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Impact Ready

By Steph Saffer

Have you ever felt like you had great potential but couldn't get to your next level? Harness the power of your impact with “Impact Ready”. Hosted by Steph Saffer, mindset coach, speaker, entrepreneur, and acupuncturist, this podcast is your guide to elevating your impact and sparking meaningful change. Dive into insightful discussions on ownership and the power of your energy, and unlock actionable strategies to create a ripple effect of exponential results. Get ready to impact.
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203. Master the Quick Reset: The Skill of Self-Regulation

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206. From Thoughts to Character: Buddhist Wisdom for Mindfulness, Habits, and Lasting Impact

206. From Thoughts to Character: Buddhist Wisdom for Mindfulness, Habits, and Lasting Impact

The path to personal growth begins with something deceptively simple: watching your thoughts.


In this episode, Steph dives into how Buddhism, Taoism, and Chinese medicine have shaped her understanding of impact and what it means to live with mindfulness and intention. She explores the wisdom of yin and yang, the interconnectedness of thoughts, words, actions, and habits, and how each one builds on the last to shape your character and ultimately your destiny. Through personal stories and timeless principles, Steph shows how these ancient teachings offer a powerful blueprint for personal growth and lasting change.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • The influence of Buddhist and Taoist philosophy on impact
  • The interconnectedness of thoughts, words, actions, and character
  • The role of habits in defining identity and destiny


Your takeaways:

  • Your thoughts are the starting point. Watching them is the first step to meaningful change.
  • Habits aren't just things you do. They shape your character and define your destiny.
  • The balance of yin and yang reminds us that growth comes from embracing both sides of every experience.


Chapters

00:00 Welcome to the Impact Ready Podcast

00:15 Buddhist Wisdom and Personal Transformation

04:38 The Power of Thoughts and Words

07:51 Habits, Character, and Destiny



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May 07, 202611:19
205. From Reactivity to Intention: How Awareness Creates Better Impact

205. From Reactivity to Intention: How Awareness Creates Better Impact

What if the smallest moments in your day are creating ripple effects you haven't even noticed yet?


In this episode, Steph dives into the profound and often overlooked concept of impact, exploring how everyday actions shape the lives around us. She shares personal stories of transformation and breaks down why so many of us live in a state of automatic reactivity, driven by old habits instead of intention. Through a lens of awareness and personal growth, Steph encourages listeners to take ownership of how they show up and discover the freedom and joy that comes from living with purpose.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • The concept of impact in daily life
  • The role of awareness and intention
  • Personal stories of transformation


Your takeaways:

  • Impact isn't reserved for big moments. It's happening in all the small stuff, all the time.
  • Awareness and intention are what shift you from reactive to proactive living.
  • Taking ownership of how you show up creates greater freedom, joy, and purpose.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Proof of Light

01:31 The Importance of Impact

03:53 Understanding Personal Responsibility

08:13 The Power of Awareness and Intention

12:27 Living with Purpose and Impact



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May 04, 202615:23
204. Achieving Big Goals: How Personal Growth Can Feel Hard

204. Achieving Big Goals: How Personal Growth Can Feel Hard

If you've been wondering why pursuing your big goals feels so hard, maybe it's time to rethink what you're expecting from the journey.


In this episode, Steph tackles one of the biggest mindset traps in personal growth: the belief that life should be easy. She breaks down why challenges and struggle aren't signs that something is wrong, but are actually essential ingredients for achieving big goals. Steph encourages listeners to release false expectations, embrace the effort that real success requires, and find resilience and even pride in overcoming what's difficult. If you're ready to stop resisting the hard parts and start using them as fuel, this one's for you.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • The misconception that life should be easy
  • Challenges as opportunities for growth
  • Aligning effort with big goals
  • The role of struggle in achieving success


Your takeaways:

  • Expect challenges when aiming for a big life
  • Most people avoid the discomfort necessary for growth
  • Releasing false expectations reduces suffering


Chapters

00:00 Embracing Life's Challenges

04:15 Expectations vs. Reality in Pursuing Big Dreams

07:15 The Role of Effort in Achieving Greatness



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Apr 30, 202610:57
203. Master the Quick Reset: The Skill of Self-Regulation

203. Master the Quick Reset: The Skill of Self-Regulation

If you've ever had a rough morning throw off your entire day, it's time to build the self-regulation skills that keep you steady no matter what.


