets | Nelson Dellis
Mar 24, 202621:30
#307 Preventing Alzheimers & Keeping Your Brain Fit | Majid Fotuhi, MD, Johns Hopkins Medical School

#307 Preventing Alzheimers & Keeping Your Brain Fit | Majid Fotuhi, MD, Johns Hopkins Medical School

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and interviews neurologist and Johns Hopkins professor Dr. Majid Fotuhi about keeping the brain resilient and reducing Alzheimer’s risk. Fotuhi describes the brain’s capacity to recover and adapt, citing cases of major brain injury and hemispherectomy, and challenges the myth that Alzheimer’s is inevitable with age, noting “super agers” and emphasizing “use it or lose it.” He outlines five key pillars for brain health: exercise, 7–8 hours of sleep, a Mediterranean/heart-healthy diet, stress reduction, and daily cognitive challenge. He reports a 12-week program in which 84% of patients improved on cognitive tests and many increased hippocampal volume by 1–3%. They discuss sleep apnea as a serious risk, cortisol’s harmful effects from chronic stress, managing repetitive negative thoughts, adopting growth mindset and broader views of intelligence, and choosing daily practices that build happiness.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Why Brain Health Matters

01:02 Meet Dr Majid Fotuhi

02:51 The Invincible Brain Stories

05:16 How the Brain Compensates

06:48 Alzheimers Myths and Super Agers

11:06 Use It or Lose It Mindset

13:21 Beyond IQ Multiple Intelligences

18:01 Growth Mindset Builds the Brain

20:56 Reversing Aging in 12 Weeks

23:12 Five Pillars of Brain Health

25:36 Sleep Apnea and Brain Damage

28:02 Exercise Is Nonnegotiable

29:59 A Neurology Insider Story

30:33 Three Pillar Basics

31:20 Lifestyle Intelligence

32:43 Teeth And Brain Care

34:36 Culture And Identity Habits

36:01 Stress Shrinks Hippocampus

39:44 Reframing Stress Mindset

41:18 Stop Negative Loops

45:42 Morning Gratitude Practice

49:44 Challenge Your Brain

52:12 Happiness Is A Choice

55:15 Small Things Compound

56:41 Closing Thanks And Subscribe

Helpful Links:

Dr. Mahid Fotuhi

Dr. Mahid Fotuhi Johns Hopkins

Dr. Mahid Fotuhi YouTube

The Invincible Brain: The Clinically Proven Plan to Age-Proof Your Brain and Stay Sharp for Life Book

Mar 17, 202657:01
#306 Our Identities And Work | Gianpiero Petriglieri, MD
Mar 10, 202628:10
#305 Writing Great Fiction | Andrew Davidson

#305 Writing Great Fiction | Andrew Davidson

Psychologist and SuperPsyched host Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews novelist Andrew Davidson about Davidson’s debut novel The Gargoyle and the role fiction can play in empathy and mental health. Davidson summarizes the book as a burn-ward patient approached by a woman who claims they were lovers 700 years ago, highlighting the tension between the narrator’s atheism and Maryanne Engel’s faith. He discusses his research-driven writing process, including firsthand outreach to a burn survivor, extensive historical sourcing, and deliberate choices balancing accuracy with emotional truth. Davidson explains cutting a much longer manuscript, securing representation from agent Eric Simonoff, and how the book’s global publication—including translations and a reported $1.25 million advance—led to an overwhelming publicity tour that altered his relationship with writing. He describes later work in theater and ends by naming empathy as the key insight to improve society.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:26 Why Fiction Matters

00:49 Introducing The Gargoyle

02:28 Meet Andrew Davidson

03:24 What The Book Is About

06:44 Characters and The Author

09:09 Researching Worlds and Trauma

13:59 Accuracy vs Emotional Truth

19:02 Trusting Intuition and Editing

21:12 Loving the Writing Process

22:26 Why Only One Novel

24:39 Writing for Love

25:40 Japan and The Gargoyle

26:30 Fame and Touring Burnout

29:11 Reset in Paris

30:26 Theater and New Writing

31:57 Writer Identity and Intrinsic Drive

33:48 Landing a Top Agent

36:07 Editing Down the Manuscript

40:11 Luck Preparation and Gratitude

42:35 Movie or Limited Series

45:34 Winnipeg Theater Mission

47:54 Empathy and Farewell


Helpful Links:

