The Intimacy Podcast for the Million Dollar Man

The Intimacy Podcast for the Million Dollar Man

By Rhonda Farr

Rhonda is a woman in a man's world. She was born into a house of all boys, has only sons and coaches high-performing men who have everything they thought they wanted, but they're still not happy.
The Intimacy Podcast for Guys helps successful men find emotional and physical connection in the romantic relationships that matter most.
Listen in as I share behind the scenes of million dollar men who are unknowingly sabotaging the intimacy they crave most.
Rhonda will show you how the same skillset that allows you to thrive at work might need to be adjusted in order to thrive in love.
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Talking to Your Child About Sex Without Shame or Embarrassment

The Intimacy Podcast for the Million Dollar ManFeb 11, 2019
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Chapter 12 (Eric's Coaching Session) What Happens if I Stop?

Chapter 12 (Eric's Coaching Session) What Happens if I Stop?

In this session we hear Eric work through emotional differentiation with his coach. We get to listen to guided discovery and learn with Eric, as he faces his fears.

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Nov 21, 202534:04
Chapter 11 Earning God's Love

Chapter 11 Earning God's Love

Do you feel like your relationship with Deity is subpar? Do you feel inadequate to God? This episode gives a different perspective of a familiar paradigm.

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Nov 07, 202519:06
Chapter 10 Appeasing Isn't Choosing

Chapter 10 Appeasing Isn't Choosing

Do you struggle to let things go? Are you unsure of how to approach these subjects? This week we witness Jen do some self reflection and find more honesty, as Eric is willing to approach an uncomfortable topic with regulation and awareness.


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Oct 25, 202528:52
Chapter 9 Jen's Text and Eric's Response

Chapter 9 Jen's Text and Eric's Response

This chapter explores what happens on Eric's side of receiving Jen's text message from last chapter, the reason they were feeling disconnected in the first place and how Eric decided to respond back.

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Oct 10, 202521:15
Chapter 8 A Closer Look from Jen's Perspective

Chapter 8 A Closer Look from Jen's Perspective

Do you have a partner who is quieter, more avoidant?

Do you often wonder why it's so hard for them to be open and communicate clearly with you?

In this chapter of Dear High Achiever, we take a closer look at how this pattern forms in early childhood, how it shows up in marriage and the courage it takes to step into something new.

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Oct 10, 202514:26
Chapter 7 Redemption in Repair

Chapter 7 Redemption in Repair

Does she avoid hard situations? Does it drive you crazy that she can't just stay near you and engage in hard discussions?

In this episode Jen and Eric find themselves in the kitchen with a choice to engage or continue the silent treatment.

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Sep 19, 202515:02
Chapter 6 Money Doesn't Solve It

Chapter 6 Money Doesn't Solve It

Money is not the problem or the solution for internal insecurities. In this chapter, Eric and Jen navigate a financial decision that highlights a very old pattern.


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Sep 05, 202514:41
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife, That We Might Have Joy BONUS EPISODE
Aug 29, 202501:01:53
Chapter 5 Love, Responsibility and Superiority

Chapter 5 Love, Responsibility and Superiority

Ever feel like you're just an ATM and the rest of the family doesn't value your input?

Ever feel like it's your responsibility to make sure your kids understand what it's like to survive in the real world?

This episode is for you! Make sure you share it with a friend who understands what this is like, too.


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Aug 22, 202511:46
Chapter 4 Lonely Together

Chapter 4 Lonely Together

Accomplished most of the things you thought you wanted, but still not fulfilled?

Feel lonely when your partner is right beside you?

Craving friendships with the opposite sex?

Listen to this chapter to learn from Jen and Eric's experience, why this all makes sense.

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Aug 15, 202511:29
Chapter 3 Following the Script

Chapter 3 Following the Script

Many of us relive inherited roles instead of choosing our life. We often teach duties instead genuine expression. You may not have chosen the script, but you can rewrite the script if you choose.

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Aug 08, 202510:32
Chapter 2 Detaching and Overfunctioning

Chapter 2 Detaching and Overfunctioning

Many high achievers pride themselves in getting things done when it counts, yet they often grow tired of being the one who always has to do everything. In this chapter we'll see how these qualities start to emerge in young Eric.

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Aug 01, 202509:45
Chapter 1, Meet the Inner Team

Chapter 1, Meet the Inner Team

In this episode we learn how a young boy gets a big dose of shame, embarrassment and a strong message that he needs to high his true nature. We listen as his inner team appears and makes sense of his young life, up to this point.

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Jul 25, 202514:42
Dear High Achiever, You Make Sense- Introduction

Dear High Achiever, You Make Sense- Introduction

You Make Sense. Period. Once you understand why it makes perfect sense that you're where you are, your marriage is where it is and your patterns are what they are, then you can choose what you want to do about it...if anything.

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Jul 25, 202507:33
Lonely but Not Alone

Lonely but Not Alone

Is there a loneliness epidemic?

If so, how does is show up in high-achieving men? On this episode, I'll share personal examples, give a different take and highlight how loneliness manifests differently in high-achieving me.

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Jul 18, 202528:23
The Exhaustion of Not Being Able to Solve the Marriage

The Exhaustion of Not Being Able to Solve the Marriage

Today I'm describing how difficult it can be to have a high-achieving tendency and not be able to use that skillset to actually improve the marriage.

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To get on the interest list for the women's group, tap here https://rhonda-farr.aweb.page/p/fe42dd59-99c4-44ba-a3a2-e6b38d85cddf

Nov 14, 202421:16
Mature Masculinity with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife (dialogue included)

Mature Masculinity with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife (dialogue included)

If you're a high-achieving man or if you love a high-achieving man, this episode will help you understand yourself and your relationship on a deeper level.