In this episode, Steph dives into the art of quick self-regulation and why it's one of the most important skills for personal development and leadership. She shares practical strategies for resetting your energy after setbacks, building resilience and emotional maturity, and developing the mental toughness to bounce back like a buoyant cork. Whether it's a bad morning or a stressful evening, Steph describes the importance of reclaiming your focus and staying high-performing throughout the day.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • The importance of quick self-regulation
  • Practicing resilience and emotional maturity
  • Strategies for rapid resetting after setbacks


Your takeaways:

  • Practice your quick reset to stay high-performing
  • Get skilled at self-regulation to manage daily challenges
  • Reset your energy quickly after a bad morning or evening


Chapters

00:00 The Importance of Self-Regulation

02:47 Practicing Quick Resets for Emotional Resilience



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Apr 27, 202607:43
202. Making Better Decisions: Your Internal Guidance System

202. Making Better Decisions: Your Internal Guidance System

If you've ever felt stuck in a decision, your feelings might be the compass you've been overlooking.


In this episode, Steph explores how emotions serve as a powerful internal guidance system and why so many people struggle to identify how they actually want to feel. Through a coaching lens rooted in emotional intelligence and self-awareness, she shares practical ways to tune into your feelings and use them to drive better decision-making. Whether you're navigating a big life choice or simply want to feel more aligned day to day, this conversation will help you build the confidence to trust yourself.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • Feelings as an internal guidance system
  • The importance of emotional awareness in decision-making
  • Practical ways to identify how you want to feel
  • The role of emotions in long-term motivation and resilience
  • Building tolerance for discomfort through emotional clarity


Your takeaways:

  • Your feelings serve as a powerful internal guidance system.
  • Knowing how you want to feel can inform better choices.
  • Building emotional awareness increases decision-making confidence.


Chapters

00:00 Unlocking Your Internal Guidance System

06:47 The Power of Feelings in Decision Making

10:31 Exploring Desired Emotions for a Fulfilling Life



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Apr 23, 202613:34
201. Positive Peer Pressure: How Your Community Shapes Your Habits

201. Positive Peer Pressure: How Your Community Shapes Your Habits

What if the people around you are the most powerful force for behavior change you're not using yet? This episode unpacks how positive peer pressure can become your greatest tool for personal development.


In this episode, Steph explores the science of peer pressure and why it doesn't always have to carry a negative connotation. She breaks down the research behind conformity and social influence, showing how group dynamics can actually override our individual choices in ways that fuel growth. From tribe mentality to real-life examples of how community shapes our habits, health, and mindset, Steph offers practical strategies to leverage the people around you for lasting behavior change. She also walks through key questions to help you audit your social environment so you can surround yourself with the kind of positive peer pressure that makes personal development feel natural.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • The science behind peer pressure and conformity
  • How group influence can override individual choices
  • Real-life examples of positive peer pressure
  • Strategies to leverage social groups for habit formation
  • Questions to audit your social environment for growth


Your takeaways:

  • Humans are wired to follow the prescribed behavior of their tribe, and you can use that instinct to your advantage
  • Positive peer pressure can upgrade your health, habits, and mindset when you intentionally choose your community
  • Auditing your social environment helps you identify what's fueling your growth and what's creating resistance


Chapters

00:00 Celebrating Community and Social Wealth

01:30 The Power of Positive Peer Pressure

07:39 Leveraging Peer Pressure for Personal Growth



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Apr 20, 202611:60
200. Social Wealth: Rich in Relationships

200. Social Wealth: Rich in Relationships

Social wealth might be the most underrated form of richness we have, and this episode explores why your quality connections and community could be the foundation of a truly impactful life.


In this episode, Steph dives into the power of social wealth and why the relationships we cultivate are one of the greatest predictors of our wellness, growth, and impact. Drawing from Sahil Bloom's framework of the five types of wealth, she unpacks why community and connection matter just as much as health, time, money, and mental wealth. Steph also shares a deeply personal reflection on her own health journey and how leaning into her community, and learning to ask for help, transformed her understanding of gratitude and what it really means to be rich in relationships. This 200th episode is a celebration of the people who shape us and a reminder that we are wired for connection.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • What five types of wealth look like
  • Reflections on impact and community
  • The importance of social wealth and relationships

Your takeaways:

  • Social wealth and quality connections are a foundational form of wellness, not a "nice to have"
  • Humans are biologically wired for connection, and investing in your relationships is an investment in your whole life
  • Asking for help and accepting support from your community is one of the most powerful acts of personal growth