Andrew Davidson Facebook

The Gargoyle Book

Mar 03, 202650:20
#304 ADHD & Marriage | Melissa Orlov

#304 ADHD & Marriage | Melissa Orlov

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces his podcast episode featuring Melissa Orlov, a Harvard-educated expert on ADHD and marriage and author of “The ADHD Effect on Marriage” and “The Couple’s Guide to Thriving with ADHD.” They discuss what adult ADHD is and is not, emphasizing attention dysregulation, distractibility, impulsivity, planning and working-memory difficulties, and emotional dysregulation, along with the hereditary and neurochemical basis (notably low dopamine) and why stimulants can be calming by increasing dopamine availability. Dorsay shares his own late ADHD diagnosis, his first experience taking Ritalin, and how medication helped him build habits and identity-based changes he later maintained without medication.

Orlov describes common, predictable relationship patterns in ADHD-impacted couples, including the “hyperfocus courtship” phase driven by elevated dopamine and the shift after 24–28 months when symptoms become more visible. She outlines the experiences of both partners: the ADHD partner often carries lifelong shame and sensitivity to criticism, while the non-ADHD partner can feel lonely, resentful, and overwhelmed by chaos and perceived lack of follow-through. They explore distractibility and how “new or shiny” can override what is important, and they highlight strengths often associated with ADHD such as creativity, energy, passion, and effective performance in high-stimulation contexts.

Orlov presents a three-stage framework for healing: moving out of denial and learning how ADHD impacts relationships, both partners taking responsibility for their own work, and breaking entrenched patterns such as parent-child dynamics and “symptom-response-response” cycles by reframing symptoms and changing reactions. They address sleep hygiene as foundational, noting sleep deprivation can worsen or mimic ADHD symptoms, and discuss strategies like consistent bedtime routines, “sacred bedtime,” and limiting electronics and blue-light exposure. They also discuss how parent-child dynamics harm sexual connection, the importance of lowering pressure when restarting sex, and improving communication about sex. Orlov closes with the importance of rebuilding trust through transparency and ownership rather than equating trust solely with perfect follow-through, and she names self-compassion and compassion for others as the key skill she would give to everyone.

00:00 Welcome to Dorsay

00:28 ADHD and Marriage Stakes

01:00 Meet Melissa Orlov

03:00 Why ADHD Feels Familiar

04:17 What ADHD Is and Isnt

06:23 Why Stimulants Help

07:38 Adams Diagnosis Story

09:36 Medication Targets and Hope

12:14 Habits and Identity Shifts

13:15 Empathy for Both Partners

14:50 ADHD Partner Childhood Shame

20:13 Non ADHD Partner Experience

22:19 Hyperfocus Courtship Chemistry

24:46 Distractibility in Relationships

26:49 Main Thing Mantra

27:24 Medication to Structure

28:39 ADHD Strengths Kept

30:17 Three Stages Healing

31:29 Breaking Bad Patterns

34:57 Sleep Hygiene Fixes

40:36 Electronics at Bedtime

42:14 Sex and Reconnection

49:06 Rebuilding Trust

54:21 Compassion Magic Skill

55:22 Closing Thanks


Helpful Links:

