
INHABIT with Alessia Citro
By Alessia Citro
This is THE podcast for women called to a higher level. Here, nothing is off-limits or TMI. Together, we explore habits, healing, and living full out as our higher selves.
Discover actionable insights and practical strategies to break free from the cycle of high-achievement pressure. Whether we're exploring science or spirituality, INHABIT is your guide to redefining success and achieving genuine fulfillment. INHABIT A LIFE YOU LOVE.
Connect further at alessiacitro.com/programs and on IG at @alessiacitro__


208. The Closet Detox That Rewrites Your Confidence with Conni Jespersen
Ever stand in front of a packed closet and still feel like you have nothing to wear? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, wardrobe stylist and educator Conni Jespersen, founder of Art in the Find, reveals how to simplify your style, reduce decision fatigue, and rediscover confidence in what you wear. With over a decade of experience helping women build intentional wardrobes, Conni blends her background as a teacher with practical fashion strategy—showing that personal style isn’t about rules or trends, but about dressing in alignment with your life and energy.
From her signature “three outfit formulas for three activities” method to her now-viral In-N-Out vs. Cheesecake Factory closet analogy, Conni breaks down how to edit your wardrobe with ease, stop overbuying, and curate clothes that feel like trusted friends. She and Alessia also explore how your personal evolution is reflected in your style, why confidence matters more than labels, and how dressing with intention can shift your mindset.
Whether you’re a busy mom craving simplicity, a professional seeking effortless polish, or a woman ready to reconnect with her confidence, this episode will help you transform your closet—and how you feel in it—one outfit at a time.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:19] Connie explains how her teaching background shapes her educational approach to helping women build confident wardrobes
[03:03] The two discuss the post-pandemic cycle of overconsumption and how to dress with intention
[06:07] Connie introduces her “Would I rebuy this?” question to simplify closet edits and reduce overwhelm
[09:30] Connie’s “three outfit formulas for three activities” method helps women eliminate decision fatigue
[13:21] Alessia and Connie explore how dressing like Europeans can boost confidence and self-worth
[16:03] Connie reframes outfit planning as “meal prepping your wardrobe” — a self-care practice for busy women
[19:11] Alessia connects getting dressed with emotional resilience and personal empowerment
[22:17] Connie shares her “closet full of friends” metaphor and challenges women to stop overbuying
[25:03] They discuss finding signature style through self-awareness and preferences
[32:25] Alessia links personal development to fashion evolution as Connie explains how confidence drives true style
[37:22] Connie redefines “investment pieces” as items with meaning, longevity, and intentional value
RESOURCES:
Conni's Signature Style Method: Take the online course (use code PODCAST10 for 10% off!)
Free Jean Fit Guide: Download Conni's Must-Have Measurement Guide
Connect with Conni: Follow her on Instagram @artinthefind or visit artinthefind.com
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
KEYWORDS:
intentional wardrobe, closet edit, decision fatigue, personal style, confidence through style, mindful fashion, capsule wardrobe, sustainable fashion, women’s style tips, outfit formulas, style for moms, simplify your closet, wardrobe stylist, fashion mindset, style confidence, getting dressed with intention, closet organization, fashion self-care
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207. The Alchemy of Grief: Turning Pain Into Power w/ Nicole Sciacca
What if grief could become the gateway to your greatest strength? In this deeply human episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, Alessia sits down with Nicole Sciacca—a yoga and mobility teacher to A-list celebrities and founder of Sweat and Stillness—to explore how movement, meditation, and meaning can turn heartbreak into healing. Nicole opens up about losing both her partner and ex-husband within a single year and shares how she transmuted profound grief into grounded purpose through mindful movement, spiritual connection, and community support.
From the mysterious rash that symbolized her continued soul connection with her late partner to the creation of Sweat and Stillness, Nicole blends grief recovery, somatic healing, and spiritual growth with practical guidance for listeners. She demystifies mobility training, functional range conditioning, and bioidentical hormone therapy, offering tools to move better, feel ageless, and reconnect with your body at any age.
Whether you’re a high-achieving woman navigating transition or simply craving peace in a chaotic world, this episode reminds you that healing isn’t about moving on—it’s about moving through. Tune in to rediscover your resilience, reclaim your strength, and inhabit your life fully.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[03:15] Nicole shares how she lost both her partner and ex-husband within ten months, reflecting on grief, motherhood, and the healing power of community.
[06:59] She explains how movement became her medicine, helping her process loss when she could barely move through daily life.
[10:11] Nicole recounts a mysterious rash that disappeared overnight and later learned, through medium Laura Lynne Jackson, it symbolized an energetic bond with her late partner.
[17:54] The conversation turns to faith, death, and consciousness—how loss stripped away fear and revealed the sacred in everyday life.
[27:21] Nicole shares how her divorce led her to meditation and the creation of Sweat and Stillness, a practice that turned pain into peace: “prayer is asking, meditation is listening.”
[39:07] Nicole introduces CARs mobility training, showing how small daily movements prevent stiffness and keep the body ageless.
[49:41] She highlights women’s health, hormone balance, and why strength training after 35 is essential for longevity.
[53:28] The episode closes with a free month of Nicole’s Infinite Membership and a reminder that true agelessness comes from moving, healing, and living with presence.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Nicole:
- Website
- Sweat and Stillness Membership (Use code "CITRO" for a free month)
Books:
Pre-Order Laura Lynne Jackson’s book, Guided, that contains a chapter about Nicole and her late partner, and Signs
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
KEYWORDS: grief and healing, Jennifer Aniston, mindful movement, meditation and stillness, mobility training, women’s strength training, bioidentical hormone therapy, emotional resilience, somatic healing, spirituality and loss, connection beyond death, Laura Lynne Jackson, sweat and stillness, functional range conditioning, ageless living, women over 40 wellness, meditation, holistic fitness, grief recovery, self-reinvention
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206. AI BONUS with Callan Faulkner: The 3 P’s of Prompting
Ever feel like you’re only scratching the surface with AI—using it to draft captions or emails—while sensing it could do so much more? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, I sit down with AI strategist and business coach Callan Faulkner to unlock the secrets of powerful prompting. Callan introduces her Three Ps of Prompting—pain, problem, persona—and shows how this framework can turn everyday challenges into game-changing breakthroughs, whether you’re raising millions, navigating relationship conflict, or negotiating real estate deals.
Through vivid stories—from helping a private equity leader tackle a $40M fundraising sprint to rewriting the script on “working mom guilt”—Callan demonstrates how AI can become your limitless thought partner. You’ll learn how to craft prompts with role, context, request, and clarifying questions so that AI doesn’t just generate words but delivers strategic, personalized guidance. The episode is packed with practical examples, from storm damage insurance claims to executive compensation planning, making it one of the most tactical conversations on AI you’ll ever hear.
Whether you’re a busy entrepreneur, a corporate leader, or simply someone curious about how to use AI beyond surface-level tasks, this episode provides clarity, confidence, and creativity. Listen in to discover how better prompting can save time, spark ideas, and transform the way you work—and don’t miss Callan’s upcoming bootcamp for a deeper dive.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Join Callan’s Effortless Business Bootcamp! (Only $47 through September 18!)
Get on the waitlist for Callan’s signature program, Automate to Accelerate
Wispr Flow: the dictation tool that will rock your world! (This link will get you a free month!)
Connect with Callan on IG @callanfaulkner
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
If you enjoyed today’s show, please leave a five-star review and share it with a friend or two!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:05] Alessia introduces bonus episode with Callan and plugs the $47 AI bootcamp.[02:15] Callan explains the three Ps of prompting: pain, problem, persona.[02:55] Aspen story: Steve’s $40M fundraising challenge becomes a live prompting example.[03:54] Callan outlines the four parts of a strong prompt: role, context, request, clarifying questions.[08:22] Life example: using a “Dr. John Gottman” prompt to handle money fights in marriage.[11:40] Real estate deal: Callan uses AI as a Florida land attorney to solve easement issues mid-flight.[17:26] Coaching example: reframing “working mom guilt” with a Dr. Joe Dispenza persona.[20:09] Callan likens AI to the “Limitless pill” and shows how to turn transcripts into case studies.[21:26] Alessia emphasizes inputs create outputs; strong prompts drive strong results.[22:27] Callan plugs the upcoming bootcamp and Automate to Accelerate program.[24:07] Memorable story: attendee refuses to miss a moment of the “AI magic show,” even in the bathroom.
KEYWORDS: AI prompting, pain problem prompt framework, role context request clarifying questions, Callan Faulkner AI bootcamp, automate to accelerate program, AI thought partner, practical AI use cases, Dr. John Gottman AI example, AI for marriage and relationships, AI for real estate deals, AI for insurance claims, AI for executive compensation, working mom guilt mindset shift, Limitless pill AI analogy, AI case study creation
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205. Callan Faulkner: AI Is the Advantage You’re Afraid to Take
Ever feel like you’re falling behind on AI while everyone else seems to have it figured out? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, Alessia sits down with AI strategist and entrepreneur Callan Faulkner to demystify the hype and show how founders and creators can put artificial intelligence to work today. From the Shopify CEO’s wake-up call that leaders must understand AI as deeply as their financials, to practical examples like turning a single voice note into a full content engine, Callan reveals why AI is less about replacement and more about unlocking capacity.
Callan shares how she scaled her AI masterclass from 50 people to a multimillion-dollar business in a single year, proving the power of leaning into intuition and leveraging the right tools. You’ll hear stories about using AI for emotional processing, the game-changing Wispr Flow workflow for capturing ideas instantly, and how documenting your voice and process keeps content authentic instead of sounding like everyone else. This isn’t theory—it’s a candid look at how AI can reduce mental load, streamline systems, and free up energy for the work that actually matters.
Whether you’re a founder feeling overwhelmed by technology or a creative ready to scale your impact, this episode provides clarity, inspiration, and tactical ways to make AI your ally. Tune in and discover how to design a business that works for you—so you can focus on growth, freedom, and the life you actually want to live.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Join Callan’s Effortless Business Bootcamp! (Only $47 through September 18!)
Wispr Flow: the dictation tool that will rock your world! (This link will get you a free month!)
Connect with Callan on IG @callanfaulkner
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
If you enjoyed today’s show, please leave a five-star review and share it with a friend or two!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[02:14] Callan reframes AI adoption: “Using a typewriter while a laptop sits next to you.”
[03:41] Alessia & Callan call AI an “adult magic show” and urge: pick one use case and start.
[05:47] Callan cites Shopify’s CEO: before hiring, exhaust AI’s limits and prove a human is truly needed.
[10:24] Callan recalls launching her masterclass—50 people, then 150—and scaling to $4M in a year.
[14:16] She uses AI for emotional triggers, prompting it to speak like Brené Brown or Esther Perel.
[16:39] AI isn’t therapy, Callan notes—it can’t replace the frequency of human presence.
[32:33] Wispr Flow: captures speech, formats it instantly, and beats typing speed.
[41:25] Scaling lens: pair AI with “Simple Numbers 2.0” and labor efficiency ratios to stop leaks.
[48:49] Record a one-hour voice note; AI turns it into a show, newsletter, and repurposed assets.
[64:33] Build-to-live: design a business that runs without you so life comes first.
KEYWORDS: AI for founders, artificial intelligence for entrepreneurs, Shopify CEO AI manifesto, content repurposing with AI, Wispr Flow voice to text, emotional processing with AI, Brené Brown, Esther Perel, AI prompts, business automation strategies, scaling with intuition, labor efficiency ratio, Simple Numbers 2.0 finance, authentic brand voice with AI, AI content engine, multimillion dollar masterclass growth, mental load and productivity tools, documenting SOPs with AI, ChatGPT for business, Claude AI, workflows, founder mindset and technology, design a business that runs without you
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204. From Reactive to Resilient: Mind the Gap with Dr. Jennifer Bellingrodt
Ever wondered why you keep reacting the same way, even when you know better? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, Alessia sits down with Dr. Jennifer Bellingrodt—a licensed clinical psychologist, former Army psychologist, and author—to explore how family history, subconscious programming, and mindset shape our personal narratives . Together, they unpack generational trauma, personality disorders, and why Dr. Jen insists that “personality disorders are nothing other than information processing disorders”—a powerful reframe that offers hope and healing.
From grounding techniques like “name five things” to big shifts like “mind the gap” between perception and response, Dr. Jen shares practical strategies to calm emotional reactivity and rewire subconscious beliefs . The conversation dives into cognitive dissonance, negative automatic thoughts (NATs), and the surprising self-limiting belief of fear of greatness, which often holds high achievers back. Through vulnerable stories and real-world examples, this episode blends neuroscience, psychology, and lived wisdom into actionable tools for personal transformation.
Whether you’re a high-achieving woman seeking balance or someone navigating deep patterns you can’t explain, this episode provides clarity, compassion, and concrete steps to shift your narrative. Tune in and discover how to release limiting beliefs, regulate your nervous system, and reclaim your power.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00] Alessia introduces Dr. Jennifer Bellingrodt, diving into family history, personality disorders, and mindset.
[07:53] Jennifer reframes: “Personality disorders are information processing disorders.”
[11:50] “Mind the gap” — pause between perception and response to shift reactivity.
[19:09] Grounding tool: “Name five things” around you to reset in the moment.
[20:29] Quick reframe: “How do I want to feel after this interaction?”
[21:35] Subconscious beliefs drive behavior; conscious thoughts alone aren’t enough.
[26:14] NATs (negative automatic thoughts) and five questions to challenge them.
[28:53] BYOF: “Be your own friend” when facing guilt or self-blame.
[31:49] TSD: create time, space, and distance to see clearly.