Chapters

00:00 Celebrating 200 Episodes of Impact

00:11 Podcast Milestone and Commitment

01:23 Reflections on the Past Year

01:26 Impact of Sharing Personal Experiences

01:48 Steph's Transition from Clinical Practice

02:46 Understanding Different Types of Wealth

03:04 The Five Types of Wealth

04:00 Valuing Health Wealth

04:12 Money as a Tool for Abundance

05:05 Creating Time Wealth

05:23 The Significance of Mental Wealth

05:33 Focus on Social Wealth

05:50 The Power of Community and Connection

06:05 Personal Experience with Cancer and Support

06:42 Asking for Help and Support

08:25 Moments of Light During Difficult Times

09:06 Neighbors' Support and the Pink Star

10:55 Support from Community and Friends

12:06 The Power of Handwritten Cards

17:14 The Value of Relationships and Connection

18:32 Humans Wired for Social Connection

19:30 Final Reflections and Gratitude


Resources mentioned:The Five Types of Wealth by Sahil Bloom


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Apr 16, 202620:49
199. Mastering Personal Power: 7 Laws Every Leader Needs to Know

199. Mastering Personal Power: 7 Laws Every Leader Needs to Know

If you've ever wondered why some leaders command a room without saying a word, it's time to explore the skill of personal power.

In this episode, Steph dives into what it really means to stand in your power as a leader. Drawing from Jeffrey Pfeffer's Seven Laws of Power, she breaks down the difference between external strategies and internal mastery. Steph shares practical ways to cultivate authentic influence, build presence, and lead with integrity and purpose. Whether you're growing your leadership skills or refining your personal brand, this conversation will help you show up with more impact and intention.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • The Seven Laws of Power by Jeffrey Pfeffer and how to apply them
  • How energy, presence, and personal brand drive authentic influence
  • Why radical ownership and quality relationships are the foundation of lasting power


Your takeaways:

  • Power isn't something you're born with. It's a learnable skill you can practice and strengthen every day.
  • Your energy and presence speak louder than any title, so show up intentionally in every room.
  • Building quality relationships and a consistent personal brand is the foundation of lasting influence.


Chapters

00:00 Celebrating Milestones and Personal Power

02:44 Understanding Power in Business and Coaching

05:25 The Seven Laws of Power: A Deep Dive

09:34 Building Relationships and Personal Brand

12:31 Using Power Effectively

15:04 The Challenge of Personal Power



Resources mentioned:The Seven Laws of Power by Jeffrey Pfeffer


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Apr 13, 202619:06
198. Perseverance, Patience, and the Long-Term Growth Most People Give Up On

198. Perseverance, Patience, and the Long-Term Growth Most People Give Up On

Apr 09, 202611:00
197. 70,000 Thoughts: How to Rewire Your Brain and Start Growing

197. 70,000 Thoughts: How to Rewire Your Brain and Start Growing

If your mindset feels stuck on repeat, this episode is your invitation to explore how neuroplasticity and intentional change can unlock real growth.


In this episode, Steph dives into the science behind our thoughts and why so many of them are recycled from the day before. She explores how the subconscious mind runs on automatic patterns, and how introducing novelty can actually rewire the brain. From the reticular activating system to practical strategies for self-development, Steph breaks down how shifting your mindset is the first step toward lasting change and growth.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • The number of thoughts we have daily and their repetition
  • The subconscious mind and automatic patterns
  • The role of novelty in creating neural change
  • The reticular activating system and filtering reality
  • Strategies for intentional change and growth


Your takeaways:

  • Most of your daily thoughts are on repeat, and awareness of that pattern is the first step to breaking it
  • Introducing novelty and new experiences is one of the most powerful ways to create real neural change
  • You have the ability to intentionally shift your thoughts and reshape your reality through consistent, small choices


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Proof of Light

01:50 The Power of Thoughts and Mindset

08:04 Breaking the Cycle of Repetitive Thinking

15:19 Choosing Growth and Novel Experiences



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Apr 06, 202616:35
196. Break Your Bottleneck: 3 Simple Strategies to Get Moving

196. Break Your Bottleneck: 3 Simple Strategies to Get Moving

If procrastination keeps winning, it's time to flip the script on how you tackle your to-do list.

In this episode, Steph dives into the personal bottlenecks that hold so many of us back from taking decisive action. She shares three practical productivity strategies for overcoming procrastination: doing the hard things first, breaking tasks into small and manageable steps, and using calendar blocking to build real accountability. Whether you're stuck in a cycle of overthinking or just need a push to get moving, Steph brings the motivation and self-discipline framework to help you create the success you're after.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • Breaking through personal bottlenecks
  • The importance of action and execution
  • Strategies for overcoming procrastination


Your takeaways:

  • Doing the hard things first maximizes energy and focus
  • Breaking tasks into small, manageable steps makes them less overwhelming
  • Calendar blocking increases accountability and progress


Chapters

00:00 Spring Awakening and New Beginnings

00:56 Breaking Through Bottlenecks

03:28 The Challenge of Taking Action

08:39 Strategies to Overcome Procrastination

14:12 Leading with Vision Over Emotion


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Apr 02, 202618:17
195. Your Energy Creates Your Impact (The One About Fitness Instructors)

195. Your Energy Creates Your Impact (The One About Fitness Instructors)

What if the energy you pour into every rep, every class, every connection is the exact measure of the ripple you leave behind?