Melissa Orlov

Melissa Orlov The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD Book

Feb 24, 202656:22
#303 How to Fight BS on the Web | Avi Tuschman, PhD

#303 How to Fight BS on the Web | Avi Tuschman, PhD

Dr. Adam Dorsay introduces SuperPsyched and frames the growing misinformation problem, citing low trust in traditional media , the rise of influencer-based news consumption among 18–29 year olds, research that false news spreads faster than truth on Twitter, and the World Economic Forum ranking misinformation/disinformation as the most severe global risk in 2024 and 2025. He interviews Dr. Avi Tuschman (Stanford StartX serial entrepreneur; Stanford doctorate in anthropological science; expert on human political bias) about Crickit.ai (C-R-I-C-K-I-T), an AI tool that provides real-time in-stream fact checks for social media videos, starting with YouTube on desktop. The discussion covers why misinformation spreads (high-arousal content, negativity bias, suggestibility, and attention scarcity), why it affects everyone (including errors/omissions/exaggerations in reputable content), and the relationship between media ecosystems, polarization, and a global democratic recession. Avi raises concerns about TikTok’s influence, urging people over 30 to review its “society” content, citing examples of high-production disinformation, alleged foreign influence efforts, elevated WWII revisionism compared with Instagram (UNESCO figure of 5.7x), and medical misinformation (e.g., a study finding ~25% of asthma content has significant misrepresentations and is overrepresented in viewing). He describes Crickit’s user experience as subtitle-like overlays with a pause expansion panel summarizing evidence in ~40–50 words, and positions it as a tool to build media literacy and critical thinking—like a flight simulator for evaluating persuasion and uncertainty. Plans include mobile support and additional platforms, potentially later in the year, though TikTok is not supported yet. Avi offers listeners a discount via promo code/URL “SUPERPSYCHED" for monthly subscription savings for up to three years.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched + Why Misinformation Is Surging

00:55 The Numbers: Trust in Media, Influencer News & Falsehoods Spreading Faster

01:45 Meet Dr. Avi Tuschman & Crickit.ai—Real-Time Fact-Checks for YouTube

03:59 Why Avi Built Crickit: Science, Truth, and the 2018 Wake-Up Call

05:31 How Crickit Works (and Why It’s Not ‘Just a Chatbot’)

07:49 Inside the Engine: Claim Extraction, Source Cross-Checks & Reliability Ratings

10:05 Accuracy, Benchmarks & Why ‘Good Enough’ Beats the Status Quo

12:22 Misinformation’s Sneakiest Trick + Even ‘Trusted’ Videos Get Things Wrong16:09 Why BS Goes Viral: Attention Economics, High-Arousal Content & ‘The Medium Is the Message’

19:06 Pinocchio, Crypto Scams & ‘The Conscience of Content’ Origin Story

21:53 Human Suggestibility, Hypnosis, and the Social Media Influence Gap

25:02 The Paradox: We Need Influence to Survive—But Negativity Bias Warps It

25:37 Fear, Negativity Bias, and the Cost of Believing Bad Info

26:19 TikTok’s Mental Health Misinformation Problem

27:47 Why TikTok Is More Than ‘Dance Videos’—A Civic-Duty Reality Check

29:08 Propaganda, Fake Viral Videos, and WWII/Holocaust Revisionism

31:35 Can ‘Crickit’ Fact-Check TikTok? Roadmap and Timeline

32:31 How Crickit Works: Real-Time Overlays, Categories, and Rationale Panels

34:14 Training Critical Thinking: Ambiguity Tolerance, System 1 vs System 2

39:05 BS Is Omnipresent: Humility, Corrections, and Learning You’re Wrong

40:40 Media Literacy Gap + Crickit as a ‘Flight Simulator’ for Critical Thinking

42:40 Wrap-Up: Promo Code, Name Teasing, and the One Skill Humanity Needs

Helpful Links:

⁠Avi Tuschman LinkedIn⁠

⁠Crickit⁠.ai


Helpful Links:

⁠Avi Tuschman LinkedIn⁠

⁠Crickt⁠

Feb 17, 202649:11
#302 Guy Winch, PhD | Mind Over Grind: Reducing Stress at Work
Feb 10, 202642:39
#301 A New Guide to Motherhood at Any Stage | Rebecca Geshuri, LMFT

#301 A New Guide to Motherhood at Any Stage | Rebecca Geshuri, LMFT

Feb 03, 202643:31
#300 Wisdom from My Mom

#300 Wisdom from My Mom

In this milestone 300th episode of the SuperPsyched podcast, Dr. Adam Dorsay welcomes a very special guest—his mother, Dorothy Kurzrock Dorsay. Dorothy shares her extraordinary life journey, offering wisdom accumulated over 85 years. From her roots in Newark, New Jersey, to her impactful career in social justice with the National Conference of Christians and Jews, Dorothy gives insights into the importance of inclusivity, diversity, and lifelong learning. The episode is filled with heartwarming stories, including a hilarious anecdote about Adam's childhood mischief, and underscores the value of resilience, connection, and challenging prejudice.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Introducing a Remarkable Guest