[35:24] Fear of greatness: the hidden belief keeping high achievers small.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- Dr. Jen's website: The Psychoeducation Academy
- Instagram: @thepsychwithamic
- LinkedIn: Jennifer Paweleck-Bellingrodt, Psy.D
- "Self-Limiting Beliefs" program: Learn More
- "Better Sleep Blueprint" program: Learn More
- The Psych with a Mic Podcast
- Get Dr. Jen’s book: Fix Your Freaking Marriage: Practical Tips to Just Start Somewhere
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
KEYWORDS: personality disorders, information processing disorders, generational trauma, subconscious mind, cognitive dissonance, limiting beliefs, fear of greatness, mindfulness practices, nervous system regulation, emotional reactivity, negative automatic thoughts, mind the gap, family history psychology, trauma healing, perimenopause survival guide, Fix Your Freaking Marriage, shadow work, mindset and attitude, psychology
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203. Stop Building Businesses You Secretly Hate with Gabs Hayes
What if the very thing you feared most could be the catalyst for building a life and business you actually love? In this episode of INHABIT, Alessia sits down with entrepreneur and mentor Gabs Hayes, who built a seven-figure consulting firm—only to realize the personal cost was far too high. After losing her son Gabriel, Gabs redefined success on her own terms, shifting from hustle culture to a model that protects mental health, honors family, and still delivers results. You’ll hear her unfiltered take on boundaries, slowing down to speed up, and why releasing control of outcomes is essential for true freedom.
Through candid stories—like missing her kids’ milestone events for client work, taking quarterly “mini sabbaticals” to reset, and creating her Overwhelmed and Over It Village—Gabs shares how intentional business design can replace burnout with balance. She offers practical strategies for setting life-first priorities, crafting a business model that supports them, and finding community to lighten the load. Her tough-love reminder? You have zero control over outcomes, so focus on impact, alignment, and presence instead.
Whether you’re a parent entrepreneur juggling business and family or a driven creative ready to ditch the hustle, this episode delivers mindset shifts, grounded strategies, and permission to work in a way that actually works for you. Listen in for wisdom you can implement today—and start building success without burning out.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[02:07] Gabs Hayes reflects on losing her son and how it sparked a seven-year journey of questioning rules and redefining her life
[05:00] Gabs shares that curiosity and asking about her son by name is far more healing than “I’m sorry” after a loss
[08:26] Gabs reveals how building a seven-figure tech consulting business left her absent from key family moments despite financial success
[11:30] Gabs explains her personal approach to business boundaries, including two focused hours of work daily and designing her model around her life
[15:54] Gabs describes deprogramming corporate habits, loosening formalities like email signatures, and integrating family life into her workday
[21:29] Gabs introduces her “mini sabbaticals” and other ways of slowing down to gain clarity and make better business decisions
[28:44] Gabs discusses the Overwhelmed and Over It Village, a community helping parents in business combat decision overload and isolation
[33:33] Gabs offers tough-love advice on releasing control of outcomes and measuring success by impact instead of revenue
[36:54] Gabs shares how intention changes how she approaches sacrifices, including family decisions about her husband’s work
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Gabs:
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
KEYWORDS: entrepreneur burnout, building a business with boundaries, work life balance for entrepreneurs, parent entrepreneurs, family first business, intentional business design, mini sabbaticals, redefining success, overcoming hustle culture, decision overload, entrepreneurial mindset shifts, letting go of outcomes, business model design, mental health for business owners, working parents strategies, impact over income
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202. Pinterest > Instagram? The Traffic Strategy You’re Missing with Melissa Lunt
Struggling to grow your digital brand without burning out on social media? Wondering how to create passive income without dancing on Reels or spending hours in Canva? In this episode of INHABIT, Alessia Citro sits down with Melissa Lunt, founder of Superhero Design Co, to unpack how she built a $200,000 template business—powered largely by Pinterest. From infertility and burnout to business pivots and baby bottles, Melissa shares the raw, real story behind scaling a creative business while navigating one of the hardest seasons of her life. You’ll walk away with practical strategies for building visibility, designing on a budget, and making your website work for you.
Melissa doesn’t just talk theory—she’s lived the transformation. A designer turned template queen, she reveals how she used SEO, blog content, and Pinterest to create traffic-generating assets that still convert months later. Alessia and Melissa also dive into why your website needs pricing, how to know what to focus on first, and what not to waste time on when you’re starting out. There’s even a spicy moment where they dismantle the trend of faceless brands and re-center what actually builds trust and sales: realness.
Whether you’re a coach building your first site or a creative entrepreneur ready to turn content into cash, this episode provides clarity, encouragement, and the next steps you need to show up, stand out, and scale smart.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:05] Alessia introduces Melissa’s $200K template business and how Pinterest did the heavy lifting
[01:21] Melissa is introduced as the visionary behind Superhero Design Co and its passive-income model
[03:34] Melissa describes the pivotal moment when her website templates started paying real bills
[15:20] Alessia shares how someone found her Sedona retreat via SEO—and booked without speaking to her
[15:33] Melissa explains how she uses blog posts and visuals to drive traffic, even when AI writes the copy
[24:45] Melissa shares her focus shift from creating templates to launching a high-ROI course for designers
[25:47] Alessia reflects on the need to go all-in on one offer instead of chasing multiple projects
[29:20] Melissa urges creators to just start—test products, diversify lightly, and double down on what sells
[32:34] Melissa warns against faceless brands, noting people want real connection when making buying decisions
[44:19] Melissa shares where to find her website templates and courses, inviting listeners to simplify their branding
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Melissa's Instagram: @superherodesignco
Abacus.AI (tool with multiple LLMs for $10!)
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
KEYWORDS: Pinterest marketing, passive income for creatives, website templates, Showit templates, Canva branding kits, SEO tips for entrepreneurs, building a template shop, digital product strategy, online business growth, how to market a retreat, creative business tips, entrepreneurship and motherhood, starting a design business, content marketing with Pinterest, faceless brand vs personal brand, starting a digital product business, branding for coaches, sell templates online, how to use AI for content creation
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201. Burned Out? Surface-Level Self-Care Won’t Save You w/ Brittany Frost
Feeling burnt out from trying to “balance it all”? What if the secret isn’t balance—but blending? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, wellness coach and founder of the Self-Care Sisterhood, Brittany Frost, redefines what it really means to take care of yourself. Together, we unpack the difference between pampering and true self-care, explore the “MEDS” framework (meditation, exercise, diet, and sleep), and talk about how to create a life you don’t need to escape from.
From powerful personal stories to refreshing analogies (think DJ mixers, coffee beans, and thermostats), Brittany shares a compassionate and grounded approach to sustainable self-care and habit change. We discuss the 8 pillars of holistic wellness—including emotional, spiritual, financial, and environmental self-care—and how overachievers often burn out by trying to hit a “10” in every area. You’ll also hear how boundaries, integrity, and evening routines play a major role in reclaiming your energy and agency.
Whether you’re a high-achieving woman seeking clarity or simply tired of the one-size-fits-all wellness advice, this episode delivers the mindset shifts and practical tools to help you embody alignment, not overwhelm. Tune in and start creating what you crave.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[02:23] Brittany Frost breaks down the difference between pampering and true self-care, introducing her 8 pillars of holistic wellness.
[06:10] Brittany explains how rating each area of self-care like a sound mixer creates balance without burnout.
[09:11] Discussion on integrity and how trying to be a “10” in every area of life leads to exhaustion, not excellence.
[12:11] Brittany shares a personal story about living as multiple versions of herself—and the toll it took on her energy and identity.
[15:19] Brittany introduces the thermostat vs. thermometer analogy to describe emotional self-regulation and authenticity.
[20:03] The duo discusses boundaries as self-respect and how Brittany reframed boundaries from controlling others to honoring herself.
[23:41] Introduction of the “MEDS” framework: meditation, exercise, diet, and sleep—as non-negotiables for mental health and self-care.
[27:56] A hilarious tangent on the trauma of childhood fitness tests segues into a conversation on daily mental hygiene.
[34:25] Brittany redefines exercise as medicine for the mind and body, encouraging listeners to move in joyful, natural ways.
[48:38] Brittany shares her family motto, “Create what you crave,” and how it became the catalyst for opening her own coffee shop.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
KEYWORDS: self-care, holistic wellness, burnout recovery, self-care routine, sustainable habits, mental health tips, daily rituals, women’s wellness, personal growth, self-care for high achievers, boundaries and self-respect, mental hygiene, self-care practices, sleep and wellness, fitness mindset, emotional self-care, self-care for women, habits and identity, intentional living, create what you crave
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200. It’s Not All in Your Head—Or Is It? Rewiring Your Subconscious for Real Change with Alexus Rae Lopez
200. It’s Not All in Your Head—Or Is It? Rewiring Your Subconscious for Real Change with Alexus Rae Lopez
What if the root of your anxiety, burnout, or chronic pain isn’t just physical—but deeply wired into your subconscious?
In this milestone 200th episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, transformational guide and certified NLP master practitioner Alexus Rae Lopez joins Alessia for a raw and enlightening conversation on subconscious reprogramming and emotional freedom. Together, they explore how aligning the conscious mind, unconscious mind, and higher self can catalyze rapid transformation—without years of therapy or struggle.
Alexus vulnerably shares her personal journey of healing from chronic illness, traumatic brain injuries, and debilitating migraines—using tools like NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), MER (Mental and Emotional Release), and hypnosis to reclaim her power. Alessia reflects on her own recent breakthrough session with Alexus and what it felt like to finally release deep-rooted patterns and emotional baggage.
Whether you're a high-achieving woman, a seeker on a healing path, or simply ready to feel lighter and more aligned, this episode offers tools, stories, and perspective shifts that can spark real and lasting change.
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✨ What You’ll Learn:
- How subconscious beliefs affect physical health and emotional wellbeing
- The 3-step process of Mental and Emotional Release (MER)
- Why healing doesn’t have to take years
- The neuroscience and intuition behind subconscious reprogramming
- How to align with your higher self for faster transformation
🕒 Timestamps:00:01 – Alessia introduces Alexus Rae Lopez and their recent breakthrough session
03:08 – Alexus explains aligning the conscious, unconscious, and higher self
05:55 – Alexus encourages trusting both science and intuition in personal growth
08:31 – How childhood experiences shape unconscious beliefs
10:56 – Synchronicities happen when all parts of self are aligned
13:38 – How NLP, MER, and hypnosis clear limiting beliefs
18:27 – Alexus outlines the three steps of the MER process
24:46 – The subconscious only reveals what you’re ready to heal
31:00 – Alexus shares her journey overcoming chronic illness and migraines
43:14 – Shifting beliefs and NLP helped Alexus become migraine-free
54:11 – Releasing old patterns feels like trading heavy baggage for a carry-on
58:30 – Alessia describes feeling lighter and less reactive after MER
01:03:23 – Alexus announces her upcoming book for women ready to evolve
01:09:47 – Where to connect with Alexus and learn more about her work
🛠️ Resources Mentioned:
- Website: alexusrae.com
- Breakthrough & 1:1 Coaching: Break Through You
- Free Journal Template: My Change Journal
- Weekly Accountability: Momentum Form
- Speakers Spotlight: sunnycreatorco.com/ss
- Alexus on Instagram: @alexus__rae__
- LinkedIn: Alexus Rae Lopez
- Alessia’s book: Higher Self Habits
- Available on Audible: Try it free for 30 days
🔑 Keywords:
subconscious mind, NLP, neuro-linguistic programming, mental and emotional release, MER, hypnosis, emotional healing, personal transformation, limiting beliefs, breakthrough session, chronic illness recovery, mindset shift, self-mastery, emotional freedom, healing journey, unconscious programming, trauma release, women’s empowerment, self-development, transformational coaching, brain injury recovery, alignment, higher self, personal growth, wellness podcast
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199. Stop Asking Why: The Radical Power of Owning Your Story with Marsha Vanwynsberghe
Struggling to break free from shame, self-doubt, or the weight of your own story? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with Marsha Vanwynsberghe—NLP trainer, bestselling author, speaker, and podcast host—to explore how vulnerability and reframing your narrative can transform even the most challenging experiences into powerful fuel for growth. Listeners will learn how to move from victimhood to empowerment, harness the power of subconscious beliefs, and finally step into their most outspoken, authentic selves.
Marsha shares her journey as a parent navigating teen substance abuse, revealing how sharing her story helped her—and countless others—release paralyzing shame and isolation. The conversation dives into the emotional frequency scale, the science and strategy behind Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), and the importance of balancing masculine and feminine energy for sustainable success. Marsha also offers practical advice for aspiring authors and entrepreneurs ready to share their message with the world.
Whether you’re seeking personal healing, greater confidence, or the courage to use your voice, this episode delivers actionable insights and inspiration. Tune in to discover how to own your choices, rewrite your story, and become the most empowered version of yourself.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:00] Marsha's journey began with teen substance abuse, leading to isolation and shame.
[03:45] Sharing her story with other parents helped Marsha realize they weren't alone.
[06:50] Alessia and Marsha discuss shame as the lowest, most paralyzing emotion.
[09:05] Vulnerability and reframing experiences as lessons transformed Marsha's pain into purpose.
[12:05] Marsha explains how stopping "why me?" questions was a turning point in her life.
[16:11] Vulnerability is the path to connection, courage, and becoming truly outspoken.
[21:23] Marsha explains NLP and how subconscious beliefs, often formed by age eight, run our lives.
[25:50] Marsha shares how childhood beliefs about strength created a "proving" energy in her life.
[35:21] Releasing subconscious blocks and generational patterns is key to freedom and growth.
[40:54] Balancing masculine and feminine energy is crucial for sustainable business growth and inner safety.
[47:51] Marsha advises aspiring authors to focus on clear intention and self-belief.
[51:17] To become outspoken, visualize what that looks and feels like for you.