In this episode, Steph talks about how the energy we bring to our lives dictates our impact. She uses the example of fitness instructors to illustrate the different pillars of powerful influence. We dive into how consistency, joy, and intentional effort create profound ripple effects that shape leadership, relationships, and lasting influence. This is a conversation about mastery, the power of showing up fully, and how the principles that make a great fitness instructor also make a great leader.

In this episode you'll discover:

  • The importance of energy in impact
  • Consistency as a cornerstone of influence
  • The role of joy and play in creating impact

Your takeaways:

  • The energy you give directly correlates with your impact.
  • Consistent effort, even on bad days, builds mastery.
  • Joy and play are essential for sustainable impact.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Impact of Fitness Instructors

00:27 Ripple Effects of Giving Energy

01:30 Impact of Impact-Ready Characteristics

01:42 The Constant Choice of Energy

02:26 Pouring Energy into Skills and Clients

03:17 Building Relationships and Impact in Classes

05:44 Mastery and Making It Look Easy

07:49 Joy and Play as Impact Drivers

09:03 Energy Investment as the Key to Impact

09:56 Impact as a Reflection of Energy Given

11:01 A Message to Fitness Instructors and Leaders


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Mar 30, 202612:52
194. Witnessed vs. Lived: The Layers of Perspective

194. Witnessed vs. Lived: The Layers of Perspective

Mar 26, 202612:23
193. Embrace the Suck: Building Resilience Through Discomfort

193. Embrace the Suck: Building Resilience Through Discomfort

Resilience isn't something you're born with, it's a skill you can build by choosing discomfort and perseverance on your own terms.

In this episode, Steph explores why building tolerance to extremity is one of the most powerful things you can do for your growth and leadership. Drawing from personal stories, including a lesson-packed high school football experience, we unpack what it really means to develop a mindset that doesn't fold under pressure. Steph shares practical insights on how intentionally practicing discomfort strengthens your confidence and prepares you for the challenges that matter most. This episode is a reminder that the hard path, chosen by you, is far more manageable than the one that catches you off guard.


In this episode you'll discover:

  • Resilience and tolerance to extremity
  • Practicing discomfort for growth
  • Lessons from a high school football experience
  • The importance of perseverance and mindset
  • Strategies to embrace challenges and avoid quitting


Your takeaways:

  • Building resilience requires intentionally practicing discomfort.
  • Tolerance to extremity can be developed through deliberate challenges.
  • Perseverance in tough situations leads to growth and confidence.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Proof of Light

01:25 Resisting the Urge to Quit

07:45 Building Resilience Through Discomfort

10:32 Modeling Perseverance for the Next Generation


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Mar 23, 202612:04
192. Confidence vs. Ego: Create Authentic Self-Trust

192. Confidence vs. Ego: Create Authentic Self-Trust

Self-trust is the foundation of real confidence, and understanding the difference between the two could change everything about how you show up.

In this episode, Steph dives into the nuanced differences between confidence and ego, unpacking how the confidence-competence cycle works and why self-awareness is the key to breaking through patterns that hold us back. We explore the four stages of learning, what ego actually is at its core, and how developing emotional intelligence around your ego can unlock more authentic personal growth. Steph walks through practical ways to recognize when ego is running the show, and what to do about it.

In this episode you'll discover:

  • Difference between confidence and ego
  • Confidence-competence cycle
  • Four stages of learning
  • Ego as a childhood protection mechanism
  • Recognizing and managing ego for growth

Your takeaways:

  • Confidence is built through the competence cycle — the more you do, the more you trust yourself
  • Ego developed as a childhood protection mechanism, and recognizing that gives you compassion for yourself
  • Self-awareness is the bridge between ego-driven reactions and genuinely confident responses

Chapters:00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Confidence01:20 Understanding Confidence vs. Ego03:42 The Confidence-Competence Cycle06:38 The Four Stages of Competence07:44 The Nature of Ego12:04 Ego's Role and Its Origins13:57 Distinguishing Confidence from Ego15:01 Conclusion and Call to Action


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Mar 19, 202617:58
191. Progress Over Perfection: How to Start Before You're Ready

191. Progress Over Perfection: How to Start Before You're Ready

Waiting until you're ready is just fear in a really convincing disguise.