01:01 Dorothy's Early Life and Career

03:26 Life Lessons and Childhood Memories

09:24 Social Justice and Inclusivity

18:15 Global Experiences and Family Adventures

21:38 Mitzvah Day and Community Impact

26:58 The Power of Connections

31:17 A Playgroup Incident and Susie's Theft

33:45 The Wide Net of Connections

34:55 Lessons from Mrs. Reed

39:30 Lifelong Friendships and Reunions

54:00 Parenting Moments and Life Lessons

57:13 Final Reflections and Wisdom

Jan 27, 202601:00:50
#299 Gretchen Rubin | How Do You Respond to Expectations?
Jan 20, 202641:13
#298 Why Brains Need Friends | Ben Rein, PhD
Jan 13, 202636:56
#297 Making Better Decisions with Both/And Thinking | Wendy Smith, PhD

#297 Making Better Decisions with Both/And Thinking | Wendy Smith, PhD

Jan 06, 202647:17
#296 Science of Luck & 2025 Year End | Adam Dorsay, PsyD Solo Episode

#296 Science of Luck & 2025 Year End | Adam Dorsay, PsyD Solo Episode

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay shares actionable strategies for increasing luck in the new year. He emphasizes the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive people, taking numerous chances, and learning from failures. Dr. Dorsay also discusses the psychological concept of 'cognitive after image,' the benefits of being audacious, and the significance of expanding your social network. Through anecdotal stories and scientific insights, he provides a roadmap to help you cultivate a luckier 2026. Happy New Year!

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Reflecting on the Past Year

00:55 Strategies to Increase Your Luck

01:43 Surround Yourself with Supportive People

02:32 Take More Shots

03:59 Embrace Failure and Learn

05:33 Ask Better Questions

06:36 The Power of Social Networks

07:54 Unexpected Opportunities

10:57 Final Thoughts and Wishes for 2026

Dec 30, 202511:44
#295 Getting More Love & Getting Out of Our Own Way | Allison Howe

#295 Getting More Love & Getting Out of Our Own Way | Allison Howe

Dec 23, 202538:31
#294 Emerging Strong After Affairs & Betrayals | Alexandra Solomon, PhD

#294 Emerging Strong After Affairs & Betrayals | Alexandra Solomon, PhD

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay hosts Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a licensed clinical psychologist and author, to discuss the complex and sensitive topic of affairs and betrayals in romantic relationships. They delve into the reasons behind infidelity, the emotional turmoil experienced by both betraying and betrayed partners, and the potential for healing and strengthening relationships post-affair. Dr. Solomon shares insights from her extensive experience and research, offering practical advice for couples aiming to rebuild trust and intimacy. Highlights include the importance of emotional attunement, understanding the impact of stress on libido, and the value of open communication. Dr. Solomon also mentions her online course designed to help couples navigate their journey after infidelity.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Can Couples Survive Betrayal?

01:17 Introducing Dr. Alexandra Solomon

01:49 The Complexity of Affairs

03:03 Why Do Affairs Happen?

04:26 The Emotional Turmoil of Betrayal

10:45 Gender Differences in Infidelity

22:41 The Aftermath of Betrayal

24:51 Normalizing the Initial Disruption

25:29 Emotional Attunement Crash Course

27:19 The Importance of Daily Check-ins

32:23 Holding Yourself in Warm Regard

34:16 Rebuilding Trust and Integrity

36:46 Keeping the Relationship Alive

39:15 Exploring Sexual Satisfaction

44:58 Final Thoughts and Resources

HELPFUL LINKS:

Dr. Alexandra Solomon Website

Dr. Alexandra Solomon’s Books

Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon Podcast

Dec 16, 202547:37
#293 Fighting Cancer with a Scalpel: The World of a Breast Cancer Surgeon | Sharon Chang, MD, FACS

#293 Fighting Cancer with a Scalpel: The World of a Breast Cancer Surgeon | Sharon Chang, MD, FACS

Dr. Adam Dorsay, psychologist and host of the SuperPsyched podcast, interviews Dr. Sharon Chang, a distinguished surgical oncologist educated at Harvard Medical School. Dr. Chang shares her journey in the demanding field of surgical oncology, including the rigorous schedules, challenges of being a female in a traditionally male-dominated field, and work-life balance. She discusses her routines for maintaining physical and mental health, the creation of psychological safety within surgical teams, and the importance of caring deeply for patients. Dr. Chang also shares her transition into coaching, focusing on mental fitness for healthcare professionals, and her efforts to combat burnout and advocate for lifestyle medicine. The episode provides a compelling and insightful look into the high-stakes world of a cancer surgeon and the valuable lessons learned along the way.