RESOURCES MENTIONED
CONNECT WITH MARSHA:
Website: marshavanw.com
Instagram: @marshavanw
Program: OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification
Free Resource: You Are Supported Bundle (Use code: FREEAUDIOBUNDLE)
Marsha's Book: When She Stopped Asking Why
Marsha’s Podcast: Own Your Choices Own Your Life
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KEYWORDS: shame, vulnerability, overcoming shame, NLP, neuro-linguistic programming, subconscious beliefs, personal growth, self-mastery, emotional healing, feminine energy, masculine energy, storytelling, empowerment, breaking generational patterns, mindset shift, trauma recovery, writing a book, entrepreneurship, self-worth, healing journey, parenthood challenges, substance abuse, podcast interview
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198. Ditch the Diet: Why All-or-Nothing Mindset Is Sabotaging Your Health with Laura Banks
Struggling to break free from the all-or-nothing mindset that sabotages your health goals? In this episode of Inhabit, host Alessia Citro sits down with holistic nutrition health coach Laura Banks to unpack the perfectionism trap and reveal how to build sustainable, healthy habits that actually stick. Listeners will learn why ditching restrictive diets and embracing a balanced, mindful approach to food is the real secret to lasting wellness.
Laura, a certified holistic nutrition coach, shares her personal journey from childhood perfectionism to self-acceptance, offering practical strategies for overcoming guilt, self-sabotage, and food anxiety. The conversation covers the power of curiosity over judgment, the importance of boundaries versus restrictions with food, and how to create well-balanced meals that support both physical and mental health. Laura also delivers actionable tips on meal planning, habit formation, and breaking free from toxic diet culture.
Whether you’re a high-achieving woman tired of yo-yo dieting or simply want to feel more in control with food, this episode is packed with empowering insights and real-world strategies. Tune in for a fresh perspective on health, and discover how to finally feel at peace with your body and your plate.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:18] Laura Banks discusses ditching the all-or-nothing mindset for high-achieving women.
[02:22] Laura shares how childhood perfectionism shaped her approach to health and life.
[04:00] Laura connects her spiritual growth to breaking free from all-or-nothing thinking.
[05:22] Recognizing the all-or-nothing mindset is the first step to change.
[07:14] Laura explains why setting food boundaries is better than strict restrictions.
[09:12] Curiosity, not judgment, is key to building sustainable habits.
[13:13] Laura encourages adjusting health goals based on life phases and progress.
[18:22] Laura and Alessia discuss how identity and self-sabotage affect health journeys.
[25:31] Laura defines a well-balanced meal and debunks myths about fats and carbs.
[38:47] Laura shares her "cook once, eat twice" strategy for easier meal planning.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
CONNECT WITH LAURA:
- Laura's Website
- Seismic Shift Program
- Healthy Handled Program
- Free Weight Loss Guide - Learn proper portion sizes, get recipes, and understand consistency challenges
- Follow Laura on Instagram
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KEYWORDS:
all-or-nothing mindset, healthy habits, holistic nutrition, perfectionism, sustainable weight loss, breaking diet cycles, food freedom, meal planning tips, women’s health, mindset shifts, overcoming self-sabotage, balanced meals, nutrition coach, habit formation, ditching restrictive diets, body positivity, health coaching, emotional eating, self-acceptance, wellness strategies
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197. A Martyr No More: Alexis Frank on How Eldest Daughters Can Find Self-Mastery and Stop People Pleasing
Feeling weighed down by family expectations or struggling to put yourself first? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with Alexis Frank, a dynamic life coach for eldest daughters and a trailblazer in personal empowerment. Together, they unpack the “eldest daughter wound,” exploring how birth order, cultural pressures, and people-pleasing can keep women stuck in cycles of over-responsibility and self-doubt. Listeners will walk away with practical tools for setting boundaries, nurturing self-confidence, and reclaiming their own desires.
Alexis shares her journey from running for Congress to building a thriving coaching business, revealing how embracing her unique story—and starting over on social media—helped her connect with and liberate other eldest daughters. The conversation covers subconscious reprogramming, somatic practices, and the importance of “thick mommy boundaries” when dealing with family dynamics. Through real-life stories and actionable strategies, this episode offers a roadmap for anyone ready to break free from old patterns and step into their undeniable power.
Whether you’re an eldest daughter, a recovering people-pleaser, or simply seeking more self-mastery, this episode delivers the inspiration and guidance you need to become your most authentic, empowered self. Tune in and discover how to make your life truly your own.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00] Alessia shares her recent struggle with depression and thanks listeners for their support.
[02:00] Introduction to Alexis Frank, life coach for eldest daughters.
[04:00] Alexis discusses her experience running for Congress and what she learned.
[07:00] How running for office made Alexis fearless about showing up online.
[10:00] The importance of nurturing yourself to build confidence and habits.
[13:00] Alexis explains why she started a new Instagram focused on eldest daughters.
[16:00] Unique pressures and expectations faced by eldest daughters, especially in immigrant families.
[19:00] How eldest daughters lose touch with their own desires and struggle with boundaries.
[23:00] Tools for reconnecting with yourself, including subconscious reprogramming and somatic work.
[29:00] Advice on setting and maintaining strong boundaries with family.
[32:00] Alexis shares her experience cutting off toxic family relationships.
[42:00] The transformation that happens when eldest daughters embrace their power.
[51:00] How to work with Alexis and step into your most authentic self.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- Connect with Alexis on Instagram: @lexipcoaching
- Alexis's website: thefccoach.com
- AUDACITY membership for eldest daughters: Learn more
- Ruthless Pursuit of Self mastermind: Learn more
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KEYWORDS: eldest daughter, eldest daughter wound, family expectations, people pleasing, setting boundaries, self-mastery, personal empowerment, women’s coaching, life coach, breaking generational cycles, subconscious reprogramming, somatic practices, self-confidence, reclaiming your power, overcoming self-doubt, birth order psychology, immigrant family pressures, thick mommy boundaries, personal growth, women’s empowerment, podcast for women, healing family dynamics, self-love, entrepreneurship for women
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196. Why Your To-Do List Is Failing You—And How Systems Set You Free with Diana Lunzer
Struggling to juggle your business, family, and personal growth without burning out? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with productivity and systems expert Diana Lunzer to reveal the real secrets behind achieving harmony as a founder, parent, and ambitious human. Listeners will learn how to move from chaos to clarity with practical strategies for time management, digital organization, and intentional living.
Diana, a certified Notion consultant and two-time founder, shares her proven methods for transforming overwhelmed entrepreneurs into productive powerhouses. From her mantra “be cutthroat with your calendar” to the PAD method (pay, automate, delegate), Diana offers actionable tips for mastering your schedule, setting boundaries, and leveraging digital tools like Notion to streamline both business and life. The conversation covers annual planning, task batching, and the importance of aligning your calendar with your true priorities—plus candid stories about outsourcing, burnout, and
finding fulfillment beyond the corporate grind.
Whether you’re a busy founder, creative, or anyone craving more intentionality, this episode delivers the systems, mindset shifts, and inspiration you need to reclaim your time and energy. Tune in and start building a life—and business—you truly love.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[02:33] Diana explains why "harmony" is about constant calibration, not perfect balance.
[04:23] Tips for shifting from reactive to proactive habits in business and life.
[05:04] Diana shares her mantra: "Be cutthroat with your calendar" for better time management.
[07:54] The value of color-coding and combining personal and business calendars.
[09:13] Diana on setting boundaries and saying no to protect her focus.
[12:07] Why every founder needs a digital task manager like Notion.
[14:19] Diana’s system for capturing ideas quickly using mobile tools.
[21:27] The "PAD method": pay, automate, or delegate to reclaim your time.
[27:13] Annual planning like a billion-dollar brand to avoid distractions.
[36:22] Diana describes leaving corporate due to burnout and finding alignment through systems.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Diana:
Diana's Website: www.flowwithsystems.com
Instagram: @DianaLunzer
YouTube: @dianalunzer
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KEYWORDS: productivity, time management, business systems, Notion, Notion OS, digital organization, founder tips, work-life balance, task management, annual planning, entrepreneur burnout, calendar blocking, delegation strategies, female founders, proactive habits, outsourcing, business growth, intentional living, task batching, digital tools for business, work from home tips
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195. Why “Suck” Is the Secret to Success: Courage, Clarity, and Confidence Unleashed with Kristin Ericksen
Are you ready to break through self-doubt and step boldly into your power? In this episode of Inhabit, host Alessia Citro sits down with Kristin Ericksen—peak performance coach, keynote speaker, and founder of Break Free, Make It Happen—to uncover the secrets of unstoppable women. Listeners will learn how to overcome analysis paralysis, build unshakable confidence, and harness clarity, courage, and resilience to achieve their biggest goals.
Kristin draws on over 25 years of experience as a celebrity personal trainer and high-performance mentor, sharing practical strategies like her “power audit” exercise, the 51% courage rule, and the importance of hiring the right mentors. She also shares inspiring stories, including Dustin Hoffman’s journey to success and her own experience pitching the “Whale Tank Method” to Shark Tank’s Kevin Harrington. Key topics include overcoming imposter syndrome, setting boundaries, and finding your unique niche in a crowded market.
Whether you’re an ambitious entrepreneur, a high-achieving professional, or someone seeking a fresh start, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you stop playing small and step into your full potential. Tune in and discover how to become truly unstoppable.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:13] Kristin shares how being born in the Year of the Tiger inspires her leadership and spirit.
[02:21] Kristin introduces the three pillars for transformation: clarity, courage, and confidence.
[05:49] Kristin explains her “51% courage” rule for taking action despite fear.
[07:05] Kristin reframes failure, noting “suck” is the start of “success.”
[08:09] Kristin shares her “power audit” exercise to help listeners find what energizes them.
[10:18] Kristin urges entrepreneurs to start with market needs, not just passion.
[13:05] Kristin tells Dustin Hoffman’s story to illustrate the power of persistence.
[15:02] Kristin emphasizes the value of hiring mentors and coaches for growth.
[45:00] Kristin encourages women to show up authentically and “stop playing small.”
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Kristin:
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
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KEYWORDS:
women’s empowerment, self-doubt, confidence building, clarity and courage, overcoming fear, personal growth, high achievers, peak performance, resilience, imposter syndrome, power audit, mentorship, goal setting, entrepreneurship, women in business, breaking through barriers, mindset shifts, success stories, female leadership, career transformation, unstoppable women, coaching tips, personal development, finding your niche
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194. Calling It Off: When Saying No Is the Bravest Yes with Katherine Rose Woller
What if the bravest thing you could do is walk away from everything you thought you wanted? In this episode of Inhabit, host Alessia Citro sits down with bestselling author and marketing strategist Katherine Rose Woller to explore the power of self-trust, intuition, and choosing yourself at life’s biggest crossroads. Listeners will uncover how to break free from perfectionism, tune into their intuition, and make courageous decisions—even when the world expects otherwise.
Katherine shares her raw, relatable journey of calling off her wedding just weeks before the big day, revealing the emotional aftermath, the shame of public vulnerability, and the surprising grace she received from others. Through candid stories and practical advice, she discusses the importance of somatic awareness, daily spiritual practices like journaling and meditation, and building self-trust through small, intentional choices. The conversation also delves into overcoming comparison, embracing imperfection, and finding joy on the other side of hard decisions.
Whether you’re facing a major life pivot or simply seeking more authenticity, this episode offers actionable wisdom and inspiration to help you trust yourself and create a life that feels true. Don’t miss Katherine’s insights—and join the Soul Sisters Book Club for a deeper dive into her memoir and a live Q&A!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:27] Alessia introduces Katherine Rose Woller and her memoir about calling off her wedding and choosing herself.
[02:29] Katherine explains her story is for anyone facing a tough decision, not just those ending relationships.
[04:19] Katherine shares how ignoring her intuition led to saying yes to the wrong engagement.
[08:56] Katherine describes the shame of ending her engagement publicly and the surprising compassion she received.
[13:12] Katherine discusses using body signals and somatic awareness to guide big life choices.
[19:49] Katherine talks about overcoming perfectionism by letting go of comparison.
[26:40] Katherine shares how daily journaling and meditation help her stay grounded and intentional.
[34:25] Katherine offers practical advice: build self-trust through small daily choices and “trying on” big decisions.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Follow Katherine on Instagram @katherinewoller
Get Katherine's book "Calling It Off: Memoir of an Almost Bride" on Amazon
JOIN US IN SOUL SISTERS BOOK CLUB AND READ KATHERINE’S BOOK!
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KEYWORDS:
self-trust, intuition, calling off a wedding, perfectionism, overcoming fear, life transitions, somatic awareness, journaling practice, meditation habits, personal growth, authentic living, making hard decisions, women’s empowerment, Katherine Rose Woller, memoir author, relationship advice, breaking societal expectations, daily rituals, self-mastery, book club, career pivots, vulnerability, trusting your gut, letting go of comparison, healing after breakup
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193. Stop Faking Connection: The Real Truth About Building Community with Haley Westfall
Struggling to build a community that truly lights you up—or wondering how to pivot when your current path no longer feels right? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with community-building expert and business strategist Haley Westfall to unpack the real stories behind reinvention, intentional growth, and authentic connection. Listeners will learn how to navigate career pivots, cultivate meaningful relationships, and create thriving communities, whether online or in-person.
Haley draws on her 20 years in corporate healthcare leadership and her journey through entrepreneurship, sharing candid lessons from building a six-figure business, burning it down, and starting over with purpose. She reveals the strategies behind launching Collab Culture and The Table, the importance of daily self check-ins, and how to foster a culture that attracts the right people. Key topics include leveraging personal invitations, forming strategic partnerships (like with the city of Peoria), and the power of tracking your numbers to remove emotion from decision-making.