Summary: Perfection is a myth, and deep down you already know that, but self-doubt and the fear of judgment keep so many of us stuck, waiting for a moment of readiness that never comes. In this episode, Steph gets personal about the messy, imperfect beginnings that are actually the foundation of every meaningful journey of personal growth and impact. Drawing on her own story and using common examples in every day life, we talk about the saboteur voices that kill motivation before you even begin, why starting imperfectly is an act of courage, and how embracing a progress over perfection mindset might be the most important entrepreneurship and mindset shift you ever make. As Steph puts it, waiting for perfection isn't humility, it's selfishness. The world needs what you have, right now, as you are.

In this episode you'll discover: 

- The importance of starting imperfectly

- Overcoming self-doubt and saboteur voices

- The journey of progress and evolution

Your takeaways: 

-Starting imperfectly is better than not starting at all.

- Progress beats perfection; embrace the journey of growth.

- Self-doubt and saboteur voices are common; recognize and challenge them.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Proof of Light

01:21 The Importance of Starting

11:34 Overcoming Fear and Inaction


Resources mentioned:

  • Proof of Light project
  • Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert


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    Mar 16, 202614:10
    190. Take Up Space
    Mar 12, 202612:09
    189. Breaking Out of Irrational Thinking

    189. Breaking Out of Irrational Thinking

    Your thoughts are not facts, but your brain is really good at convincing you otherwise.


    Irrational thinking and negative thought patterns are something every one of us deals with, but few of us are taught how to actually manage them. In this episode, we dig into the practical side of mental health and emotional resilience — how to separate your thoughts from reality, why your physiology has more influence over your mindset than you think, and why naming your emotions is one of the most underrated self-improvement tools available to you. If mindfulness feels too abstract and you want real strategies for managing negative thoughts and building mental resilience, this one is for you.

    In this episode you'll discover: 

    - Differentiating thoughts from reality

    - Impact of physiology on thinking

    - Level setting expectations

    - Getting comfortable with discomfort

    Your takeaways: 

    - You can't believe everything you think, especially in negative spirals.

    - Physiology influences mental clarity; rest and recovery are essential.

    - Naming feelings helps identify root causes of irrational thoughts.

    - Realistic expectations prevent unnecessary mental spirals.

    - Movement and action can break patterns of negative thinking.

    - Embracing discomfort is key to growth and resilience.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Managing Irrational Thinking

    01:10 Understanding Irrational Thinking

    02:57 Physiology and Its Impact on Thought

    05:42 Identifying and Naming Emotions

    07:58 Setting Realistic Expectations

    10:25 The Power of Movement and Discomfort

    Resources mentioned:

    Next Level Nutrition Health Coaching Program

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    Mar 09, 202613:33
    188. The Power of Stillness

    188. The Power of Stillness

    If sitting still feels like wasting time, this episode will completely change how you think about productivity.


    In a world that glorifies busy, stillness might be the most radical act of self-development you can commit to. Drawing on scientific research and Cal Newport's work on deep work and slow productivity, this episode explores how creating intentional white space in your life isn't a luxury, it's the key to unlocking real creativity, mental health, and resilience. If you've been running on empty and wondering why your best ideas aren't coming, the answer might be less about productivity hacks and more about mindfulness and learning to slow down.


    In this episode, you'll discover:

    - The importance of stillness and white space in life

    - Scientific evidence on the effects of constant distraction

    - Practical ways to incorporate stillness into a busy schedule


    Takeaways

    - Creating white space is essential for mental clarity and creativity.

    - Most people prefer pain over sitting alone with their thoughts.

    - Stillness helps process emotions and reduces burnout.

    - Even short periods of stillness can lead to inspiration.


    Chapters

    00:00 The Power of Stillness

    05:33 The Struggle with Distraction

    10:39 Finding Inspiration in Stillness


    Resources mentioned:

    Cal Newport's Books: Deep Work and Slow Productivity

    The Science of Sitting with Your Thoughts - University of Virginia Study

    Steph Saffer on Impactful Living


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    Mar 05, 202614:52
    187. Make the First Move
    Mar 02, 202608:34
    186. Toxic Positivity
    Feb 26, 202616:47
    185. Mental Fitness
    Feb 23, 202616:17
    184. Powerful People Acting Powerlessly
    Feb 19, 202613:23
    183. Showing Up
    Feb 16, 202612:47
    182. Your Train Needs a Track
    Feb 12, 202610:60
    181. The Art of Self-Regulation

    181. The Art of Self-Regulation

    In this episode, Steph talks about the concept of emotional intelligence, focusing on self-awareness and self-regulation. She emphasizes the importance of being able to name emotions in the moment and how this skill can enhance leadership and interpersonal relationships. The conversation highlights the distinction between understanding the 'why' behind feelings and the necessity of self-regulation during emotionally charged situations. Steph encourages listeners to practice naming their feelings and regulating their emotions to foster better communication and relationships.