00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched

00:35 Meet Dr. Sharon Chang: A Life-Saving Surgeon

03:00 Challenges and Triumphs of a Female Surgeon

04:50 Balancing Surgery and Motherhood

06:43 Self-Care and Physical Fitness

08:29 A Day in the Life of a Surgeon

15:30 Handling Surgical Surprises

20:56 The Importance of Teamwork and Psychological Safety

26:29 Exploring Plastic Surgery and Patient Experiences

27:33 Communicating with Patients and Families

28:01 The Impact of Social Media on Medical Information

29:59 Humor in Medicine: Dr. Glaucomflecken and Misinformation https://youtube.com/@dglaucomflecken?si=6K46jj4z2LeMBfMZ

32:35 Delivering Good and Bad News to Patients

36:29 The Importance of Caring in Medicine

43:13 Transitioning to a Career in Coaching

47:30 Sharon Chang's Triple Aim for Healthcare

51:35 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Helpful Links:

Sharon B. Chang, MD, FACS LinkedIn

Dec 09, 202553:17
#292 Epic Disruptions | Scott D Anthony, Dartmouth Tuck School of Business
Dec 02, 202535:06
#291 A Guide to Thriving | Jon Rosemberg, MA
Nov 25, 202548:40
#290 Resilience & Post-Traumatic Growth | H'Sien Hayward, PhD

#290 Resilience & Post-Traumatic Growth | H'Sien Hayward, PhD

Nov 18, 202553:51
#289 What to Do About Our Buggy Brains, A Solo Short | Adam Dorsay, PsyD

#289 What to Do About Our Buggy Brains, A Solo Short | Adam Dorsay, PsyD

Understanding and Optimizing the Human BrainIn this solo episode of 'SuperPsyched,' Dr. Adam Dorsay delves into the complexities and shortcomings of the human brain. Highlighting that our brains have remained largely unchanged for the past 35,000 years despite dramatic changes in our environment, Dr. Dorsay explains how our brains are primarily wired for survival and efficiency, often leading to suboptimal decisions. He discusses the distinction between fast and slow thinking as described by Nobel laureate Dr. Daniel Kahneman and introduces methods for cognitive refutation to challenge erroneous beliefs. Using the example of a NBA player's binary thinking, he walks through a process to reconsider and redefine the meaning of success and failure, emphasizing the power of reframing negative thoughts to improve life quality.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 Understanding the Human Brain01:01 The Brain's Evolutionary Bugs03:24 Thinking Fast and Slow06:47 Cognitive Biases and Refutation11:44 Creating Meaning from Loss14:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Nov 11, 202515:36
#288 5 Quotes that Improved My Life, A Solo Short | Adam Dorsay, PsyD

#288 5 Quotes that Improved My Life, A Solo Short | Adam Dorsay, PsyD

In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay shares five transformative quotes that have significantly impacted his life. These quotes cover diverse topics from maintaining focus and understanding mental health to making decisions and applying knowledge. He highlights wisdom from Stephen Covey, Donald Winnicott, Guy Kawasaki, and others, providing actionable insights for personal growth. Additionally, he emphasizes the importance of discussion for change and the power of repetition in achieving mastery. Listen in for practical advice and inspiration to enhance your life.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Life-Changing Quotes: The Main Thing

02:43 Mental Health Insights from Donald Winnicott

04:45 Decision-Making Wisdom from Guy Kawasaki

08:11 Bridging the Gap Between Knowledge and Action

09:14 The Power of Talking and Naming Problems

12:26 Bonus Wisdom: Repetition is the Mother of Mastery

13:28 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

Nov 04, 202514:03
#287 The Power of a Side Hustle | Jed Goldstein, JD
Oct 28, 202554:43
#286 Internet Porn & Porn Addiction | Paul Marcille, PhD
Oct 14, 202540:44
#285 Being Stevie Nicks Onstage | Michelle Tyler of Mirage, Visions of Fleetwood Mac