Whether you’re an entrepreneur, community leader, or anyone seeking more fulfillment in your work, this episode is packed with actionable insights and inspiration. Tune in to discover how to build a community—and a business—that feels truly aligned, and walk away ready to take your next bold step.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:04] Haley shares her transition from corporate healthcare to entrepreneurship after an unexpected layoff.
[03:14] Haley describes building a six-figure social media business and choosing to start over for more fulfillment.
[06:21] Haley discusses overcoming shame about her corporate past and embracing pivots.
[10:19] Haley explains how she strategically launched Collab Culture and The Table by nurturing relationships.
[13:41] Haley talks about daily self check-ins to ensure her work remains aligned and energizing.
[16:11] Haley reveals her human design as a manifesting generator and how it shapes her approach.
[20:14] Haley clarifies the differences between Collab Culture and The Table, including the move to co-ed events.
[27:00] Haley offers advice for building community in less entrepreneurial areas, emphasizing personal invitations.
[34:47] Haley shares how she formed a partnership with the city of Peoria through relationship-building.
[38:58] Haley gives her top three tips for building a thriving, fulfilling community.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Haley on Instagram @thehaleywestfall
Join Haley at The Table Experience, February 20-21, 2026 in Tempe, AZ!
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KEYWORDS:
community building, entrepreneurship, business strategy, career pivot, women in business, building relationships, networking tips, Collab Culture, The Table, live events, personal branding, female founders, intentional growth, partnership strategies, small business advice, leadership, self-mastery, Arizona entrepreneurs, business networking, authentic connection, professional development, podcast for entrepreneurs
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192. Why “Doing the Hard Thing” Is Overrated: Paul Levitin’s EASIER Way to Change
Struggling to stick with new habits or feeling overwhelmed by self-improvement? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with Paul Levitin—podcaster, public speaker, and coach behind the “Change Made Easy” podcast—to reveal why making hard things easy is the real secret to lasting change. Listeners will learn how to break free from perfectionism, overcome overthinking, and finally build habits that actually stick.
Paul shares his EASIER framework, a practical roadmap for creating sustainable routines by focusing on enthusiasm, simplicity, and repeatability. Drawing from over a decade of coaching experience, he explains why consistency beats intensity, how to stack exponential benefits, and why celebrating small wins rewires your brain for success. The conversation also tackles emotional addiction, the myth of “having to” do things, and the power of reframing goals to fit your real life.
Whether you’re an overachiever, a chronic overthinker, or simply ready to make positive changes that last, this episode delivers actionable strategies and mindset shifts you can use right away. Tune in and discover how to make change not just possible, but easy.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:13] Paul Levitin explains how his philosophy shifted from “do the hard thing” to making hard things easy for lasting change.
[02:27] Paul introduces the idea of reducing friction and making positive habits more enjoyable.
[04:09] Paul shares his EASIER framework for building consistent habits, starting with enthusiasm.
[06:24] Paul emphasizes choosing goals you’re excited to do, not just excited to have.
[07:22] Discussion on adapting habits to fit your real-life resources and circumstances.
[08:41] Paul highlights the importance of embracing imperfection and learning from setbacks.
[09:33] Paul explains how stacking multiple benefits can help overcome resistance to hard habits.
[10:58] Paul stresses that habits must be repeatable and sustainable for lifelong change.
[13:38] Paul reframes “I have to” as a choice and encourages finding enjoyable ways to move.
[18:07] Paul discusses how overthinking and complexity can sabotage progress, and the need for simplicity.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Listen to Change Made Easy with Paul Levitin
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
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KEYWORDS:
habit change, self-improvement, building habits, consistency, EASIER framework, Change Made Easy, overcoming perfectionism, making habits stick, motivation, breaking bad habits, sustainable routines, personal growth, mindset shifts, celebrating small wins, emotional addiction, self-mastery, simple habits, fitness motivation, behavior change, podcast for overachievers, actionable strategies, life coaching, habit formation
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191. Dr. Jennifer Chrisman [Part 2]: It’s Not Your Kids... It’s You: The Power of Parental Healing in Breaking Cycles
Are you struggling to raise confident, resilient kids in a world dominated by social media and constant comparison? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro welcomes back Dr. Jenn Chrisman—psychologist, coach, and integrative wellness expert—for a candid conversation on parenting, self-mastery, and healing. Together, they unpack how to help children develop authentic self-worth, navigate the pressures of digital culture, and break generational cycles.
Listeners will gain practical strategies for fostering internal validation in kids, learn why parental self-healing is essential, and hear Dr. Jenn’s unique perspective on the limitations of traditional therapy versus the power of holistic coaching. The episode also explores the impact of social media on identity, the importance of modeling healthy habits, and the role of nutrition and spiritual practices in overall well-being.
Whether you’re a parent, educator, or anyone seeking personal growth, this episode offers actionable insights and inspiration to help you and your family thrive. Tune in for expert advice, real-life stories, and a fresh approach to living—and parenting—with intention.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:59] Alessia and Dr. Jenn discuss parenting daughters with new tools and awareness.
[04:38] Dr. Jenn highlights both the benefits and downsides of today’s openness and social media.
[07:09] Advice on helping kids develop self-worth and resist external pressures.
[08:47] Dr. Jenn hopes her children learn internal validation over external praise.
[11:31] The importance of adolescents exploring identities to clarify values.
[13:59] Challenges of social media visibility and the limits of human connection.
[17:45] Tips for keeping kids grounded: parental presence, modeling, and communication.
[19:58] Dr. Jenn links parenting struggles to unhealed wounds and suggests healing modalities.
[23:07] Why Dr. Jenn left traditional therapy for a more collaborative coaching approach.
[30:35] Encouragement to focus on living from a healed place, not endless self-fixing.
[37:25] Dr. Jenn’s integrative approach: psychology, nutrition, and spiritual wellness.
[46:43] Personal story on her mother’s illness and questioning the medical system.
[48:56] Closing thoughts on honoring the body’s wisdom and treating it with respect.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Visit Dr. Jenn’s website
Connect with Dr. Jenn on Instagram
Listen to Dr. Jenn’s podcast (which she cohosts with her husband, Matt), Love Your Truth
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KEYWORDS:
parenting, self-worth, social media and kids, internal validation, breaking generational cycles, holistic coaching, traditional therapy vs coaching, child development, resilience in children, cycle syncing, feminine energy, mental health, healing trauma, personal growth, nutrition and wellness, modeling healthy habits, family communication, integrative wellness, self-mastery, raising confident kids, emotional intelligence, digital culture, parenting tips
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![190. Dr. Jennifer Chrisman [Part 1]: Stop Settling for Surface Healing—Integrate Mind, Body, and Soul](https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo400/37485436/37485436-1734059266441-4837200b3e9c9.jpg)
190. Dr. Jennifer Chrisman [Part 1]: Stop Settling for Surface Healing—Integrate Mind, Body, and Soul
What if true healing means embracing every part of yourself—mind, body, and soul? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro welcomes Dr. Jennifer Chrisman, doctor of clinical psychology, functional nutritionist, and integrative holistic health practitioner. Together, they explore what it really takes to move beyond surface-level solutions and step into authentic, embodied transformation. Listeners will hear how Dr. Jenn’s own health crisis inspired her to return to school for a master’s in nutrition, blending psychology, somatic practices, and nutritional science for lasting change.
Dr. Jenn shares her unique approach to whole-person care, emphasizing the importance of addressing trauma, nervous system regulation, and nutrition as interconnected pieces of the healing puzzle. The conversation delves into the “Gates of Awakening,” the power of conscious choice, and the social mirror—revealing how our relationships and triggers can guide us toward deeper self-awareness and growth. With warmth and wisdom, Dr. Jenn challenges spiritual dogma and invites listeners to see themselves as inherently whole and worthy.
Whether you’re on a path of self-discovery, seeking holistic health, or ready to break free from old patterns, this episode offers practical insights and inspiration. Tune in to learn how integrating mind, body, and soul can help you inhabit your fullest, most authentic self.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:45] Alessia introduces Dr. Jenn Chrisman and her holistic, multi-disciplinary background.
[02:56] Dr. Jenn shares how her own health crisis led her to study nutrition and expand her approach.
[06:39] Dr. Jenn explains why true holistic health means addressing nutrition, trauma, and nervous system regulation together.
[12:30] Alessia and Dr. Jenn discuss plant medicine, ego death, and how these experiences can accelerate healing.
[15:37] Dr. Jenn reframes “bad trips” in plant medicine as valuable lessons for personal growth.
[18:03] Dr. Jenn introduces the “Gates of Awakening” and explores why some people get stuck in victimhood.
[32:05] Alessia and Dr. Jenn share their belief that all spiritual paths can lead to God, emphasizing unity over dogma.
[41:09] Alessia credits Dr. Jenn for teaching her the “social mirror” concept—how our triggers reflect unhealed parts of ourselves.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Visit Dr. Jenn’s website
Connect with Dr. Jenn on Instagram
Listen to Dr. Jenn’s podcast (which she cohosts with her husband, Matt), Love Your Truth
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KEYWORDS: holistic health, mind body soul, Dr. Jenn Chrisman, integrative healing, trauma recovery, nervous system regulation, nutrition and wellness, embodied transformation, self-mastery, plant medicine, ego death, Gates of Awakening, victimhood, conscious choice, spiritual growth, self-awareness, whole person care, somatic practices, personal growth, transformational coaching
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189. From West African Orphan to American Real Estate Mogul: How Yamu Camara Defied the Odds and Built Her Empire
What does it take to break generational cycles, defy impossible odds, and build lasting wealth from scratch? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with Yamu Camara—CDC data scientist, real estate investor, and founder—to uncover the extraordinary journey from a small village in The Gambia to financial freedom in America. Listeners will be inspired by Yamu’s resilience, learn how she overcame trauma and cultural barriers, and discover practical strategies for building wealth through real estate investing.
Yamu shares her powerful story of surviving childhood abuse, escaping an arranged marriage, and leveraging education and scholarships to transform her life. She reveals how she started a nonprofit to teach girls coding, earned a prestigious Mandela Washington Fellowship, and ultimately built a multimillion-dollar real estate portfolio—growing from 90 to over 150 rental units in just 18 months. The episode covers actionable topics like house hacking, Section 8 rentals, building credit as an immigrant, and the mindset shifts required to succeed against all odds.
Whether you’re an aspiring real estate investor, an immigrant chasing the American dream, or anyone seeking inspiration to overcome adversity, this episode delivers practical advice and proof that it’s possible. Don’t wait to buy real estate—tune in and learn how to buy real estate and wait.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[03:15] Yamu Camara shares her early life in The Gambia, including cultural challenges and personal trauma that shaped her resilience.
[09:11] Despite severe adversity at home, Yamu excels academically and earns scholarships with the support of teachers and principals.
[13:11] Yamu negotiates with her family to delay an arranged marriage, determined to pursue higher education.
[18:41] She starts a nonprofit to teach girls IT and coding skills, empowering others while still in her early twenties.
[26:18] Yamu is selected for the Mandela Washington Fellowship, which brings her to the U.S. and includes meeting President Obama.
[33:50] She describes the courageous and secretive steps she took to leave The Gambia for good and start a new life in America.
[39:56] Yamu rapidly grows her real estate portfolio, nearly doubling her rental units in just over a year.
[54:50] She credits her success to people who took a chance on her and now mentors others, achieving an 89% success rate with over 1,200 students.
[66:20] Yamu reflects on achieving the American dream and her mission to show everyday people that real estate investing is possible for anyone.
[73:08] She shares her trademarked advice: “Don’t wait to buy real estate. Buy real estate and wait,” encouraging listeners to take action.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Yamu:
Instagram: @buildingwealthfromrentals
Yamu’s Website: Sobel Properties
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KEYWORDS: real estate investing, building wealth, financial freedom, immigrant success story, overcoming adversity, Section 8 rentals, house hacking, rental property strategies, passive income, generational wealth, women in real estate, mindset shifts, entrepreneurship, teaching girls to code, escaping arranged marriage, Midwest real estate, property management, American dream, real estate mentorship, inspiring stories, podcast for investors, actionable advice
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188. Kaitlin Anthony on The Courage to Be Everything and More
Are you ready to redefine success and embrace your authentic self? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, Alessia sits down with Kaitlin Anthony, transformational coach, speaker, and founder of The Beam Life, to explore how to break free from societal expectations and live boldly. Known for her rebellious yet relatable style, Kaitlin shares her journey from a celebrity stylist and Ironman athlete to a coach empowering ambitious women to find fulfillment beyond the grind. Listeners will uncover the power of self-trust, personal development, and embracing who you truly are.
Through candid stories and actionable insights, Kaitlin reveals how she transformed her life by leaning into authenticity, overcoming self-doubt, and trusting her intuition. From her journey of self-acceptance to the soul recognition that led her to her non-binary partner, Kaitlin’s story is a testament to the power of living in alignment. She also shares practical tips on cultivating discipline, navigating life’s challenges, and embodying your future self every day.
Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a parent, or someone seeking deeper fulfillment, this episode offers inspiration and tools to help you step into your power. Tune in to learn how to be everything and more—and don’t forget to share this episode and leave a review to help others discover these transformative insights!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00] Alessia introduces the episode and guest Kaitlin Anthony, a transformational coach, speaker, and founder of The Beam Life.
[02:05] Kaitlin shares how her bold style and confidence were initially a form of protection and later became her superpower.
[05:38] Discussion on Kaitlin’s journey of self-acceptance and how moving to New York helped her embrace her authentic self.
[09:14] Kaitlin explains how personal development and fitness transformed her life, starting with her first 5K and leading to completing an Ironman and an ultra-marathon.
[14:45] Alessia and Kaitlin discuss the power of accountability and how it can push you to achieve goals you didn’t think were possible.