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    Feb 09, 202609:10
    180. Living Your Predictions

    180. Living Your Predictions

    In this episode, Steph discusses the profound impact of our thoughts, language, and beliefs on our reality. Another connection to the "language of our life", she emphasizes how our internal narratives serve as predictions for our future, shaped by the reticular activating system in our brains. By understanding and shifting our self-talk, we can create a more positive and fulfilling life.


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    Feb 05, 202607:33
    179. Yin/Yang

    179. Yin/Yang

    In this episode, Steph explores the concept of duality, particularly in the context of modern life and relationships. In a world where we are often being asked to be ONE thing, she emphasizes the importance of understanding and embracing the gray areas between opposing forces, such as discipline and self-compassion, striving and surrendering. Drawing from Eastern philosophy, particularly the yin and yang concept, she illustrates how these dualities can coexist and complement each other, challenging the binary thinking prevalent in Western culture. The discussion encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and find balance within the spectrum of their experiences.


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    Feb 02, 202612:22
    178. It's All About the Recovery

    178. It's All About the Recovery

    In this conversation, Steph discusses the challenges of maintaining healthy routines, sharing a personal story of how she has recently dropped the ball on one of her habits. She emphasizes the importance of RECOVERY... resetting after getting off track or falling into old habits. She breaks down what that recovery looks like: getting perspective, staying open, taking radical ownership and staying in solution energy. The conversation highlights the need to move beyond shame and guilt, focusing instead on progress and the positive impact one can have on their community.


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    Jan 29, 202613:36
    177. The Hardest, Simplest Question

    177. The Hardest, Simplest Question

    In this episode, Steph shares insights from a recent coaching intensive where she observed a powerful question being posed: "What do you want?" Despite its simplicity, many high-performing coaches struggled to articulate their desires, revealing a common challenge in the coaching community. Steph discusses the reasons behind this difficulty, including the tendency to prioritize others' needs over one's own, societal beliefs about deservingness, and the impact of people-pleasing tendencies. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and articulating personal desires as a pathway to fulfillment and creativity. She introduces a practical exercise called the "100 Things List," challenging listeners to push past initial comfort zones and societal constructs in order to unlock insights about their true desires.


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    Jan 26, 202611:02
    176. Cast Your Votes

    176. Cast Your Votes

    In this episode, Steph talks about the concept of 'voting for your future self,' emphasizing the importance of embodying the identity of the person you aspire to be right now, rather than waiting for external milestones to define you. She discusses how our self-perception often hinges on future achievements, such as titles or personal goals, and argues that this mindset can hinder our growth, taking us out of the creative mode. By taking proactive steps to align our actions with our desired identities, we can prepare ourselves for the future we envision. Drawing on insights from James Clear's 'Atomic Habits,' Steph highlights that every action we take is a vote for the identity we wish to adopt, encouraging listeners to focus on the majority of positive actions rather than striving for perfection.


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    Jan 22, 202608:43
    175. The Scorecard

    175. The Scorecard

    In this episode, Steph talks about the concept of the 'scorecard'—a mental tally we keep in relationships that tracks perceived wrongs and rights. This invisible scorecard can lead to resentment, frustration, and a drain on our energy, ultimately obstructing our ability to create meaningful connections and achieve our goals. Steph emphasizes that keeping score in relationships positions us as opponents rather than teammates, which can be detrimental to our emotional well-being and productivity.

    Steph outlines two major problems associated with the scorecard: first, that it creates a competitive dynamic where no one truly wins, and second, that it fosters 'problem energy'—low-frequency emotions that hinder our ability to find solutions. She encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and consider whether they are keeping score. The episode concludes with a challenge to ditch the scorecard and embrace teamwork in our relationships for a more fulfilling life.