#285 Being Stevie Nicks Onstage | Michelle Tyler of Mirage, Visions of Fleetwood Mac

In this engaging episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay speaks with Michelle Tyler, the talented performer who embodies Stevie Nicks in the Fleetwood Mac tribute band Mirage. Tyler discusses her journey from playing various cover songs to becoming one of the most respected Stevie Nicks tribute artists. The conversation covers a range of topics, including the rising trend of tribute bands, the meticulous preparation and dedication required to authentically recreate Nicks' iconic performances, and the challenges and joys of being a tribute artist. Michelle also opens up about how music has been a crucial part of her healing process through personal grief and loss, and she shares her methods for winding down after high-energy shows. Dr. Dorsay and Michelle explore the importance of empathy, listening, and self-compassion in daily life. This episode offers a fascinating look into the world of tribute bands and provides valuable insights applicable to anyone passionate about their craft.

00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched

00:28 Experiencing a Tribute Band

01:56 Interview with Michelle Tyler Begins

03:39 The Rise of Tribute Bands

05:18 Meeting Stevie Nicks

07:11 Inhabiting Stevie Nicks' Persona

13:15 The Joy of Performing

15:56 Touring and Travel Challenges

16:42 Post-Show Rituals and Relaxation

18:27 Fitness and Performance

19:22 Coping with Loss Through Music

21:08 Live Performances During COVID

22:17 The Power of Memory in Music

23:43 Selecting Band Members

25:38 Upcoming Shows and Challenges

27:14 Final Thoughts and Wisdom

Helpful Links:

Michelle Tyler Instagram

Mirage Visions of Fleetwood Mac Band

Tour Dates

Oct 07, 202529:56
#284 A Cure for the Common Company | Richard Safeer, MD, Johns Hopkins Medicine

#284 A Cure for the Common Company | Richard Safeer, MD, Johns Hopkins Medicine

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Dr. Richard Safeer, the Chief Medical Director of Employee Health and Wellbeing for Johns Hopkins Medicine, about his book 'A Cure for the Common Company.' They discuss the importance of creating a healthy work environment, the benefits of such investments from a business perspective, and practical strategies for fostering a wellbeing culture. Dr. Safeer shares insights on how to implement cultural changes in workplaces, the impact of leadership on employee wellness, and the significance of small practices that contribute to overall health and productivity. This episode is a comprehensive guide to enhancing workplace culture for better employee and organizational success.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 The Importance of Workplace Wellbeing

00:49 Introducing Dr. Richard Safeer

04:15 The Birth of 'A Cure for the Common Company'

05:51 The Business Case for a Healthy Work Environment

10:06 Changing Workplace Culture

14:03 Practical Steps for Cultural Change

18:01 The Impact of Overwork

22:52 Smoking Culture in the Workplace

24:59 Starting the Conversation on Smoking

25:32 Influence and Wellbeing in the Workplace

26:03 Addressing After-Work Culture

26:39 Supporting Social Connectedness

28:30 Case Study: REI's Positive Work Environment

33:41 The Importance of Rituals in the Workplace

38:11 Unintended Consequences of Workplace Benefits

41:53 Destigmatizing Mental Health in the Workplace

45:55 The Power of Self-Awareness

47:57 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

Helpful Links:

Dr. Richard Safeer

Dr. Richard Safeer Linkedin

A Cure for the Common Company: A Well-Being Prescription for a Happier, Healthier, and More Resilient Workforce Book

Sep 30, 202550:30
#283 Your Future Self | Hal Hershfield, PhD

#283 Your Future Self | Hal Hershfield, PhD

In this episode of the 'SuperPsyched' podcast, Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Dr. Hal Hershfield, a UCLA professor and author of 'Your Future Self: How to Make Tomorrow Better Today.' They discuss the critical importance of building a relationship with your future self, the psychological mechanisms behind procrastination, and practical exercises for better future-oriented decision-making. Through thought experiments and personal anecdotes, the conversation reveals how perspective taking and understanding the future impact of our current decisions can lead to greater life satisfaction and wellbeing. The episode also touches upon the importance of balancing present enjoyment with future planning and includes insights on how these concepts can benefit not just individuals but collective units like families and organizations.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Meet Your Future Self