[24:10] Kaitlin shares the story of meeting her partner, Dee, and the soul recognition that led to their relationship.
[33:16] Kaitlin reflects on the challenges of leaving her marriage and embracing her truth, including coming out to her family.
[44:00] The importance of trusting your intuition and learning to recognize how your body signals alignment or misalignment.
[52:08] Kaitlin explains the philosophy behind The Beam Life and how small, intentional actions every day can help you embody your future self.
[56:48] Kaitlin shares a heartfelt message about self-forgiveness, slowing down, and embracing new timelines, especially as a mother navigating her daughter’s diagnosis.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Follow Kaitlin on Instagram @thebeamlife
Take Kaitlin's Goal Slayer Archetype Quiz
Apply for Kaitlin’s new program, ascend
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KEYWORDS: self-acceptance, personal development, transformational coaching, authenticity, living boldly, redefining success, self-trust, overcoming self-doubt, intuition, discipline, Ironman athlete, ultra-marathon journey, embracing change, non-binary relationships, queer marriage, motherhood challenges, self-forgiveness, embodying your future self, mindset shifts, entrepreneurial growth, living in alignment, breaking societal expectations, self-mastery practices, soul recognition
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187. You’re Not Bad with Money: The Real Reason Behind Financial Stress feat. Dave Won
Are you ready to uncover the emotional and behavioral roots of financial stress? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, Alessia sits down with TEDx speaker, certified money coach, and founder of Dave Won and Company, Dave Won. Together, they explore why traditional budgeting and financial strategies often fail to address the deeper issues behind money struggles. Listeners will learn how subconscious drivers like approval, control, and comfort shape financial behaviors—and how to break free from these invisible barriers to achieve true financial freedom.
Dave shares powerful personal stories, including how his upbringing and emotional patterns influenced his financial decisions, like buying a truck to seek approval. He introduces his transformative AHHA framework—Awareness, History, Healing, and Action—which helps individuals identify and heal the emotional anchors holding them back. From understanding the stories behind your spending to the importance of forgiveness in financial healing, this episode is packed with actionable insights.
Whether you're a corporate executive, entrepreneur, or simply someone seeking peace with money, this episode offers a fresh perspective on achieving financial freedom. Tune in to gain clarity, transform your relationship with money, and take the first step toward a more fulfilling financial future.
TIMESTAMPS:
[01:25] Alessia welcomes guest Dave Won, a TEDx speaker, certified money coach, and founder of Dave Won and Company, highlighting his unique approach to financial stress.
[03:21] Dave explains the rebranding of his company from Budget Captain to Dave Won and Company, emphasizing the emotional and behavioral roots of financial stress.
[06:16] Dave shares a personal story about buying a truck and how it revealed his subconscious need for approval.
[09:41] Discussion of the "invisible wall" concept and the four subconscious drivers: approval, comfort, control, and power.
[12:24] Dave highlights how financial freedom is not about money but about addressing the emotions driving financial behaviors.
[19:02] Dave shares his upbringing and how it shaped his financial habits, including his fear of uncertainty and need for control.
[36:17] Dave discusses the importance of forgiveness in healing financial behaviors and shares a personal story about reconciling with his mother.
[50:08] Practical advice: Dave outlines three questions to evaluate spending habits and uncover emotional drivers behind financial decisions.
[55:42] Dave concludes with the importance of addressing emotional anchors to achieve true financial freedom.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Dave and watch his TEDx talk!
LinkedIn | Website | TEDx Talk
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KEYWORDS: financial freedom, emotional spending, money mindset, financial stress, budgeting tips, emotional anchors, financial behaviors, money coaching, subconscious money habits, financial healing, approval and money, control and finances, financial independence, money management strategies, overcoming debt, financial wellness, emotional triggers, money and self-worth, financial transformation, personal finance tips, behavioral finance, financial coaching, money stories, financial self-awareness
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186. Brie Johnson on Inchstones, Not Milestones: The Mindset Shift You Need to Succeed
Are you struggling to find balance between your personal life and professional ambitions? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, HR strategist and certified career coach Brie Johnson returns to share her wisdom on navigating the complexities of entrepreneurship, family life, and personal growth. With over 15 years of experience in human resources and corporate communications, Brie offers practical strategies for creating harmony in your life while scaling your business.
From redefining balance as a shifting pie chart to celebrating "inchstones"—small but meaningful milestones—Brie provides actionable insights for managing busy seasons, setting boundaries, and embracing the power of being a beginner. She also shares her approach to building effective systems through her Better HR Blueprint, helping business owners create supportive, scalable teams. Whether you're a solopreneur or managing a growing team, Brie's advice on hiring, training, and communication will transform how you approach leadership and growth.
Whether you're a parent juggling family and work or an entrepreneur looking to scale sustainably, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical tips to help you thrive. Tune in to learn how to give yourself grace, celebrate progress, and build a life and business you love.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:26] Brie Johnson, HR strategist and career coach, discusses her journey of growth, balance, and family life.
[03:02] Brie explains her perspective on balance, comparing life to a shifting pie chart.
[04:45] Tactical strategies Brie and her husband use to stay aligned during busy seasons.
[07:24] Scheduling around family life and creating "summer hours" for work-life harmony.
[10:10] Setting boundaries with clients and scheduling emails to maintain balance.
[13:10] Brie reveals her upcoming book project and balancing creative work with responsibilities.
[16:28] The concept of "inchstones," celebrating small wins inspired by parenting.
[25:00] Planning and letting go of unfinished tasks using a weekly planner.
[40:00] Brie's Better HR Blueprint: building systems to support teams effectively.
[48:00] Advice on hiring and training employees with clear communication and collaboration.
[55:00] Brie encourages embracing being a beginner and giving yourself grace.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Brie on Instagram @bcjinsights and LinkedIn
Subscribe to The Career Catalyst Newsletter
Work with Brie! The Better HR Blueprint
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KEYWORDS: work-life balance, HR strategies, career coaching, entrepreneurship tips, small business growth, team building, hiring best practices, employee training, setting boundaries, time management, personal development, celebrating small wins, inchstones, family and business balance, creative projects, scaling a business, effective communication, leadership tips, beginner mindset, Better HR Blueprint, work-life harmony, parenting and entrepreneurship, business systems, self-mastery practices, personal growth strategies
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185. Casey Calkins on Why Burnout Might Be the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You: Redefining Leadership and Success
Are you ready to redefine leadership and align your work with your purpose? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, Alessia sits down with her friend of 25 years and former colleague, Casey Calkins. Casey is a former tech sales leader turned executive coach and small business advisor who explores the intersection of authentic leadership, burnout recovery, and personal alignment. Casey shares her journey from corporate success to coaching, offering listeners actionable strategies to lead with purpose, avoid burnout, and build sustainable success. Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting out, this episode is packed with insights to help you thrive.
Casey introduces her "success alignment model," which focuses on three key pillars: self-awareness, systems, and social networks. Together, Alessia and Casey discuss the challenges of leadership, the importance of staying present, and how to navigate the pressures of corporate life without losing yourself. From overcoming burnout to embracing your unique leadership style, this conversation is both inspiring and practical.
Whether you're a leader, entrepreneur, or someone seeking greater alignment in your life, this episode offers the abilities and mindset shifts you need to succeed. Tune in to discover how to lead authentically, achieve your goals, and create a life that truly aligns with your values. Don’t forget to share this episode and leave a review to help others find it!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:26] Alessia welcomes Casey Calkins, a former tech sales leader turned executive coach, and highlights her mission to create authentic sales leaders.
[03:23] Casey reflects on how her early career in tech sales shaped her trajectory and the importance of aligning work with personal values.
[06:32] Alessia and Casey discuss burnout, its impact on women in corporate America, and how it often signals misalignment with personal goals.
[09:38] Casey shares insights on whether leaders are born or made, emphasizing that leadership can emerge from passion and purpose.
[12:46] Alessia and Casey explore the challenges of people management, including balancing autonomy and accountability in leadership roles.
[16:10] Casey introduces her "success alignment model," focusing on self-awareness, systems, and social networks as the three pillars of sustainable success.
[34:44] The importance of building a supportive network and leveraging community to achieve personal and professional goals.
[40:44] Alessia and Casey reflect on Stephen Covey’s eulogy exercise, discussing how keeping death in mind can inspire presence and purpose.
[48:07] Casey encourages embracing leadership in all forms and seasons, emphasizing that everyone has the potential to make an impact.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Casey:LinkedIn
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KEYWORDS:
authentic leadership, burnout recovery, success alignment model, self-awareness, leadership development, corporate burnout, sustainable success, executive coaching, small business advisor, leadership strategies, personal alignment, work-life balance, women in leadership, professional growth, leadership mindset, systems and processes, building a network, goal setting, overcoming burnout, leadership coaching, purpose-driven leadership, staying present, corporate America challenges, leadership skills, personal growth strategies
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184. From Temporal to Eternal: Shifting Your Focus to Find Freedom
Do you ever feel stuck in fear or weighed down by the pressure to achieve? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, Alessia shares a deeply personal reflection on how reconnecting with faith and humility is helping her move past fear and self-doubt. Through candid storytelling and heartfelt insights, she explores the challenges of chasing worldly success and how shifting her focus back to God is bringing her clarity and peace.
Alessia introduces the Litany of Humility, a powerful prayer helping her reframe her fears and let go of the need for external validation. She reflects on how aligning with eternal values, rather than temporary achievements, can provide a sense of freedom and purpose. Listeners will hear relatable stories about overcoming fear and practical ways to reorient their focus toward what truly matters.
If you’re ready to move past fear and find a more grounded, meaningful way to approach life’s challenges, this episode offers thoughtful insights and inspiration. Tune in for an honest conversation about faith, humility, and the courage to let go.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00] Alessia introduces the episode as a deeply personal and spontaneous reflection, inspired by a late-night realization.
[01:15] Alessia shares her journey of introspection, stepping away from social media, and feeling a "call home" to God.
[02:36] Discussion of the rise in Bible sales and how it reflects a broader spiritual awakening.
[03:14] Alessia opens up about battling fears tied to worldly success and the realization that only God can fill the void.
[05:32] Reflection on prioritizing eternal values over temporary worldly achievements and the peace that comes with faith.
[07:02] Alessia encourages reorienting life’s focus toward fulfilling a greater mission aligned with God’s plan.
[08:21] Introduction to the Litany of Humility prayer and its profound impact on Alessia, moving her to tears.
[09:55] Alessia prays the Litany of Humility, inviting listeners to join in and reflect on its relevance in today’s world.
[13:21] Closing with Romans 12:2, Alessia emphasizes the importance of renewing the mind and resisting worldly patterns.
[13:51] Alessia expresses gratitude for the opportunity to share this message and hopes it resonates deeply with listeners.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
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KEYWORDS: faith and humility, overcoming fear, moving past self-doubt, spiritual growth, personal transformation, Litany of Humility, reconnecting with God, finding inner peace, letting go of validation, eternal values, balancing ambition and faith, Pray 40 Challenge, spiritual fulfillment, overcoming worldly pressures, Christian podcast, personal reflection, faith-based inspiration, renewing your mind, overcoming fear of failure, aligning with purpose, spiritual practices, high achievers and faith, letting go of fear, finding clarity through faith, Jesus
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183. The “Selfish” Entrepreneur: Why Self-Care Is the Key to Winning feat. Nikki Corbett
Are you ready to take control of your health, habits, and success? In this episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro, Alessia sits down with Nikki Corbett, host of the Round Two Podcast and a seasoned leader with over 15 years of experience in corporate roles and startups. Together, they dive into the intersection of health, fitness, and entrepreneurship, sharing actionable strategies to help you optimize your body and mind for peak performance. From biohacking and hormone health to the transformative power of weightlifting, Nikki reveals how prioritizing self-care can fuel your personal and professional growth.
Listeners will gain valuable insights into building sustainable habits, understanding the importance of protein and strength training, and navigating the challenges of aging with vitality. Nikki also shares her journey of working with wellness experts to prepare for menopause, debunking common myths about women and fitness along the way. Her candid stories and practical advice will inspire you to take ownership of your health and embrace a mindset of continuous improvement.
Whether you're an entrepreneur, a busy professional, or someone looking to level up your habits, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you thrive. Tune in to learn how to prioritize yourself, set boundaries, and create a foundation for long-term success. Don’t forget to connect with Nikki and Alessia for more inspiration and actionable tips!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:26] Alessia introduces guest Nikki Corbett, highlighting her impressive career in startups, corporate roles, and her podcast, Entrepreneurship Anywhere.
[04:06] Nikki shares her age (46) and discusses her proactive approach to health and fitness as she approaches menopause.
[05:19] Nikki emphasizes the importance of physical health, including weightlifting, protein intake, and understanding hormones, to maintain vitality as you age.
[09:24] Discussion on biohacking and how Nikki started working with wellness companies to optimize her health and prepare for menopause.
[13:03] Nikki debunks myths about women and weightlifting, emphasizing its benefits for physical and mental health.
[49:04] Nikki explains how being "selfish" with self-care—prioritizing sleep, exercise, and nutrition—leads to better performance in work and life.
[52:35] Nikki encourages listeners to embrace trial and error to find habits that work for them, rather than following one-size-fits-all advice.
[56:56] Nikki shares how she coaches first-time managers and leaders, inviting listeners to connect with her for guidance.