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    Jan 19, 202609:49
    174. Energy Leaks

    174. Energy Leaks

    In this episode, Steph discusses the critical role of energy in our lives and how to identify "energy leaks." Leaks in our energy can hinder our productivity and well-being. She identifies various sources of energy drains, including relationships, the way we communicate, screens, and distractions, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing these leaks. The conversation also explores practical strategies for managing energy effectively, especially as we enter a new year, encouraging listeners to audit their energy levels and make necessary adjustments for a more fulfilling life.


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    Jan 15, 202614:16
    173. Deload Week

    173. Deload Week

    In this episode, Steph discusses the critical importance of rest and recovery in our busy lives. She emphasizes that while many people are engaged in various activities, they often neglect the need for genuine rest. Through the concept of 'deload weeks' from bodybuilding, she illustrates how reducing intensity and volume can lead to better performance and creativity. Steph encourages listeners to apply these principles in their work and personal lives, advocating for a balanced approach to productivity and well-being.


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    Jan 12, 202611:33
    172. The Secret to Relationships

    172. The Secret to Relationships

    In this episode, Steph discusses the significance of relationships and the key to successful quality relationships: responsiveness. She explores how understanding, validation, and caring contribute to strong relationships and provides real-life examples of responsiveness in various contexts. The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging others' feelings and needs to build trust and rapport, ultimately leading to more fulfilling connections.


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    Jan 08, 202612:04
    171. Higher Integrity (Do What You Say You'll Do)

    171. Higher Integrity (Do What You Say You'll Do)

    In this episode, Steph talks about the concept of integrity, only in a different way. She acknowledges that people set resolutions or goals because they have a desire for their life. But so many people quit or don't follow through. Steph emphasizes the importance of keeping your word with yourself and how integrity relates to personal productivity and satisfaction. By redefining integrity as the ability to do what one says they will do, Steph encourages listeners to reflect on their systems and commitments, and to actively work on enhancing their integrity to achieve their goals. And because everyone wants to know "how?", she ends with a few practical tips for improving follow-through.


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    Jan 05, 202614:13
    170. Creation > Consumption

    170. Creation > Consumption

    In this conversation, Steph reflects on the transition into the new year, emphasizing the importance of moving from a mindset of consumption to one of creation. She discusses the significance of taking action, fostering connections, and maintaining health, all while being mindful of the balance between consuming information and creating meaningful experiences. "You can't learn to swim by reading books about how to swim." The overarching theme is about embracing the opportunities of the new year, particularly as it relates to personal growth and fulfillment.


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    Jan 01, 202612:54
    169. The Blame Game

    169. The Blame Game

    In this episode, Steph explores the nature of an experience we all go through: blame. She talks about the necessity of mining out all of the different areas in our life we might be blaming things or people. She emphasizes the importance of radical ownership in overcoming blame and reclaiming personal power. The conversation explores how blame manifests in various aspects of life, the language we use that reflects our empowerment or disempowerment, and the addictive nature of blame. Ultimately, she encourages you to identify blame in your lives and take steps towards greater agency and personal freedom.


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    Dec 29, 202512:58
    168. The "Just One More Moment" Theory

    168. The "Just One More Moment" Theory

    In this episode, Steph reflects on the holiday season and introduces the Just One More Moment Theory, emphasizing the importance of being present and appreciating fleeting moments with loved ones. She encourages listeners to recognize the temporary nature of life and relationships, advocating for a mindset of reverence towards the present. As the year comes to a close, Steph challenges you to bring self-awareness and gratitude for the current version of oneself and the people around you.


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    Dec 27, 202509:46
    167. Bold Moves

    167. Bold Moves

    In this episode, Steph talks about the challenge of facing fear and making bold moves in life. She emphasizes that many people have the resources and desire to change but often lack the courage to take action. She explores the nature of boldness, the hidden costs of playing it safe, and practical steps to identify and make bold moves. The conversation encourages you to reflect on your own life and consider what bold moves you might be postponing due to fear.


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    Dec 22, 202517:13
    166. Finish Line

    166. Finish Line

    In this episode, Steph discusses the idea of "open loops" and the mantra "finish line" for this coming year. She reflects on how interruptions from the past year have provided lessons for her, but also lit a fire to be in creation mode, and find completion with a lot of things she has started. She emphasizes the importance of closing open loops in life, which can create mental and emotional stress. By setting intentions and taking action, she encourages you to finish projects and goals, creating momentum towards a clearer future vision. In the end, this is a call for all of us to finish the year strong while still find time to relax, be present, and connect with loved ones this season.