01:13 Interview with Dr. Hal Hershfield

02:47 Defining the Future Self

03:40 Thought Experiments and Their Impact

05:28 Daily Exercises for Future Self Connection

08:43 Balancing Present and Future Investments

10:35 Personal Reflections and Decisions

13:44 Navigating Life's Tough Choices

19:25 The Importance of Quality Questions

20:50 Relating to Our Future Selves

25:31 Understanding Procrastination

29:13 Collective Future Selves

33:00 The Power of Perspective Taking

35:48 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Helpful Links:

Hal Hershfield, PhD

Hal Hershfield, PhD UCLA Anderson School of Management

Your Future Self: How to Make Tomorrow Better Today Book

Sep 23, 202536:29
#282 Congressman Sam Liccardo | Life as a Public Servant
Sep 16, 202528:31
#281 Lessons from the Emergency Department | Sara Krzyzaniak, MD

#281 Lessons from the Emergency Department | Sara Krzyzaniak, MD

Sep 09, 202542:44
#280 Understanding Groups & Teams | Colin Fisher, PhD
Sep 02, 202538:36
#279 Dr. James Hollis | Finding Sources of Guidance in Times of Crisis and Change

#279 Dr. James Hollis | Finding Sources of Guidance in Times of Crisis and Change

In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Dr. James Hollis, a renowned Jungian analyst, about finding effective strategies to navigate change and crisis. The conversation delves into the coping mechanisms people often turn to during troubling times and why they are unsustainable in the long run. Dr. Hollis shares insights from his latest book, 'Living Between Worlds: Finding Personal Resilience in Changing Times,' highlighting the importance of looking inward for guidance. They discuss how societal changes impact personal well-being and the necessity of becoming more intimate with oneself. Active imagination, dream analysis, and other self-reflective practices are emphasized as essential tools for personal development and resilience. This episode offers a deep exploration into the unconscious mind and practical steps to harness inner wisdom for facing life's challenges.


00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched

00:28 Coping with Change and Crisis

01:09 Introducing Dr. James Hollis

03:02 The Death of Pan and Cultural Shifts

07:34 The Role of Instinct and Adaptation

14:35 The Importance of Solitude and Inner Work

18:19 Understanding the Self and Ego

22:20 Practical Tips for Resilience

28:20 The Importance of Dreaming

29:13 Understanding Symbolic Language

31:56 The Role of Therapy and Self-Discipline

34:50 Facing Midlife Challenges

42:19 Embracing Curiosity and Overcoming Fear

44:18 Active Imagination and Self-Discovery

53:42 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

Helpful Links:

Dr. James Hollis

Living Between Worlds: Finding Personal Resilience in Changing Times Book

Aug 26, 202556:20
#278 Remembering Raffi: A Dog Who Helped Many People in Therapy

#278 Remembering Raffi: A Dog Who Helped Many People in Therapy

Dr. Adam Dorsay, host of the SuperPsyched podcast, reflects on the life and loss of his family and therapy dog, Raffi. He recounts Raffi's contributions to therapy, his impact on patients' well-being, and the profound grief experienced after his passing. This episode explores the benefits of therapy dogs, shares memories of Raffi, and discusses coping strategies for pet loss, emphasizing the importance of mourning and honoring the bond with pets.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:31 Remembering Raffi: A Therapy Dog's Legacy

02:17 The Benefits of Therapy Dogs

03:38 Raffi's Impact on Patients and Family

06:01 Raffi's Life and Personality

10:47 Challenges and Health Issues

13:21 Grieving the Loss of a Pet

18:44 Honoring and Remembering Pets

27:03 Navigating Pet Euthanasia

28:54 Coping with Pet Loss at Work

31:02 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

Aug 19, 202532:25
#277 The Memoir of a Daughter of a Jewish Mom & a Christian Palestinian Dad | Sonia Daccarett
Aug 12, 202542:23
#276 Loving Bravely Every Day | Alexandra Solomon, PhD