In this episode, JFF and I discuss masculinity in relationships and the masculine energy we all embody.

Here is the link to the JFF retreat Art of Loving. Use promo code LOVING https://www.tickettailor.com/events/jenniferfinlaysonfifephd/1261638

Here is the link to get on my list for more information on the upcoming Rhonda Farr Coaching Men and Women Group Coaching beta programs. I need to know there is enough interest to run these groups. Looking forward to it! https://rhonda-farr.aweb.page/p/fe42dd59-99c4-44ba-a3a2-e6b38d85cddf



Oct 23, 202401:04:21
Losing Yourself or Finding Yourself?

Losing Yourself or Finding Yourself?

Do you sometimes worry you have to hide who you are to make your wife happy or feel safe with you?

If so, this episode is for you. Want to get on my calendar for a chat? Tap here https://rhondafarr.as.me/

Oct 17, 202431:31
One-up to Cover-up

One-up to Cover-up

Do you find yourself in the "one-up" position in your relationships? You might be quick to assume this position to cover up your own difficult emotions. In this episode, I share a personal experience when I found myself in this exact headspace. Get on my calendar here https://rhondafarr.as.me/

Oct 04, 202416:19
Connection with Hard Emotions

Connection with Hard Emotions

In this episode I talk about the balance of ignoring emotions vs moving through emotions. Sometimes we think we're transcending emotions when we're actually dissociating from ourselves. If we can connect with the hard emotions, we can use them for even more connection with others. Get on my calendar here- https://rhondafarr.as.me/


Sep 25, 202417:52
Dan Purcell with ABC's and 123's of Intimacy (Interview 2)

Dan Purcell with ABC's and 123's of Intimacy (Interview 2)

Today Dan and I talk about some of the basics and not so basics.


You can learn more about Dan here- https://getyourmarriageon.com


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Jun 24, 202452:13
Saving a Sabotaged Sex Life with Dan Purcell (Interview 1)
Jun 18, 202447:02
Shell of a Person
Jun 13, 202425:03
Three C’s of Conversation
May 02, 202418:37
The Challenger with Mariah Wickham, A Look at Enneagram 8
Apr 03, 202455:17
Matthew Jarvis with The Perfect RIA, Interview
Mar 15, 202426:26
Self Confidence or Worth
Mar 08, 202415:54
My Personal Experience with Receiving- Bonus Episode
Feb 28, 202416:35
Developing Capacity
Feb 23, 202414:08
Receiving More
Feb 16, 202416:47
What is Emotional Safety?

What is Emotional Safety?

Today we’re talking about emotional safety. What is it? How is it created? How is it threatened? I’m answering these questions and offering some examples that you might recognize in your own relationship.
Nov 20, 202314:07
Messy Middle, Liminal Spaces
Oct 04, 202321:02
The Achiever with Mariah Wickham, A Look at the Enneagram 3
Aug 16, 202353:17
Interview with Women's Coach Sharon Costanzo at Keep Talking Revolution
Jul 18, 202350:06
What’s it Like to Work With Me?
Jun 26, 202319:03
Harsh Judgment
Jun 12, 202311:25
Being Triggered and Differentiating
Jun 05, 202312:02
Abundant Love vs Transactional Love
May 29, 202321:55
Are You Mr. Fix It?
May 23, 202319:19
 Living. Inspiration from a Father with Cancer, Bonus Episode

Living. Inspiration from a Father with Cancer, Bonus Episode

“This morning I tried to donate my kidney. This afternoon the transplant team told me I can’t. I have cancer.” That's the opening to Jeff Stewart’s new book Living: Inspiration from a Father with Cancer.
What inspiration would you leave your kids if you might be dying from cancer? That's what Jeff Stewart, a molecular biologist, Jeopardy! champion, and father of seven, answers in Living, a book of wisdom and grace. Living is for anyone whose family has been touched by cancer.
“Beautifully written and powerful. Frank and funny and totally honest and much needed in the cancer conversation.” —Marc Silver, author of Breast Cancer Husband
“Flat-out one of the best books I’ve read in years. A major new talent.” —Cover to Cover Book Beat
“A moving message-in-a-bottle, full of aphorism and insight.” —Ken Jennings
Link to the book: https://a.co/d/iezk0g5
May 17, 202341:14
Self Intimacy
May 08, 202323:24
Coming Across Cold or Aloof When Releasing Responsibility of Her Emotions?
Apr 25, 202313:25
The Tightrope of Differentiation and Self Confronting
Apr 18, 202318:36
Real Scenarios of People Like You
Apr 12, 202318:28
"Duty Abstinence" with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

"Duty Abstinence" with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Get on my calendar here app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=15832485 In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and I talk about the sometimes painful marriage dynamic, when one partner doesn't choose to develop the physical intimacy in a marriage. The questions and ideas discussed today, come directly from audience members. We do some powerful role-play to give actionable examples of how one might handle a situation like this with their spouse. Each marriage is different and we encourage you to listen through the lens of love and compassion as you decide how to approach the unique circumstances in your marriage.
Apr 03, 202340:48
If She Wanted To, She Would
Mar 21, 202317:22
The Vulnerability Paradox
Mar 15, 202314:27
You’re No Sucker
Mar 08, 202312:36
Happiness and Intimacy
Mar 01, 202315:23
The Power Struggle that Snuck Up on You
Feb 22, 202314:10