[58:25] Nikki expresses her goal to diversify her podcast guests and invites Gen Z entrepreneurs to reach out for future episodes.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Nikki:
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KEYWORDS: health and fitness, biohacking, hormone health, weightlifting for women, sustainable habits, entrepreneurship tips, self-care strategies, optimizing health, protein intake, menopause preparation, startup leadership, personal growth, building healthy habits, women in business, fitness myths, mental health and productivity, work-life balance, wellness for entrepreneurs, strength training benefits, prioritizing self-care, business success tips, healthy aging, corporate leadership, podcast for entrepreneurs
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182. The Real Real on Vulnerability: Why Transparency Isn’t Enough
Are you truly vulnerable, or are you just being transparent? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro unpacks the profound difference between transparency and vulnerability, sharing how understanding this distinction can transform your relationships, self-awareness, and personal growth. Drawing from her recent experience at Rebecca Cafiero's Inner Circle Mastermind and insights from Enneagram expert Tracy O'Malley, Alessia explores how vulnerability requires raw honesty, while transparency often reflects lessons learned after the fact.
Through personal stories, including her journey with alcohol use and its impact on motherhood, Alessia illustrates the power of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections and self-mastery. She also challenges listeners to reflect on their own lives: Are you truly opening up to those closest to you, or are you holding back out of fear of appearing weak? With practical examples and thought-provoking questions, this episode offers a roadmap for embracing vulnerability both in real life and online.
Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationships, grow as a leader, or simply show up more authentically, this episode provides actionable insights to help you inhabit your best self. Tune in and take the first step toward deeper connection and personal transformation.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:26] Alessia introduces the episode, focusing on the difference between transparency vs. vulnerability
[02:39] Alessia shares insights from Rebecca Cafiero's Inner Circle Mastermind and learning from Enneagram expert Tracy O'Malley.
[04:10] Explanation of transparency (sharing resolved experiences) vs. vulnerability (sharing tender or raw emotional experiences).
[05:39] Alessia reflects on guilt from her struggles with alcohol use during her daughter's toddler years to showcase the difference between transparency and vulnerability.
[07:39] Listeners are challenged to evaluate their vulnerability in close relationships and whether they feel safe to share.
[10:19] Alessia highlights the paradox of vulnerability, showing how it feels weak but actually takes, shows and builds strength …and deeper connections.
[11:17] Discussion of sharing "from scars, not wounds" online and Alessia’s tendency toward transparency over vulnerability.
[14:23] Alessia opens up about her vulnerability hangover from a four-hour car ride with Amanda Walker and Sara Chambers.
[16:35] Alessia emphasizes the importance of vulnerability with trusted people to foster growth and connection.
[19:33] Alessia concludes by encouraging listeners to embrace vulnerability and reflect on their own growth edges.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Take Tracy O’Malley’s enneagram assessment
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KEYWORDS:
vulnerability, transparency, personal growth, self-awareness, emotional connection, Enneagram, Inner Circle Mastermind, authentic relationships, self-mastery, online presence, sharing from scars, personal transformation, overcoming shame, building trust, raw honesty, personal development, leadership growth, emotional resilience, motherhood struggles, alcohol recovery, alcohol use disorder, alcohol-free, creating connection, self-reflection, personal storytelling
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181. The Art of Reinvention: Tracy Matthews on Why Staying the Same Is Holding You Back
Reinvention can feel intimidating, but it’s also the key to unlocking your most fulfilling and creative life. In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with Tracy Matthews, a creativity, branding, and reinvention expert, bestselling author, and host of the Thrive by Design podcast. Together, they explore the art of pivoting with purpose, overcoming fear, and embracing change to create a life and business that truly align with your passions. Listeners will gain actionable insights on how to navigate reinvention, overcome self-doubt, and take bold steps toward their goals.
Tracy shares her personal journey of building multiple seven-figure businesses, her love for reinvention, and the mindset shifts that have fueled her success. From overcoming societal conditioning to embracing creativity as a ability for growth, this episode is packed with inspiring stories, practical advice, and strategies for breaking free from fear. Highlights include Tracy’s pivotal moment at a Brendon Burchard event, the power of vision casting, and the importance of aligning your business with your personal needs.
Whether you’re a creative entrepreneur, a professional in transition, or someone seeking more fulfillment, this episode offers the abilities and inspiration to take your next big leap. Don’t miss Tracy’s announcement of her upcoming Art of Reinvention program—your guide to making bold, transformative changes. Tune in and start reinventing today!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:25] Tracy Matthews is introduced as a reinvention expert and serial entrepreneur.
[03:10] Tracy explains why reinvention is key to a fulfilling life.
[04:30] Discussion on societal pressure to stay in one career and breaking free.
[06:18] Alessia and Tracy bond over being Enneagram 7s and creative personalities.
[08:25] Tracy shares how she and Alessia met at the Powerhouse Women event.
[11:23] Tracy advises taking small steps to overcome fear of reinvention.
[12:26] Tracy recalls a Brendon Burchard event that inspired her TED Talk goal.
[48:16] Tracy stresses aligning your business with your personal needs.
[57:39] Tracy announces her Art of Reinvention program and private podcast.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
The Art of Reinvention Program
The Reinvention Season Podcast
Follow Tracy on Instagram @ iamtracymatthews
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KEYWORDS:
reinvention, creativity, personal growth, overcoming fear, pivoting in business, creative entrepreneurs, mindset shifts, personal transformation, Enneagram 7, human design, vision casting, business alignment, creative branding, self-mastery, entrepreneurship tips, personal reinvention, thriving in business, overcoming self-doubt, creative strategies, building a fulfilling life, podcast for entrepreneurs, personal development.
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180. Why Your Affirmations Aren’t Working (And How to Fix Them)
Struggling to believe in yourself or make affirmations work for you? In this episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro re-airs one of the podcast’s most downloaded episodes, diving deep into the science and spirit of affirmations. Alessia explores how affirmations can rewire your brain, boost self-confidence, and help you manifest your goals. Listeners will learn practical strategies to make affirmations feel authentic, backed by neuroscience and metaphysical insights, and discover how to build the "bridge of belief" to transform their mindset.
Drawing from her own journey and the expertise of her mentor, Dr. Jenn Chrisman, Alessia shares a powerful two-step ability to make affirmations more believable and effective. From neuroplasticity and dopamine reinforcement to quantum alignment and vibrational frequencies, this episode blends science and spirituality to explain why affirmations work and how to use them to create lasting change. Alessia also shares personal stories, like her dream of becoming a bestselling author, to illustrate how to overcome self-doubt and take actionable steps toward your goals.
Whether you're an entrepreneur, self-improvement enthusiast, or someone seeking to break free from negative self-talk, this episode offers actionable insights to help you inhabit your best self. Tune in and start building habits and beliefs that align with your highest potential. For more support, check out Alessia’s Higher Self Habits coaching program and take the first step toward lasting transformation!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00] Alessia introduces the episode as a re-air of one of the most popular episodes, focusing on the science and spirit of affirmations and how they can rewire the brain.
[01:14] Discussion begins on building self-confidence and self-trust through small, consistent wins and introduces affirmations as a ability for belief-building.
[02:19] Alessia explains six neuroscience-backed reasons affirmations work, including neuroplasticity, positive reinforcement, and reducing negative self-talk.
[05:30] Transition to the spiritual and metaphysical perspective on affirmations, highlighting concepts like quantum potential, vibrational frequencies, and co-creation with the divine.
[08:50] Alessia shares a personal example of her affirmation journey to become a bestselling author and introduces Dr. Jen Chrisman’s ability for making affirmations more believable.
[10:13] Alessia explains how to modify affirmations to feel more authentic, using phrases like "I am the type of person who can..." or "I am willing to consider..."
[12:14] Encouragement to practice affirmations in front of a mirror for greater impact and to share personal experiences with the method.
[12:59] Alessia promotes her "Higher Self Habits" group coaching program, emphasizing its benefits for building habits and achieving goals ahead of the new year.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- Blog post with episode content
- Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
- Now available on Audible! Get a free 30-day trial!
KEYWORDS:
affirmations, positive affirmations, neuroscience of affirmations, self-confidence, self-trust, building belief, mindset transformation, neuroplasticity, positive reinforcement, reducing negative self-talk, manifestation techniques, law of attraction, quantum potential, vibrational frequencies, spiritual growth, personal development, self-improvement, habit building, mirror affirmations, subconscious programming, co-creation with the divine, mindset shifts, self-fulfilling prophecy, Higher Self Habits, personal growth strategies.
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179. Ego Death via Motherhood: Kelly Ann Kirk on Why Grieving Your Old Self is Necessary to Thrive
Motherhood, identity, and personal growth take center stage in this heartfelt episode of INHABIT with Alessia Citro. Joined by Kelly Kirk, a former mortgage industry professional turned podcast host of Reclaiming Your Hue, Alessia and Kelly explore the profound identity shifts that come with becoming a mother. Kelly shares her journey of leaving a high-profile career to align with her true purpose, offering listeners a raw and relatable look at navigating change, shedding ego, and embracing the challenges of motherhood and entrepreneurship.
Through candid stories and deep reflections, Alessia and Kelly discuss the grief of letting go of one’s pre-motherhood identity, the importance of mental health, and the power of faith in reclaiming your true self. From overcoming societal labels to finding alignment through spiritual growth, this episode is packed with insights for women balancing the demands of motherhood, career, and self-discovery. Vulnerable moments, like Alessia’s struggles with breastfeeding and Kelly’s journey to “bless and release” her old identity, provide listeners with validation and inspiration.
Whether you’re a mother, entrepreneur, or someone seeking alignment in your life, this episode offers actionable wisdom and heartfelt encouragement. Tune in to uncover how to reclaim your vibrancy, embrace your evolving identity, and thrive in every role you inhabit. Don’t forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:18] Introduction of guest Kelly Kirk, a former mortgage industry professional turned podcast host, who shares her journey of identity transformation after becoming a mother.
[03:33] Kelly discusses the identity shift she experienced after the birth of her daughter and the struggle of letting go of her former self.
[05:04] Kelly explains the emotional and tactical process of "blessing and releasing" her old identity to align with her new purpose.
[09:22] A deep dive into Kelly’s spiritual journey, including her exploration of faith and how it helped her reconnect with her true self.
[13:23] Alessia and Kelly discuss shedding ego, societal labels, and false idols to reclaim one’s true identity and essence.
[16:44] Kelly reflects on the grief process of letting go of her pre-motherhood identity and the challenges of balancing freedom with new responsibilities.
[41:08] Alessia shares a vulnerable story about her struggles with breastfeeding and how it taught her humility and empathy, emphasizing the importance of mental health.
[49:35] Alessia and Kelly discuss the importance of seeking help during challenging times and how personal growth often emerges from adversity.
[52:07] Kelly shares her vision for her podcast, Reclaiming Your Hue, and her mission to build a supportive community for women navigating motherhood and entrepreneurship.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Follow Kelly on Instagram: @thekelly.tanke.kirk
Follow Kelly's podcast: @ryh_pod
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Other resources mentioned:
No Mud, No Lotus by Thich Nhat Hanh
Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch
INHABIT Episode #154 Dancing with God: Magnetic Manifesting and Living Intentionally with Niko Arapkiles
KEYWORDS: motherhood identity shift, entrepreneurial mothers, balancing motherhood and career, personal growth, mental health for moms, faith and spirituality, reclaiming your identity, shedding ego, postpartum transformation, navigating career change, spiritual growth, overcoming societal labels, work-life balance, self-discovery journey, matrescence, grief after motherhood, aligning with purpose, female mindset, thriving as a mompreneur, mental health awareness, letting go of old identity
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178. Stop Living for Everyone Else: How Human Design Can Help You Take Your Power Back with Lori Lisai
Ever feel like you’re living for everyone else and wondering when it’syour turn? This episode features a conversation with Lori Lisai, a human design guide, retreat host, and former educator who’s on a mission to help women in midlife rediscover their spark. We dive into all things human design—what it is, how it works, and why it’s such a game-changer for making decisions that actually feel good. Lori also shares how this ability can help you navigate perimenopause, redefine your purpose, and step into your most authentic, badass self.
We talk about everything from energy types and decision-making authorities to the “wild woman” archetype—a phase of life where you stop giving a crap about what others think and start living foryou. Lori also gives us a sneak peek into her upcoming Costa Rica retreat, designed to help women embrace this powerful transformation with support and sisterhood.
If you’re curious about human design or just ready to stop playing small, this episode is for you. Go grab your chart, tune in, and get ready to unlock the next level ofyou.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:27] Alessia introduces guest Lori Lisai, a human design guide and retreat host helping women in midlife rediscover their spark and authenticity.
[02:37] Lori shares how she discovered human design in 2019 and became deeply immersed in its transformative potential.
[05:26] Lori explains "authority" in human design, emphasizing how decisions are guided by the body’s wisdom rather than the mind.
[07:51] Alessia describes how her sacral authority feels like a "gut alignment" and how she’s learned to discern between "not now" and "yes."
[12:00] Lori outlines the different types of human design authorities, including emotional, sacral, and splenic, and how they guide decision-making.
[38:06] Lori explains how perimenopause changes the brain, helping women care less about societal expectations and focus on themselves.
[39:32] Lori introduces the "wild woman" archetype, a phase where women reclaim their authenticity and embrace their true selves.
[44:18] Lori shares details about her upcoming Costa Rica retreat, designed to help women in perimenopause embrace their wild woman phase.
[52:20] Alessia and Lori emphasize the importance of starting with energy type, authority, and profile when exploring human design.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Wild Women Retreat in Costa Rica
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KEYWORDS:human design, human design authority, energy types, sacral authority, emotional authority, wild woman archetype, perimenopause, midlife transformation, personal growth, self-discovery, decision-making strategies, authentic living, human design for women, midlife empowerment, human design profiles, Costa Rica retreat, personal alignment, feminine energy, deconditioning, self-awareness, midlife coaching, holistic wisdom, human design chart, navigating midlife, reclaiming your spark

177. Keshia Tucci: Your Birthday's Money Code – How Numerology Can Reveal Your Wealth Blocks
Can your birth date and name hold the key to unlocking your wealth potential? In this fascinating episode, money mindset expert Keshia Tucci reveals how numerology, neuroscience, and manifestation work together to break through financial barriers. Discover why 95% of your life stems from beliefs and thoughts, while only 5% comes from action – and what this means for your money mindset.