#276 Loving Bravely Every Day | Alexandra Solomon, PhD

In this episode of 'SuperPsyched,' Dr. Adam Dorsay, a psychologist in Silicon Valley, engages in an enriching conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon. As a psychologist, author, and professor, Dr. Solomon delves into the multi-faceted nuances of relationships, emphasizing the importance of quality connections in our lives. They discuss her influential books, 'Loving Bravely' and 'Love Every Day,' which provide practical relationship tips and insights. The conversation explores why love and relationships are crucial to our well-being, the stigma around couples therapy, and the importance of mutual understanding and vulnerability in partnerships. They also touch on the impact of societal expectations and the necessity for growth and adaptability within relationships. The episode offers valuable takeaways on how individuals can better relate to themselves and others, underscoring that there are no failures in relationships, only completions.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

01:03 Introducing Dr. Alexandra Solomon

02:10 The Importance of Relationships

05:39 The Role of Couples Therapy

10:03 Commitment and Sacrifice in Relationships

12:40 Personal Growth Through Relationships

18:44 Mutuality and Synergy in Partnerships

20:42 Understanding Emotional Expression in Relationships

20:50 The Importance of Mutual Support

23:19 Interdependence vs. Codependence

23:58 Navigating Shame and Rejection

25:06 Effective Communication Strategies

26:49 The Power of Pausing and Walking

27:17 Handling Grievances and Misunderstandings

31:44 The Role of Timing and Attunement

34:29 Reframing Relationship Endings

38:44 The Gift of Taking Ourselves Lightly

Helpful Links:

Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Northwestern University Bio

Reimagining Love Podcast

Aug 05, 202540:22
#275 The World of an Acclaimed Winemaker | Austin Hope
Jul 29, 202550:45
#274 Parenting Teens: Your Compass | Cynthia Muchnick, MA
Jul 22, 202531:29
#273 5 Things to Watch | A Summer Short with Adam Dorsay, PsyD

#273 5 Things to Watch | A Summer Short with Adam Dorsay, PsyD

In this episode, Dr. Adam Dorsay, a psychologist in Silicon Valley and host of the SuperPsyched podcast, shares his top five television show recommendations for the summer. He discusses the psychological value and entertainment offered by each show. The curated list includes 'The Pit,' a realistic medical drama; 'Dying for Sex,' a poignant story about a woman's quest for intimacy; 'The Four Seasons,' a fun and relational Netflix series; 'Last Flight Home,' a life-affirming documentary about medically assisted suicide; and 'Hacks,' a masterclass in comedic acting. Listeners are encouraged to enjoy these shows and share their thoughts.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:29 Summertime Show Recommendations

00:49 The Pit: Ultimate Medical Drama

02:46 Dying for Sex: A Deep Dive

03:38 The Four Seasons: Real Relationships

04:39 Last Flight Home: A Life-Affirming Journey

05:59 Hacks: A Masterclass in Acting

07:15 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Jul 15, 202507:51
#272 An Ode to Grandpa Ben & Video Biography | A Summer Short with Adam Dorsay, PsyD

#272 An Ode to Grandpa Ben & Video Biography | A Summer Short with Adam Dorsay, PsyD

Dr. Adam Dorsay, psychologist and host of the SuperPsyched podcast, shares heartfelt stories about his beloved Grandpa Ben. Dr. Dorsay recounts the joy and life lessons his grandfather imparted, from playful advice to treasured moments. He emphasizes the importance of capturing the stories of elderly family members, which can provide invaluable wisdom and preserve their legacy. The episode includes a humorous voicemail from Grandpa Ben, reflecting his endearing personality. Through these anecdotes, Dr. Dorsay underscores the timeless impact of his grandfather on his life and work.

00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched

00:28 Introducing Grandpa Ben

01:25 Grandpa Ben's Early Life

02:56 Life in New York and Retirement

03:44 Grandpa Ben's Wisdom and Humor

05:34 A Hilarious Voicemail

09:10 The Importance of Capturing Memories

10:34 Grandpa Ben's Legacy

12:45 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Jul 08, 202513:18
#271 The Art of Charm | AJ Harbinger & John Dzubak
Jul 01, 202553:12
#270 Self-Compassionate Children | Louise Shanagher, MSc & Wendy O'Leary, MEd
Jun 24, 202539:16