    Dec 18, 202510:03
    165. Filters (and the Olympics)

    165. Filters (and the Olympics)

    In this episode, Steph gets deeper into the concept of filters , something we all have when we are processing information and experiences. She emphasizes their role in shaping our perceptions and outcomes. She explains how our brains filter vast amounts of information and how these filters can be changed to influence our future. Through personal anecdotes and practical examples, she illustrates the power of visualization and intentionality in creating desired futures, encouraging listeners to become aware of their filters and to actively shape their realities.


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    Dec 15, 202516:20
    164. C-T-F-A-R

    164. C-T-F-A-R

    In this episode, Steph gets back into the concept of limiting beliefs and how they shape our thoughts and actions. She introduces the C-T-F-A-R formula, which illustrates the connection between circumstances, thoughts, feelings, actions, and results. She also talks about the "lens" through which we see our circumstances. By understanding this formula, individuals can gain awareness of their perspectives and the stories that influence their behavior. Steph emphasizes the importance of recognizing early experiences that shape our beliefs and encourages listeners to empower themselves through awareness and choice.



    Dec 11, 202513:32
    163. 10,000 Hours

    163. 10,000 Hours

    In this episode, Steph talks about the idea of 10,000 hours, Malcolm Gladwell's concept that it takes that much time to become masterful at something. Steph goes deeper and explores the journey to mastery and the importance of "deliberate practice" in achieving high performance and impactful results. She discusses the common misconception that talent alone leads to success, emphasizing that sustained, intentional effort is crucial. Through personal stories and inputs from other awesome authors who write about the idea, she encourages listeners to reflect on their own practices and consider what they are truly capable of achieving.


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    Dec 08, 202519:21
    162. Low Visibility

    162. Low Visibility

    In this conversation, Steph discusses the common experience of feeling lost or unclear about one's life path. She emphasizes that it's normal to have periods of uncertainty and fogginess, and encourages listeners to take action even when the path ahead is not clear. The discussion highlights the importance of persistence and the dangers of quitting too early due to distorted expectations. Steph reminds listeners that they are not alone in their struggles and that taking small steps can lead to significant progress over time.


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    Dec 04, 202513:30
    161. 7 Life Altering Questions

    161. 7 Life Altering Questions

    In this episode, Steph introduces seven life-altering questions designed to promote introspection and personal growth. Each question encourages listeners to reflect on their current life choices, beliefs, and relationships, ultimately guiding them towards a more fulfilling life. This is a conversation that emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and enourages you to make the most out of the last month of 2025.


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    Dec 01, 202512:16
    160. The Tuning Fork: Gratitude

    160. The Tuning Fork: Gratitude

    In this episode, Steph explores the concept of gratitude from a different perspective, beyond the typical tactics of journaling or developing a daily gratitude practice. She describes how gratitude has a high emotional frequency and why it has a profound impact on our well-being. She discusses how gratitude is not just a response to positive events but a high-frequency state that can influence our inner and outer worlds. By understanding and practicing gratitude, we can shift from a survival mindset to one of creation and abundance, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling life.


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    Nov 27, 202512:47
    159. Comfortable with Uncomfortable

    159. Comfortable with Uncomfortable

    In this episode, Steph revisits the concept of 'tolerance to extremity,' emphasizing the importance of intentionally facing discomfort to build resilience. We can actually practice getting comfortable with being comfortable. She discusses how adaptability can lead to both positive and negative outcomes, highlighting the need for individuals to choose challenges proactively rather than reactively. If we can learn to embrace discomfort as a means of personal growth, we build a resilience to struggle, and it allows us to design a fulfilling life by facing fears and stepping out of comfort zones.


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    Nov 24, 202511:41
    158. The Power of a "But"

    158. The Power of a "But"

    In this episode, Steph gives another example of the "language of your life" and discusses how the words we use influence our lives, behaviors, and beliefs. She uses the example of the word "but" in this episode, emphasizing how the words we choose can reflect our internal energy and shape our experiences. Steph talks about her personal experience of diagnosing why she was saying "but" in various statements, and what it revealed for her. By examining our language, we can uncover limiting beliefs and take ownership of our narratives. The conversation encourages listeners to be intentional with their language to foster positive change and enhance their overall wellbeing.


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    Nov 20, 202511:40
    157. Pursue It

    157. Pursue It

    In this episode, Steph discusses the habit of inaction and its impact on our ability to create the life we desire. She talks about the way to overcoming the anxiety and fear we feel in our lives is so often to get back into action and simply PURSUE the thing we care about. She emphasizes the importance of ownership, purpose, and the universal desire for meaning, regardless of age or circumstance. She shares a story about a speech "almost" gone wrong and encourages listeners to pursue their passions relentlessly, reminding them that their energy can make a significant difference in the lives of others.


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    Nov 17, 202513:28