Keshia, a transformative life coach from South Africa, shares powerful insights about how controlling energy can block money flow, and why understanding your numerological blueprint can fast-track personal growth. Through real-time analysis of Alessia's numerology chart, listeners get an inside look at how numbers can reveal hidden patterns in personality, life purpose, and potential money blocks. The episode explores practical tools for releasing limiting beliefs, from somatic healing to EFT tapping, while emphasizing the importance of choosing techniques that match your learning style.
Whether you're struggling with money blocks or simply curious about the intersection of spirituality and wealth, this episode offers a unique perspective on financial transformation. Ready to discover your own numerological blueprint? Grab Keshia's comprehensive 30-page numerology chart for just $30 and begin your journey to financial freedom.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:27] Introduction of Keshia Tucci as a money mindset coach who combines manifestation, neuroscience, and numerology to help women break through money ceilings.
[02:27] Keshia explains how human design and numerology transformed her personal journey and coaching approach.
[04:15] Discussion of how growing up with parents who had scarcity mindsets shaped Keshia's early relationship with money.
[07:11] Key insight shared: "95% of our life stems from our beliefs and thoughts, only 5% is action oriented."
[11:30] Deep dive into somatic healing as a powerful tool for releasing trapped trauma and limiting beliefs.
[15:31] Analysis of Alessia's numerology chart reveals she's a Life Path Number 1 (innovator/leader) with a Life Destiny Number 6 (nurturing/maternal).
[22:27] Discussion of personal year numbers and how they influence success - Alessia is in Year 4 (systems/foundation building) moving into Year 5 (freedom/travel).
[36:33] Powerful coaching moment: Keshia identifies control as a potential money block through numerology analysis.
[44:07] Practical discussion of different manifestation techniques based on learning styles (visual, auditory, kinesthetic).
[49:06] Memorable quote from Keshia: "Your whole life will completely transform if you are just open to it...you have to choose your hard."
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Keshia on Instagram@fox_to_phoenix
Join Keshia’s Group ProgramFoundations to Fortunes
Get your 30 page personalized Numerology Chart for only $30!
Upgrade chart with a personalized reading and tweaked to your goals
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More info on Emotional Freedom Technique / EFT / tapping
KEYWORDS:money mindset, numerology chart reading, manifestation techniques, limiting beliefs, abundance coaching, spiritual business, human design, EFT tapping, somatic healing, wealth consciousness, life path number, personal year numbers, neuroscience and money, shadow work, control issues, meditation for money, high frequency music, brain rewiring, feminine energy, money blocks, South African coach, numerology for business, morning routine alternatives, money manifestation

176. From Police Detective to Joy Coach: Redefining Success Through Fun with Andrea Parker
Can success and joy coexist, or are we destined to choose between achievement and happiness? In this episode of Inhabit with Alessia Citro, former police detective turned conscious leadership coach Andrea Parker challenges the notion that grinding is the only path to success. Through powerful stories and practical insights, she reveals how incorporating more fun and joy into our lives can actually lead to greater business success and personal fulfillment.
Drawing from over a decade of experience coaching multimillion-dollar business leaders and Emmy award-winning producers, Parker shares how many high-achievers resist fun due to deep-seated beliefs about it being "unsafe" or unproductive. Through compelling examples - including a client literally falling through ice while learning to embrace joy - she illustrates how our nervous system regulation and subconscious beliefs impact our ability to experience genuine fun. The episode culminates in a powerful "walking the plank" exercise that reveals how many of us won't take risks for ourselves that we would for others.
Whether you're a recovering perfectionist struggling to define fun, or an entrepreneur looking to create sustainable success without burnout, this episode provides actionable strategies for incorporating more joy into your daily life. Learn how asking "What would make this more fun?" can transform both your personal life and business outcomes while staying true to your high-achieving nature.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:25] Andrea Parker introduces herself as a former detective turned leadership coach focused on helping leaders find joy.
[02:54] Andrea shares her journey from perfectionist to rediscovering her natural joy.
[06:04] Discussion of high-achieving clients struggling to allow fun without tying it to productivity.
[11:11] Client story about falling through ice reveals deep beliefs about fun being "unsafe."
[19:14] Explores importance of nervous system regulation as foundation for experiencing joy.
[28:45] Highlights how intellectually-driven people often bypass emotions.
[43:05] Exercise using "walking the plank" metaphor reveals reluctance to take risks for ourselves.
[47:40] Key insight that courage needed for survival equals courage needed for self-fulfillment.
[50:08] Practical advice: Ask yourself daily "What would make this more fun?"
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Andrea on Instagram@andreaparkerspeaks and@fun.x.perience
Andrea’s website:https://funx.ca
Apply:https://funx.ca/community-call-application-funxperience
Free journaling exercise Andrea mentioned for exploring your relationship with fun: FunX 7-Day Joy Journal - https://funx.ca/journal
For those interested in the DNA study we discussed:HeartMath Research Paper
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KEYWORDS: conscious leadership, fun in business, nervous system regulation, high achievers, perfectionism recovery, police detective turned coach, heart-brain coherence, business transformation, joy in entrepreneurship, fear and courage, subconscious beliefs, business mindset, fun exercises, walking the plank exercise, leadership coaching, work-life balance, business burnout, success mindset, intentional living, personal growth journey, emotional intelligence, biogeometry, heart math

175. Alli Arruda on The Alchemy of Adversity: Transmuting Pain into Prosperity
From MTV wardrobe stylist to successful gym owner, Alli Arruda's journey is anything but conventional. After losing her brother at 18, she transformed her grief into a passion for fitness that would later become her life's work.
In this raw and inspiring conversation, Alli shares how she opened her dream gym just months before COVID hit, navigated multiple shutdowns, and emerged stronger than ever. She opens up about creating “positive propaganda” environments, building an intimate 100-person networking event from her backyard, and how losing her father fueled her drive to build multiple successful ventures. With candid stories from her MTV days (including an emergency styling session with Lo Bosworth) and practical wisdom on building community, this episode is a masterclass in turning life's biggest challenges into opportunities for growth.
Whether you're an entrepreneur, fitness enthusiast, or simply someone looking to transform pain into purpose, Alli's infectious energy and authentic approach to business and life will leave you inspired to take action on your own dreams.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:00] Book announcement: "Higher Self Habits" now available on Audible
[01:05] Introduction of guest Alli Arruda - business owner, podcast host, investor, and co-founder of Benchmark Fitness
[04:10] Alli shares her journey starting as an MTV wardrobe stylist in Toronto after fashion school
[07:33] Story about styling Lo Bosworth when her luggage didn't arrive for The Hills After Show
[13:19] Alli opens up about losing her brother at age 18 and how it led her to develop healthy fitness habits
[19:05] Discussion of opening Benchmark Fitness in June 2019, right before COVID hit
[28:15] Explanation of "positive propaganda" and creating encouraging environments
[33:04] Story behind creating Women Inspiring Women events, starting in her backyard in 2021
[39:45] How Alli got into investing, including investments in Glōci and Frollo
[45:05] Reflection on using life's challenges as motivation to build multiple successful businesses
[47:14] Where to find Alli: Instagram @inspireandmove and the Inspire Move podcast
Connect with Alli on Instagram@inspireandmove
Listen to Alli’s podcast,Inspire + Move
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Get glōci, the skincare routine you can drink and get 15% off with code ALESSIA
Get Alessia’s book,Higher Self Habits
Now available onAudible!Get a free 30-day trial!
KEYWORDS:Alli Arruda, fitness journey, Benchmark Fitness, unhealthy relationship with food, mental health support, fitness and grief, COVID-19 challenges, gym renovation, Women Inspiring Women, community support, healthy lifestyle choices, nourishing food, sobriety benefits, Girlfriends Walk, high-level networking, personal development, social isolation, mental well-being, body positivity, positive content, personal branding, entrepreneurship, fitness community, fitness events, career progression, luxury automotive marketing, pandemic resilience, business expansion, recovery services, investment strategies, mindset coaching

174. Your Best Year Yet: Reflection + Action from My 39th Birthday
In this special birthday episode, recorded on her 39th birthday, Alessia Citro shares two transformative exercises to help listeners plan an intentional 2025. The first exercise guides you through a reflective year-end review, helping identify patterns in both successes and challenges from the past year. The second focuses on strategic planning, teaching listeners how to break down big goals into actionable steps. Alessia shares her personal insights, including her goals for turning 40 - from getting in the best physical shape of her life to funding an international family vacation through her business. She also discusses practical planning tools and the importance of daily spiritual practices. The episode wraps up with an invitation to her Vision Board Workshop on December 29th at 4 PM Pacific, where she'll share her proven manifestation techniques. Whether you're looking to uplevel your business, improve your health, or deepen your spiritual practice, this episode provides the framework to make 2025 your breakthrough year.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:42] Introduction of two exercises for 2025 planning: reflection and intention setting.
[02:32] Instructions for year-end review exercise starting with monthly reflection.
[05:25] Guidance on connecting with your highest self and identifying peak experiences.
[07:31] Process for identifying patterns in your best moments and challenges.
[11:32] Strategic visualization exercise for New Year's Eve 2025 goal-setting.
[15:33] Discussion of planning tools including Big Ass Calendar and task management.
[18:19] Importance of daily spiritual practice and outdoor time.
[19:52] Choosing and implementing a guiding word for the year.
[20:40] Announcement of upcoming Vision Board Workshop on December 29th. Learn more at alessiacitro.com/vision
Shoutout to my mentor, Rebecca Cafiero for the opening exercise! Follow her on Instagram @RebeccaCafiero
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Jesse Itzler’s Big A## Calendar
Join me for a vision board workshop on December 29! Learn more at alessiacitro.com/vision
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KEYWORDS: Higher Self Habits, strategic framework, spiritual framework, book on Audible, small consistent actions, year-end review, intention setting, reflective exercise, mentor Rebecca Cafiero, highlights and themes, life alignment, purpose fulfillment, pivotal moments, challenges and successes, travel goals, family international trips, planning ahead, nervous system recalibration, stress management, outdoor time, breathing exercises, EFT tapping, high-level planning, Jesse Itzler big ass calendar, Notion operating system, meal planning, spiritual practices, word of the year, vision board workshop, manifestation.

173. Hanna Bier on Money Bliss: A New Approach to Financial Abundance
In this mind-expanding episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with money coach Hannah Bier for a powerful conversation about recreating our relationship with money from the inside out.
Hannah shares groundbreaking insights about how our early experiences with love directly mirror our current relationship with money, and why true abundance requires healing emotional blocks rather than just chasing higher numbers. Through fascinating concepts like "soul money numbers" and the wisdom of honeybees, Hannah challenges conventional thinking about wealth while offering practical tools for shifting from scarcity to overflow.
Whether you're struggling with receiving, caught in the "more, more, more" mindset, or simply ready to transform your financial reality, this conversation offers both profound wisdom and actionable steps for creating wealth without sacrificing well-being.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[02:29] - Introduction of Hannah Bier, money coach who helps women recreate their relationship with money and step into financial overflow
[03:43] - Hannah shares how she discovered money healing through her work as an emotional healing coach, noticing financial "side effects" in clients
[04:54] - Discussion of how money and emotions are both forms of energy, and how emotional healing naturally leads to financial abundance
[06:36] - Exploration of how money is deeply connected to how we give and receive love
[13:14] - Introduction of the concept that money is emotionally charged and how it affects our relationship with finances
[29:36] - Discussion of soul money numbers and how they differ from traditional financial goals
[42:39] - Explanation of how soul money numbers align with one's soul path and make manifestation easier
[47:37] - Deep dive into creativity's role in healing money relationships and how we are "infinite creator beings"
[51:22] - Discussion of how creating forces us to face ourselves and why that can be uncomfortable
[53:47] - Powerful insight about how entrepreneurs "get paid for healing" themselves through business growth
[54:26] - Closing message about abundance being our natural state and following our inner compass
[56:15] - Information about Hannah's Money Bliss program, book "Wealth From Within," and free wealth creation ritual
Connect with Hanna on Instagram @hannamoneybliss
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Free Gift: The 10 Min Wealth Creation Ritual
Hanna's new book, Wealth From Within
The Soul of Money by Lynne Twist
Get Alessia’s book, Higher Self Habits
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KEYWORDS:
money mindset, abundance mindset, financial healing, money blocks, wealth consciousness, receiving money, money energy, soul money numbers, financial overflow, money trauma, emotional healing, intuitive money, financial freedom, money relationships, wealth creation, abundance manifestation, money patterns, financial worthiness, generational money patterns, money coaching, financial transformation, energy healing, money psychology, wealth from within, financial empowerment, money beliefs, abundance blocks, financial self-worth, creative money flow, intuitive business, money consciousness, financial abundance, wealth mindset, receiving language, money bliss, abundance is, soul path, divine design, creator beings, financial overflow, money healing, emotional baggage, wealth creation ritual, infinite abundance, money blocks, energetic alignment, financial transformation, soul contracted clients, divine downloads, money consciousness, financial ease, abundance mindset, wealth without sacrifice

172. Dr. Emily Jacobs: Breaking the Motherhood Martyrdom Cycle
In this powerful episode of INHABIT, host Alessia Citro sits down with Dr. Emily Jacobs, a former nurse turned leadership coach and founder of Empowered Moms, for a raw and honest conversation about breaking generational cycles and redefining motherhood. From challenging the "busy badge of honor" mentality to practical advice about kids' activities and birthday parties, Dr. Jacobs shares vulnerable insights and actionable strategies for mothers who want to pursue their dreams while raising children. Whether you're struggling with boundaries, battling mom guilt, or just seeking permission to prioritize yourself, this conversation offers both validation and practical wisdom for creating a life you love - even if it means disappointing others along the way.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[02:06] - Introduction of guest Dr. Emily Jacobs - former 20+ year doctorate level nurse turned leadership/empowerment coach and founder of Empowered Moms
[02:30] - Discussion of how seeing impact on others fuels motivation to keep going as an author/speaker
[04:01] - Conversation about balancing motherhood and business ownership, managing overwhelm
[05:14] - Emily shares story about watching her own mother's dreams die at motherhood and the impact it had
[11:48] - Important discussion about breaking generational cycles by apologizing to our children
[15:47] - Redefining self-care beyond luxury/pampering to essential well-being practices
[30:36] - Tips for managing busy schedules and activities with kids, including Sunday check-ins with partner
[37:07] - Practical advice about handling kids' activities and managing expectations (including pro tip: don't tell kids plans too far in advance)
[41:16] - Strategies for handling birthday party invites, including coordinating with other parents
[44:08] - Closing message about connecting with your inner child and remembering who you were at age 7
[45:32] - Information about Empowered Moms company, annual October event in Michigan, and monthly networking opportunities
Connect with Dr. Emily @dremilyjacobs and sign up for her live events and newsletter at empoweredmoms.co
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Get Dr. Emily’s book, Live Your Life For You (Not Your Mom)
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KEYWORDS: generational cycles, self-care practices, family communication issues, coping mechanisms, breaking generational patterns, emotional impact on children, boundaries in relationships, self-respect, self-responsibility, mentoring mothers, motherhood challenges, personal growth, breaking old cycles, vulnerability, parenting differences, apologizing in parenting, motherhood and entrepreneurship, personal well-being, community support for moms, generational trauma, redefining self-care, personal journey, motherhood sacrifices, spiritual signs, writing about family issues, grief and acceptance, societal expectations on women, managing children's activities, balancing work and parenting, prioritizing personal needs, competitive busyness

171. Jillian Riddell: Divorce-Proof Your Marriage —Going Beyond Date Nights & Love Languages
In this powerful episode, trauma nurse turned relationship expert Jillian Riddell shares her journey from near-divorce to deep connection and provides practical tools for emotional awareness and relationship growth. From understanding baseline emotions to scheduling intimacy, this conversation offers actionable steps for anyone looking to strengthen their relationships and emotional intelligence.
About Jillian:
Jillian Riddell's life has been marked by profound personal transformation, shaped by her origins and relationships. Raised in a broken family, she carried the weight of being a secret child for 18 years, hidden by her father due to the circumstances of her birth. This pivotal experience instilled in her a unique perspective on life and relationships. Through her journey of self-discovery, Jillian recognized the importance of addressing personal blind spots, often unveiled by those closest to us. Her story emphasizes the significance of understanding and overcoming one's past to foster meaningful connections and personal growth.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[03:36] - Jillian shares her powerful story of meeting her husband in Las Vegas and how their shared trauma initially connected them
[04:31] - The concept of "grief cases" in relationships and how unresolved emotional baggage can accumulate over time
[14:20] - Introduction to the three-column exercise for emotional awareness: stressors, emotional reactions, and current responses
[17:46] - How to identify and document your stressors to understand emotional patterns
[23:49] - Creating an "emotional playlist" of positive experiences to draw from during challenging times
[30:56] - The science behind heart rate variability and how emotions affect physical responses
[43:49] - Discussion on baseline emotions and how they shape our perception of experiences
[51:05] - The importance of scheduling date nights and trying new activities together
[57:27] - Candid conversation about scheduling intimacy and creating safe spaces in relationships
Connect with Jillian on Instagram @lifewithoutsecretspodcast
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
The Adventure Challenge Couples Edition Book
Life Without Secrets Couples Course
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KEYWORDS: Emotional Intelligence, Relationship Growth, Heart Rate Variability, Trauma Healing, Couples Therapy, Emotional Awareness, Love Languages, Marriage Success, Stress Management, Intimacy, Communication Skills, Personal Development, Date Night Ideas, Emotional Patterns, Heart Math, Breathing Techniques, Emotional Manifestation, Emotional Release, Heart-Focused Breathing, Emotional Baseline, Nervous System Responses, Introspective Questions, Emotional Burdens in Relationships, Deeper Connections, Emotional Playlist, Resilience and Confidence, Energy Transformation, Practical Breathing Advice, Vocabulary of Emotions, Relationship Communication, Mindful Breathing, Self-Awareness of Emotions, Intimate Scheduling, Safety and Oxytocin, Pattern Recognition, Emotional Vulnerability, Secrets in Relationships, Intentional Rest, Heart-Brain Communication, Emotional Energy Levels, Relationship Goals, The Adventure Challenge, Couples Therapy

170. The Perfect Storm: Tracy Matthews Interviews Alessia Citro on How COVID, Wine, and a Stranger on a Plane Changed Everything
In this unique episode, host Alessia Citro is interviewed by Tracy Matthews, a 7-figure business mentor and bestselling author of The Desired Brand Effect.
Alessia shares her journey from corporate tech to entrepreneurship, including her struggles with identity, alcohol-use disorder, and finding alignment. She discusses her book Higher Self Habits and provides valuable insights on habit formation, overcoming limiting beliefs, and designing behaviors that stick.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:01:36] Tracy introduces Alessia and begins the interview
[00:02:17] Alessia shares her story of working at Google during COVID and identity crisis
[00:03:46] Building a 7-figure wine business and struggles with alcohol
[00:05:29] Series of synchronistic events in Maui leading to quitting Google
[00:08:05] Discovery of habits and creating a framework for women
[00:15:47] The Higher Self Habits Method™ five-step framework: Awareness, Alignment, Audit, Activate, and Ascension
[00:19:03] Discussion on negative self-talk and naming the inner critic
[00:21:16] Understanding the brain's evolution and why we have limiting beliefs
00:39:05] The ACTS framework for habit design: Ambition, Capability, Trigger, Satisfaction
[00:45:02] Information about finding the book and audiobook creation process
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Connect with Tracy at @tracymatthewsny and @flourish_thrive and listen to her podcast, Thrive By Design, where this episode originally aired as episode 499.
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KEYWORDS: Habits, Personal development, Corporate dropout, Identity transformation, Entrepreneurship, Limiting beliefs, Brain science, Behavior design, Habit formation, Inner critic, Manifestation, Self-belief, Business automation, Personal growth, Mindset shifts, Fear management, Goal setting, Authentic success, Life transformation, Women in business

169. Kayla Fite: Holistic Fitness and Healing through Habits You Love
Fitness expert and podcast host Kayla Fite shares her journey from focusing solely on physical fitness to discovering the importance of mental and emotional well-being. After experiencing personal loss and toxic relationships, Kayla found healing through therapy, inner child work, and developing new habits. She now helps others break through their own limiting beliefs and create meaningful change in their lives.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[02:42] Kayla shares how her fitness journey began at age 13 and evolved into a career
[04:57] Discussion on why mental and emotional fitness can be harder than physical fitness
[07:11] Breaking down why people fall out of habits - the importance of belief systems
[13:01] Exploring the concept of self-limiting beliefs and the "locked closet" analogy
[16:11] Kayla discusses life-changing habits: therapy, journaling, meditation, and breathwork
[28:17] The importance of having specific targets in self-improvement journeys
[31:21] Kayla shares personal insights about her mother and the importance of self-identity
[34:32] Framework for goal setting: physical, intellectual, and creative goals
[35:38] Discussion about Kayla's podcast and working with her fiancé
[39:05] Personal life updates - upcoming wedding and future projects
Connect with Kayla on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok at @habitsyoulove and @kayla.fite
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
To Be Magnetic – app/podcast for inner child work and healing
Mel Robbins podcast episode about getting unstuck
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KEYWORDS: Self-healing, Habit formation, Inner child work, Fitness transformation, Mental health, Personal development, Goal setting, Identity work, Therapy, Meditation, Breathwork, Limiting beliefs, Self-awareness, Accountability, Relationship healing, Target setting, Physical fitness, Emotional fitness, Self-sabotage, Transformation

168. The Higher Self ✨Daily Dose: Reclaim Your Power and Seek to UNDERSTAND
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167. The Higher Self ✨Daily Dose: Releasing Ghosts of the Past
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166. The Higher Self ✨Daily Dose: Personal Style as Personal Development
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165. Melanie Herschorn: Books as Catalysts for Business Growth and Authority
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of book publishing and marketing with Melanie Herschorn, a seasoned book marketing and publishing strategist. Drawing from her diverse background as a celebrity publicist and award-winning journalist, Melanie shares invaluable insights about turning books into powerful business growth tools.
The conversation weaves between Melanie's journey from PR to entrepreneurship and Alessia's fresh experiences as a new author, creating a rich dialogue about the realities of publishing. Together, they explore the nuances of traditional, hybrid, and independent publishing, while offering practical wisdom about overcoming perfectionism and leveraging books for professional opportunities.
This episode is particularly valuable for aspiring authors and business owners, as Melanie and Alessia discuss creating effective marketing ecosystems, building authentic authority, and the importance of sharing your story. From habit-building strategies to mindset work, they offer actionable insights for anyone considering writing a book or looking to maximize their book's impact.
This episode covers everything from choosing your publishing path to marketing strategies that actually work. If you’re contemplating writing a book, this episode is a must-listen!
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TIMESTAMPS:
[01:07] Melanie's background as a celebrity publicist and journey into book publishing and marketing
[02:50] Story of transitioning from celebrity PR after a challenging experience with a famous comedian
[04:11] Experience as a journalist and transition into entrepreneurship with breastfeeding clothing business
[13:31] Breakdown of different publishing paths: traditional, hybrid, and independent publishing
[21:08] The importance of having proper support through the book writing and publishing process
[28:20] Marketing strategy fundamentals: setting up social media, website, and lead magnets
[35:46] Melanie's passion for helping people share their stories and see their own potential
[43:00] Discussion on taking small steps vs getting overwhelmed by the big picture
[47:02] Tips for marketing your book long-term without feeling repetitive
Connect with Melanie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram @bigimpactbooks
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Get Melanie’s book, Make a Big Impact with Your Book: Author Marketing Strategies for Long-Term Success
Want to get your book in the hands of as many people as possible? Grab the FREE Ultimate Book Marketing Checklist to make sure you are using every marketing tool available to you when promoting your book and growing your audience. You will get:
Clarity on what to expect
Organized with your book marketing plan
Guidance to develop a lead magnet
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Need the time and space to write your book? Join me in Sedona, Arizona for a writers’ retreat in March! Learn more at alessiacitro.com/writing-retreat
KEYWORDS: Book Marketing, Publishing Strategy, Traditional Publishing, Hybrid Publishing, Self-Publishing, Independent Publishing, Manuscript Editing, Book Proofreading, Book Typos, Audiobook Recording, Author Platform, Author Branding, Social Media Marketing, Lead Magnets, Content Marketing, Content Promotion, Book Content Engine, Marketing Strategy, Business Growth, Professional Development, Authority Building, Public Speaking Engagements, Media Appearances, Non-Fiction Books, Memoir Writing, Book Writing Process, Publishing Ecosystem, Book Coaching, Personal Development, Mindset and Personal Growth, Overcoming Perfectionism, Self-Trust, Goal Achievement, Incremental Habit Formation, Overcoming Writing Barriers, Ultimate Book Marketing Checklist, Women's Writer's Retreat
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164. The Higher Self ✨Daily Dose: Mindful Movement [and Why it Matters]
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163. The Higher Self ✨Daily Dose: Planning and Pivoting
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162. The Higher Self ✨Daily Dose: Building Wealth in Relationships
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161. Bet on Yourself: Overcoming Gambling Addiction and Becoming an Ironman feat. Chaz Donati
In this powerful episode, Chaz Donati shares his raw and honest journey through gambling addiction and recovery. From innocent sports betting with friends to contemplating suicide, Chaz's story illuminates the progressive nature of gambling addiction and its devastating impacts. Now a mental health advocate and performance coach, he discusses how he transformed his addictive tendencies into positive outlets like completing Ironman competitions. This episode provides crucial insights into the growing crisis of sports gambling in America, while offering hope and resources for those struggling.
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TIMESTAMPS:
[00:02] Introduction and gambling addiction statistics in the US
[03:45] Chaz's early relationship with sports and how betting began
[06:11] The progression from casual betting to addiction
[10:25] Rock bottom moment and contemplating suicide in July 2021
[21:03] Find Your More - Chaz's framework for recovery and growth
[35:42] Shocking Super Bowl betting statistics: $23 billion wagered in 2024
[43:13] How Chaz rebuilt his life and mindset after addiction
[51:49] Fighting addiction as a lifelong journey
CONNECT WITH CHAZ:
Instagram: @chazdonati
YouTube: Gambling Awareness Club
YouTube: Find Your More
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
"From Darkness to Ironman" documentary on YouTube
The Power of One More by Ed Mylett*
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KEYWORDS: gambling addiction, sports betting, sports gambling, recovery, mental health, male mental health, sports gambling, NFL betting, addiction recovery, fantasy football, Super Bowl betting, compulsive gambling, gambling harm, gambling prevention recovery, endurance athlete, Ironman training, addiction transformation, habit change, men's mental health awareness, sports addiction, betting addiction, gambling help, gambling support, gambling rehabilitation, fantasy sports addiction, gambling recovery resources
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160. The Higher Self ✨Daily Dose: Shift the Energy of Your Environment
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159. The Higher Self ✨Daily Dose: Teach to Learn
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